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"Never Say Never In Life''

Updated on July 18, 2011

"Never Say Never In Life"

I"ve learned to never say never in my life.
I"ve learned to never say never in my life.

"Never Say Never In Life"

I've learned to never say never, because life'smexperiences will make you life to yourself every time. Saying you will never do certain things in life is a big mistake. We live in a world of changing times and some of us are quick to say what we want or wouldn't do,if we were in a precarious situation...but I found out the hard way that you're putting yourself in a trick bag, when we make such statements.. I never thought I was any better than anyone else, but when it came down to certain things in my life....I thought for sure that I wouldn't do certain things, but circumstances in life made a big liar of me.Many times, I said i wouldn't never do certain things in my life, but circumstances made me lie to myself. So now that I know that saying what you want do is not an option because we always do what we say you want do

How many times have you said that you wouldn't do, a certain thing and end up doing the very thing that you said you wouldn't do. Making this statement, without thinking...puts us in a vulnerable situation,where we end up eating our words. I finally come to the realization that it'snot safe or logical to tell yourself or anyone else what you want do in life, because the circumstances of life will make a liar out of you every time. Now since I know the truth, I make it a habit of saying ,I will try not to do certain things instead of stating what I want do. I know for a fact that everyone reading this hub has said what they want do at one time or another, only to realize that they lied to themselves because they did exactly what they said they wouldn't do. So do your self a big favor and never say never.

Benny Faye Douglass (C) Copyright 2011

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you Oballesansano, for your visit and comment, I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      oballesansano 5 years ago

      What a nice hub, and yes, never say never.

      This reminds me of Justin Beiber's song...Never say Never ...

      voted up +1

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you KraziKat, for your visit and comment,I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you Paul, for your visit and comment, it's best not to say never, than you want be dicouraged when you do the thing you thought you wouldn't do. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you Audrey for your visit and comment, I appreciate your feedback. God bless you. creativeone59

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      Ophelia Madden 5 years ago from Pacific Northwest

      Very true! Thanks Creativeone59!

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you MGunner,for stopping by my hubs with very profound feedback, I appreciate you. God bless you. creativeone59

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Hi SusieQ, thank you for your visit and comment, and I agree 100% with you. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      paulgc 5 years ago

      Thank you Creativeone59,

      I will never say never again.

      voted up and useful.

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      Audrey Kirchner 5 years ago from Central Oregon

      Absolutely agree~

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      MeGunner 5 years ago from Lagos

      This hub expressed a profound reality in a very succint manner. Saying 'Never' puts us @ the risk of exposing the hypocrite in us, even with the best of our intentions. Thanks for sharing. Nice hub...

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      SusieQ42 5 years ago

      Negative words bring negative results! You're right; never say never!

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you dahoglund, what you say is true, but we must strive to do better with our intentions. God bless you my friend. creativeone59

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you Will, for your visit and comment, I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you Hello my friend, yes it's true, I cannot lie. we have to be careful what we say because sometimes it comes back to haunt us. God bless you. creativeone59

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you Ruby, for your visit and feedback, after a while you start saying I will try not to, fear of being made a liar. Godspeed my friend. creativeone59

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Lisa, old habit do die hard. Thank you for your visit and feeback,I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you Binaya, for your visit and comment,and what you sayis true. God bless you. creativeone59

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      Don A. Hoglund 5 years ago from Wisconsin Rapids

      Good intentions often fall to the wayside.

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      WillStarr 5 years ago from Phoenix, Arizona

      Woderful thoughts, Benny Faye!

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      Hello, hello, 5 years ago from London, UK

      Every word is so very true. Well done hub.

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      Ruby Jean Fuller 5 years ago from Southern Illinois

      You're right Benny Faye, i've had to back-track many times. I find if i say, " I wouldn't want to do that " It's better. Thank you.

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      lisabeaman 5 years ago from Phoenix, AZ

      I used to say that to my kids when they were little... I said it so often that my daughter started to think that "never" was a bad word. Any time I would say, "Never say never", her eyes would widen and she would go, "Mom! You just said it!"

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      Binaya.Ghimire 5 years ago

      You are brave and honest in this hub but sometimes I feel easier said than done.

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you Caroline,for relating to this statement we just have to be careful not to put our foot in our mouth. LOL. Thank you for your visit and feedback. God bless you. creativeone59

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      benny Faye Douglass 5 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you sunshine, for your visit and comment, I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      CarolineVABC 5 years ago

      Hi CreativeOne! Thank you for sharing this hub. It is very true that there are certain times in our lives that we do say, "I will never do certain things," and yet, those are the very things that we find ourselves doing. So, it is better to say, "I will try NOT to do..." I certainly agree with what you are saying. Sometimes, it all depends upon the situation, whether it calls for a much more complicated decision at hand. Thank you for sharing your wisdom, CreativeOne! Looking forward to reading more of your later hubs. God bless!

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      Linda Bilyeu 5 years ago from Orlando, FL

      Fantastic hub!! I've been in that position many, many times! No, no, no, no .... Okay. Think before we speak is a very important reminder. I'm still trying to get the hang of it. :)

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