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In Lack of Defense

Updated on January 29, 2016
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Daddy hurt me, Mommy, and I tell you now

Male ego is wanton, and karma will not endow

Trust and a future of excuses and lack of reason

Time is of the essence in any life or season.


His power is lost to those who have strength

Even though Southern values will go to any length

To preserve his destruction and sullen critique

As his backhand is strong due to muscular physique.


Raised in an old fashioned and headstrong sense,

Used to coverups, and brainwashing is a sad consequence.

That little girl who relied on right over might

Cannot fully understand her life, now contrite.


Yet she will stand by any man wrong or right

Without even realizing her own shallow plight.

She just cannot see that her life, cast with doubt

Sooner or later will bite her in life throughout.


Sell your sad loyalty to the highest bidder

But think hard and fast before you consider

What impact it has on an innocent party

Don’t sell your soul for a righteous cup of coffee.


Lie awake nights and play over what you’ve done

And remember your own devils can’t be outrun.

So think twice before you strike, hold your tongue

Don’t sell anyone out just to belong.


Just because mother did what you could see

Don’t become her as a self-appointee.

Yes, stand by your man for the right reasons

Not for the sake of betrayal or impudent treason.


Friends will see through your imminent ruse

And cast you aside without any clues.

So hear me now, and do take offense

For your own fiery ways in lack of defense.

© 2016 Deb Hirt

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    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Hey, Surabhi! I am VERY spirited, indeed.

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      Surabhi Kaura 

      2 years ago

      Intersting, Deb! What a splendid poem with a powerful message. Keep up this spirit. Love you!

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Hey, Audrey! That is such a true statement. It is hard to keep silent on matters as important as this. Thanks for your support.

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      Audrey Hunt 

      2 years ago from Idyllwild Ca.

      A powerful message that far too many of us can relate to. Abuse is the worst and affects the abused for the rest of their life. Well done!

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      I like and support it, Jackie, but may not be able to get to it for a while.

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      Jackie Lynnley 

      2 years ago from The Beautiful South

      Did you see this here at HP Deb? Hope you will take part. Spread the word if you like it. https://hubpages.com/literature/forum/135479/call-...

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Thanks, Larry. Hope that you are well on this fine Okie afternoon in Payne County.

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      Larry Rankin 

      2 years ago from Oklahoma

      Beautifully said.

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Hey, Faith Reaper! Thanks so much for the shares, as we must get the word out to everyone. We must be good stewards to our natural environment, or we will lose it.

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      Faith Reaper 

      2 years ago from southern USA

      Wow, Deb, your poetry is phenomenal and packs a powerful punch! Bravo for bringing awareness to such blatant brutality and evil arrogance. We need to scream to the top of the world when this happens. Sharing everywhere

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Thanks for reading, Barbara!

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      Barbara Badder 

      2 years ago from USA

      I love your writing and beautiful photos. Well done.

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Exactly, Lawrence. If we cannot be loyal to ourselves and our families, can we be loyal tom anyone else? It is interesting to think about it, eh?

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Hey, Mary! Sometimes the human condition is caused by humanity itself. Let's see if we can keep people from hurting each other.

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      Lawrence Hebb 

      2 years ago from Hamilton, New Zealand

      I don't think I can 'take offence' despite the encouragement to in the last verse! But I will ponder the wisdom here.

      Loved this poem, but then I've always struggled with those who lack loyalty and this seems to encourage us to be loyal to ourselves and those we hold dear!

      Awesome

      Lawrence

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      Mary Craig 

      2 years ago from New York

      Brutality benefits no one and covering it up is a worse chrome. Beautifully said Deb.

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Thanks, rdsparrowriter!

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Yes, Meldz, it sure is. What to do, what to do?

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      rdsparrowriter 

      2 years ago

      Profound and interesting message Deb :)

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      ignugent17 

      2 years ago

      Very powerful and full of emotion Deb.

      It is sad but it is happening.

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      This month's spread is all about the topic in the magazine, including what has melted. There will be a lot of flooding, which is already causing problems in FL, as a result.

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      Jackie Lynnley 

      2 years ago from The Beautiful South

      Great message Deb. There are way too many blind mothers out there to take it one step further. Enablers.

      Haven't come across the Audubon article yet but love the site so much I have it in favorites and will get to it.

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      It's all over Oklahoma, too.

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      Nell Rose 

      2 years ago from England

      You hit the nail with this one! so true, and close to home, him (partner) not me!

