Moral Decadence Among Youth :causes and Solutions.
If there is any topical issue that is rampant and dominates our everyday intellectual excursion and discussion or creating waves daily in the media, it is the problem of moral decadence among the youths. In fact, the problem, which initially was gradual in bites has now, attained the level that can best be described as the incurable cancer disease, the tentacles of which have spread into the nooks and crannies of the country.
At times one is at a loss where to begin to recount the numerous hills that have corroded our great and noble country through the youths. Do we begin from drug abuse, drug trafficking, robbery, social crimes, sexual permissiveness of child trafficking? What of the high level of material pursuit? It is for these reasons that this writes up has set out to take a critical look at the paramount problem confronting youths in our society today which is calling for intellectual debarkation and exposition that of “moral decadence”.
1. Moral Decadence:
To start with, “Moral decadence” in reference to the Oxford Advanced English Dictionary “Is falling to the low level of sound morality”. Hence, moral decadence is a situation whereby someone passes from a state of goodness to a lower state by losing qualities, which are considered normal, ethical and desirable.
However, going contrary to the norms of the state and the natural law and order. With this definition, one is never left at a loss about what these things earlier mentioned meant, but what to do about them by way of providing the solution. Proffering solution to a problem begging by identifying the problem and its cause. Generally, youth-hood is expected to commence immediately and simultaneously with puberty stage, at this stage both male and female are considered as an adolescent. Biologically, this period begins between the ages of eleven to fourteen years in female and commences perhaps by fourteen years among the males. The stage brought with it various change on both sexes.
Hence, any habit acquired at this stage has great influence on the person’s concern, because whatever becomes one habit, turn to one’s personality to be portrayed through his or her life time. Meaning that those traits are very difficult to eliminate either by the parent or the person himself.
2. Causes of Moral Decadence
i . The consequence of our past.
Many views abound as to what the causes of the problems are; some believed that it is the consequence of our past. According to the sage philosopher especially the civil war of 1967-1970. Others attribute it to the government take-over of schools as well as the lackadaisical attitudes of the parents towards the upbringing of their wards, hence, the adage “Charity begins at home”. To others, it may be connected with the proliferation of Churches. Whatever the case may be however, no one’s opinion could be done away with for all the above causes had contributed to the growth and even increasing wave of moral regeneration of decadence.
ii. Taking- over of the Schools by the government:
However, the civil war and the government take-over of schools are to be the major factors that paved way for moral degeneration in our society. The war rendered so many people homeless and poor. Lots and lots of undreamed ideas became realistic as only the fittest can survive. Some women were given to prostitution, many were given to harm rubbery while others resorted to other clandestine activities.
At the end of the war, people were back to their trade, school site out then the situation and changed drastically. Students had turned brutes, disrespectful, incorrigible, and disobedient youths. Anarchy began to reign. The take-over of school by the government suited the various teachers who were ready to sacrifice their teaching profession for private business. The school then started to decay for want of care.
iii. Religious and lack of effective moral instruction:
One other problem, I observe and believe, that contributed negatively and worsened the situation, and which I want all reasonable persons to note, is the missing linking between religion and modern education. I mean liberal and moderate religions. We must abhor any form of fanaticism and extremism in world religions.
Religious and effective moral instructions were the thrown to the wind. I wonder which society would try without a sound moral foundation.
The ever-increasing wave of mushroom churches does not help either since the new churches are business oriented. The much needed morality is not guaranteed. The Gospel has turned into rich offering which brings more blessing and not what good must I do to be saved. Everything is titled “Prosperity”.
iv. Non-nonchalant attitude of the parents:
The large chunk of irresponsible parents we have today are clearly responsible for the moral decadence that are common with the children and teenagers allover the world. Every parents you meet talks about the good old days when children were brought up with sound moral and ethical sanctity. Why is it that parents who are privileged to have received such quality upbringing in times past are the ones bringing up useless, irresponsible, and morally decadent children with little or no regard to societal norms and values? There is something seriously wrong and parents should take the blame for these shameful and troubling failures.
It is an irony! The truth is that parents have abdicated their primary responsibility of building up their homes and families in pursuit of wealth, riches, material things, career, pleasure and fun. And has developed all manner of excuses to justify their negligence of this noble duty. All to the detriment of the children who are now growing into monsters and deviant social misfit. What an awful experience!
The family that serves as the first grand of learning as also witnessed the upsurge of the reign of the maid, since today the mother is in Kano on business and the husband is in Hong-Kong for a trip. The children are hence poorly cared for, the love for children has now turned into love of money, and “the love of money is the source of all evils” (1 Tim.6:10).
