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It's The Perks of Being a Wallflower

Updated on May 16, 2016

The Title

I had trouble grasping the meaning of the title, then I saw and read this part of the scene.
I had trouble grasping the meaning of the title, then I saw and read this part of the scene. | Source
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A story of permanent moment

I remember how I waited for this novel to be on screen,wishing it will not to fail. How many times have you seen a novel or a book turned into a film and failed to meet the expectations of the readers? For me, it was awfully a lot.

I have read the book before the film and yet, it gave me the same astonishing effect. Blame it to the author and Director of the film, STEPHEN CHBOSKY. Wow, I'm really having a hard time remembering his last name .

If there is one thing I wish could've done in high school, it would be reading his book. EVERY HIGH SCHOOL STUDENT SHOULD WATCH or READ, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, because of it's serious perks.

The best part of the film.

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The beginning: Because it's actually happeningWhen Logan was writing: On that scene, I know he is perfect to the character Charlie.Ezra Miller made justice on the free spirited Patrick of the book. Such a live wire he is on his scenesThat Mixtape: this film introduced me to great timeless music. This is where I met "The Smiths". Will you believe me if I told you that on her first appearance, I have heard the whole audience at awe and excited including me to those who are at awe. Seeing her not as Hermoine is just profoundly new.The party of 3: Seeing them dance and not care of what others may think? Who wouldn't want to be part of that party. this part was throbbing: This is the part where I realize how unaware Charlie was on his situation. He didn't knew how fragile he was.You know how you have these thoughts. Thoughts that you can not put in words and make perfect sense. This is one of many. How Stephen made those thoughts in brief sentences.The group of friends they have: Somehow, I believe that there are different people in this world that I still not met. Their group remind me of that.That question: You know how you wonder why  and had a difficulty of finding the right word again. well he did this wellthat brief answer: It's a short answer but the meaning is beyond deep.when someone give you Mixtapes, better give them credit. Because it doesn't looks as easy.When they waited for the sun to set.the moments before the end of a chapter: the series of moments that countdown to new chapter for a  new set of paths.
The beginning: Because it's actually happening
The beginning: Because it's actually happening | Source
When Logan was writing: On that scene, I know he is perfect to the character Charlie.
When Logan was writing: On that scene, I know he is perfect to the character Charlie. | Source
Ezra Miller made justice on the free spirited Patrick of the book. Such a live wire he is on his scenes
Ezra Miller made justice on the free spirited Patrick of the book. Such a live wire he is on his scenes | Source
That Mixtape: this film introduced me to great timeless music. This is where I met "The Smiths".
That Mixtape: this film introduced me to great timeless music. This is where I met "The Smiths". | Source
Will you believe me if I told you that on her first appearance, I have heard the whole audience at awe and excited including me to those who are at awe. Seeing her not as Hermoine is just profoundly new.
Will you believe me if I told you that on her first appearance, I have heard the whole audience at awe and excited including me to those who are at awe. Seeing her not as Hermoine is just profoundly new. | Source
The party of 3: Seeing them dance and not care of what others may think? Who wouldn't want to be part of that party.
The party of 3: Seeing them dance and not care of what others may think? Who wouldn't want to be part of that party. | Source
this part was throbbing: This is the part where I realize how unaware Charlie was on his situation. He didn't knew how fragile he was.
this part was throbbing: This is the part where I realize how unaware Charlie was on his situation. He didn't knew how fragile he was. | Source
You know how you have these thoughts. Thoughts that you can not put in words and make perfect sense. This is one of many. How Stephen made those thoughts in brief sentences.
You know how you have these thoughts. Thoughts that you can not put in words and make perfect sense. This is one of many. How Stephen made those thoughts in brief sentences. | Source
The group of friends they have: Somehow, I believe that there are different people in this world that I still not met. Their group remind me of that.
The group of friends they have: Somehow, I believe that there are different people in this world that I still not met. Their group remind me of that. | Source
That question: You know how you wonder why  and had a difficulty of finding the right word again. well he did this well
That question: You know how you wonder why and had a difficulty of finding the right word again. well he did this well | Source
that brief answer: It's a short answer but the meaning is beyond deep.
that brief answer: It's a short answer but the meaning is beyond deep. | Source
when someone give you Mixtapes, better give them credit. Because it doesn't looks as easy.
when someone give you Mixtapes, better give them credit. Because it doesn't looks as easy. | Source
When they waited for the sun to set.
When they waited for the sun to set. | Source
the moments before the end of a chapter: the series of moments that countdown to new chapter for a  new set of paths.
the moments before the end of a chapter: the series of moments that countdown to new chapter for a new set of paths. | Source
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When you make the decision for the prioritize the person you love first, it doesn't really count as love.

You know the time when you make a decision, for the thought that you are making it for people you love because you wanted them to feel happy. Some say the cowardice choice because you refuse to make a decision that you thought they will not be happy about.

Well, Sam made a clear statement of that wrong practice of our's :

Sam: Then why didn't you ever ask me out?

Charlie: I, um... I just didn't think that you wanted that

Sam: Well, what did you want?

Charlie: I just want you to be happy

Sam: Don't you get Charlie? I can't feel that. It's really sweet and everything, but you can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of you and think that counts as love.

What I pulled out from this scene is this: We often sacrifice ourselves to people we love. We forget how to risk and try, fearing that it will damage what we have for them. And that specific selfless act is love to you but not to them because they don't feel that, thus it really could not count as love.

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