      Powerful stuff Deb, nell

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Hey, ChitrangadaSharan! Thanks for reading and appreciating what this poetry stands for. You never know, do you?

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      Chitrangada Sharan 

      2 years ago from New Delhi, India

      Excellent poem--most emotional with a powerful message!

      These are cold hard truths of life that most of us experience once in a while.

      You expressed it very well!

      Thank you for sharing!

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      These things happen, Sha. But strength also happens with numbers, too.

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      Shauna L Bowling 

      2 years ago from Central Florida

      I'll never understand people who wrong others and tell them not to tell. That in itself screams "this is wrong!" The bruised souls turn bitter and become broken, never to mend entirely. The haunting never stops.

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      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      agusfanani, thanks for coming by, as well as your input.

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      agusfanani 

      2 years ago from Indonesia

      I've learned lessons in life which are not only about happiness but also sadness. Thanks for sharing good message in your poem.

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Thanks for reading, Gypsy Rose Lee. I appreciate your opinion.

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      Gypsy Rose Lee 

      2 years ago from Riga, Latvia

      Most emotional and powerful poetry.

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      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Thanks, manatita. It had to be said.

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      manatita44 

      2 years ago from london

      Wow! Deb! That was a powerful one! I really admire your stance and essential messages here. Carry on!

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Dora, I appreciate your input. Not only does this start in families, but it spreads to other segments of life in adulthood, after the damage is already done. Then it creates even more damage. The human condition is truly at odds with itself.

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      Dora Weithers 

      2 years ago from The Caribbean

      Couldn't be more timely. "Coverups, and brainwashing" are still the order in in many families. They needs to be replaced with the right teaching, "Don’t sell anyone out just to belong." Good job!

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Thanks, Dave. Sometimes these things real their ugly heads and I must get my two cents worth in.

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      Dave 

      2 years ago from Lancashire north west England

      So well written and the message so true,you have done a wonderful piece here Deb.

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      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Workplace abuse, Jodah. The Good O' Boys Club can do no wrong, including either the hung over or intoxicated new employee, which I found out about the next day from his cousin, who also works there.

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      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Hey, Linda! The subtitle is "Bosses from Hell."

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      John Hansen 

      2 years ago from Queensland Australia

      Wow Deb, powerful stuff. Important message for both sides of abuse.

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      Linda Crampton 

      2 years ago from British Columbia, Canada

      This poem has a powerful and important message, Deb. Thank you for creating it.

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Thanks, Missy! The funny thing is, some of these people think nothing that they are doing is anything but normal. That's why arresting skills are SO important.

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      Missy Smith 

      2 years ago from Florida

      This is a sad reality for so many. I hope a lot will read it, especially the ones who need to view it and realize their wrong doings. They are out there, and I hope they get this message. Great poem as always!

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Yes, on this one, Demas. This one is someone that I have worked with.

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      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      And thank you for reading, m abdullah javed.

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      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Thanks, Eldon. I appreciate your having read this one.

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      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Thanks, Billy.

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      Demas W Jasper 

      2 years ago from Today's America and The World Beyond

      Here you are! Writers typically write from personal experience. Is yours in this one? Well constructed. More! More!

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      muhammad abdullah javed 

      2 years ago

      Great message. Powerful feelings. Thanks for sharing.

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      Eldon Arsenaux 

      2 years ago from Cooley, Texas

      An easy-to-read poem, with pulse-pounding cadence and a strong, self-assuring message that does not dice words up to enshroud their unified importance. A critique of granting loyalty to those that do not deserve it, but showing love to those that do.

      'For your own fiery ways in lack of defense' is a splendid line, full of fire,

      -E.G.A.

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      Bill Holland 

      2 years ago from Olympia, WA

      Abuse, in any form, is wrong. Pretending it doesn't happen will never make it go away and will only delay the inevitable....poems like this one are so very important, Deb. A job well-done.

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Thanks, Shaloo. I guess I did my part.

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      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Frank, I'm glad that the message was loud, as it needs to be...

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      Shaloo Walia 

      2 years ago from India

      I loved the strong message in the poem. Great!

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      Frank Atanacio 

      2 years ago from Shelton

      aviannovice this was very well done and message was loud...:)

    • aviannovice profile imageAUTHOR

      Deb Hirt 

      2 years ago from Stillwater, OK

      Thank you, Audrey. I do believe that I had a good subject.

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      Audrey Howitt 

      2 years ago from California

      This one got me in the gut Deb--well done!

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