The worst scenario is that his parents can no longer control children, Some people said that, it was due to poverty in the society. What? I beg to disagree. Call it societal moral decadence and indiscipline, then I will agree with you. Our society and nation at large is at a great risk if we fail now to fight this social menace of social, and especially, cyber crimes.
v. Arrogance of our present youths:
Another cause is the arrogance of our youths not to become useful to themselves and the society at large. Most of our youths are indolent - so lazy that they are no longer ready to work before becoming rich. The information and computer age has been wrongly applied and appreciated by our youths. We now swim in the dirty and virus-infested water of "Yahoo, Yahoo Boys and Girls!"
vi. Pangs of vision less leadership:
The bad examples being demonstrated by our holders of positions of authority in our country, to say the least, does not help matters at all, it has negative multiplier effects on our society. Their extravagant lifestyles have corrupted, not only the youths, but the whole society at large.
Our society is so infested with corruption virus to the extent that a 16 year-old boy knows how to dupe innocent foreigners on the internet and make thousands of dollars. The matured 'toddler' buys expensive cars and live like a don!
3. Solution to the problem of the moral decadence among the youth.
1. The need for censoring of the contents of what is being transmitted in the airwaves:
The digital revolution, that is, the internet age, has turned the world into a global village and we are now in for another trouble; though the invention of internet is not a bad idea after all, but all depend on the use to which it is so directed. Therefore, the need for censoring of the contents of what is being transmitted in the airwaves. The Information and Communications Technology (ICT) companies must be monitored and controlled by enabling laws.
2. Schools and parents must double their roles:
Schools and parents must double their roles in giving and making closed-door monitoring of what their wards are exposed to. This is necessary in order to prevent the youths from being exposed to salacious materials and imitating crimes they watch in films, among other insidious items.
The most profitable investment a society can possess is a crop of discipline and God fearing future leaders. This becomes a reality through proper attention, which creates an enabling environment for the children to learn and to unlearn the good things and various vices respectively in the society. This concern for the youngsters is to be carried out through proper direction and guidance, and even charities to them when the need arises.
The focus must not only be on their wrongdoing but also to encourage their good deeds. They become obstinate if castigate and their goodness never appreciated.
Nevertheless, one becomes a bad mentor if one desired to catch fish for them always rather than teaching them to catch fish. They should be taught to do things themselves having showed them the way. The attitude of some children as consumers and never producers retards their growth in all ramification of life. The elderly people are obliged to create the awareness among the youths of the great potentials in them that can brought to reality as their contribution to the societal growth, which must be accorded with suitable recognition for better and improved performance in the nearest future.
However, the stable of the youths today is the by-product of our society. It is an indisputable fact that the attitude the youth put up today is not innate but acquired. No thanks to the spirit of consumerism in our world, this is being encouraged by materialism. The mass involvement of the youth in vices is as a result of the societal projection of negativity at the expense of positive thinking or approach to things.
The onus now lies on the parents. I wish to remind all parents that they are obliged to pay proper attention to their children by given them the required guidance, direction and support children are God’s gift to parents and will be accountable to God as to how those gifts are being directed.
Many parents have failed in their duties because they pursue wealth thereby not creating time to attend to their children. Every family should examine itself to see how it has contributed to the vices in the society today and rectify it. If every family can courageously look inward to sanitize itself the youngsters will be probed of their vices and virtues planted.
Each family must be concerned about the way of life of every member of family. In as much as the parents are expected to lead, they must show good examples that can be emulated to live a life of deception makes the children live unfulfilled life.
3. Our governments must stand on their toes and religious bodies must be up and doing.
It may be some sacrifices are inescapable, great commitments must be made, new orientations must be developed, fresh ideas must be invented, directed at and added to combat crimes - serious or lesser ones. Our governments must stand on their toes and religious bodies must be up and doing. Education , being the bedrock of a nation must be overhauled, more and enough time and money must be pumped into this strategic sector.
In conclusion, it is evident now that the government cannot manage the schools appropriately and effectively, it is expedient that they return school to their owners. Already, private schools are springing up; the way they are being made patronized has gone a long way to show the logging, yearnings and aspirations of the already tied and disgusted citizen of this country. Also the family is and has been always been the bedrock of the society. Parents should try to train and educate their ward right from childhood on the need for proper moral conscience. The fear of God should be installed in the children since it is the beginning of wisdom. Also, the youth on their part should try as much as possible to regain their senses of moral judgement. Lastly we should all lift up our voices to God to come and renew the face of the earth.
© 2017 ODEWOYE FRANCIS SUNDAY