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How to be the perfect man for her
5 things to be better at for her
It's not difficult. Men make being a man seem so challenging. It is really a lot easier than you think. Now me being a guy, I must admit, there are always going to be situations with some females where it just seems impossible. But I assure you, if you do the things in this article, I guarantee you to have much better success with your relationships with females.
I would be very naïve to sit here and act like I am perfect. Because I am far from that. But, from my experiences and women I have been with here are about 5 pointers that will help you be that right guy for her.
Now this may seem kind of simple right? But you will be amazed at how much better your relationship with your woman will be if you just listen to her. Me being a guy, I understand fellas, sometimes you just do not really feel like hearing those long stories. Sometime you could really care less about what Gina said about Tina and how Tracy almost fought Pam. But listening to her, remembering the conversations and actually interacting will go a long way. Not only will you deal with a much less bitter woman, it will open up doors of sex and connection you've never had before. Never know, she just might tell you something you need to hear.
2:SPENDING QUALITY TIME
This list is in no particular order, but if it was, this would go near the top. Spending time with your girl is sooooo important. Let me explain what I mean by quality time, because a lot of dudes just do not know. Spending time with her is not just being in the same room at the same time for a certain period of time. Guys, you have to understand, if she is really interested in you she'll want to learn as much about you as possible. So she needs to spend quality time with you to understand you better. Ultimately you want to make her happy, you want to be able to connect with her and have a better understanding of where she is coming from. So doing things like going for a walk, going to a dinner, doing something that she likes doing. Things like these are quality time activities. Spend more quality time with your girl and see the difference.
3: SUPPORT HER
You must understand fellas, women are driven by emotion. Guys are driven by ego. So you being there for her is very much important. Be there as often as you can. Show up at her events, help her with her work if possible, participate in her hobbies with her; be supportive. It is not that difficult if it is important to you. Be supportive of what she's trying to accomplish and watch how you and her both reap the benefits.
4: COMPLIMENT HER AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE
There is nothing a woman really loves more than when her man tells her just how good she looks or how good she is at something. Just imagine the response you'll get if your girl was to walk in the room and you just out the blue say "baby you are so gorgeous". She will light up like a Christmas tree. Why? Because again, women are emotionally driven. They second guess and doubt their looks all day everyday. Steadily subconscious about how they smell or appear to people. Nothing help secures that like her man letting her know often just how attractive she is. So compliment your lady. Tell her she's beautiful. Because honestly, she is.
5: BE HONEST
This has to be the most simple and most common sense one of them all. I understand how difficult it is sometimes in certain situations, trust and believe I do. But honesty is the key to a long lasting relationship. You have to be candid in your relationship for it to remotely work. If you make a mistake, depending on the mistake, it is ok because things happen. We are all human at the end of the day and we all mess up. But hiding a secret or lying about something to cover it up will only make things worse. Keep it real with your woman, be as official as possible, and you are giving your relationship with her the best possible opportunity to survive.