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Poem: One Day at a Time

Updated on May 3, 2020
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I am a writer. My passion is poetry. I feel words connect people together and help us to understand the feelings we share.

"Blank Stares" by Jay Allen

Written by Joyce Arledge Spradlin, my mother

This is written by Joyce Arledge Spradlin, my mother.

Her husband has Alzheimer's. She is dealing with the pain and effects of this disease every day.

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"One Day At A Time"

A conversation that isn’t…
your mind is so confused…
I nod…not knowing
anything you are talking about.

Hold on honey, I am trying
one day at a time,
but what will tomorrow bring?
I’m not sure I want to know.

Stay with me
don’t give in to this mean disease,
I want to talk again,
to have a conversation
we both understand.

We’ve both been trying to hold on
one day at a time,
but it’s winning,
we need more time.


©️Joyce Arledge Spradlin 2020

"Remember Me" by Chris Mann

© 2020 BRENDA ARLEDGE

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    • Brenda Arledge profile imageAUTHOR

      BRENDA ARLEDGE 

      12 days ago from Washington Court House

      Ann,

      Thank you.

      Yes. I wish we could visit to make sure, but right now that isn't an option.

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      Ann Carr 

      2 weeks ago from SW England

      Yes, I agree, they are all very expensive. I hope that they treat him well and with all the care he deserves

      Ann

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      BRENDA ARLEDGE 

      2 weeks ago from Washington Court House

      Ann,

      Thank you.

      It has been quite a week, as she had to place him in a nursing home this week.

      The paperwork alone is ungodly.

      I cannot believe they basically take everything away from you to live in a place where you probably don't get that great of care.

      I mean....for the cost...one should be treated like Royalty.

      Thanks for reading

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      Ann Carr 

      2 weeks ago from SW England

      This pulls at the heart strings. It's so difficult to watch someone you used to know slowly disappear. I fee for you and for your mother who has written this so well.

      Ann

    • Brenda Arledge profile imageAUTHOR

      BRENDA ARLEDGE 

      3 weeks ago from Washington Court House

      Ms. Dora,

      Thank you so much.

      I am sending her a link so she can read comments.

      Have a great day.

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      Dora Weithers 

      3 weeks ago from The Caribbean

      I cared for my mother, an Alz victim. I can identify with the dread of watching the disease win. Great poem by your mom.

    • Brenda Arledge profile imageAUTHOR

      BRENDA ARLEDGE 

      3 weeks ago from Washington Court House

      Mitara,

      Thank you for reading.

      Alzheimer's is a rough journey for everyone involved.

      It is definitely one disease that needs to be cured.

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      Mitara N 

      4 weeks ago from South Africa

      Powerful piece Brenda, a wish for at least one meaningful conversation. Having to assist someone with Alzheimer's is a difficult journey, lest we strive for maybe it could one day be cured.

      Take care, keep well and be safe

    • Brenda Arledge profile imageAUTHOR

      BRENDA ARLEDGE 

      4 weeks ago from Washington Court House

      Ruby,

      It is sad.

      I wish there would be a cure for this disease strips one of himself.

      Sometimes I think they are afraid to find a cure for diseases because they would lose funding, but surely not for this one.

      It is just too sad and tragic.

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      BRENDA ARLEDGE 

      4 weeks ago from Washington Court House

      Clive,

      Earth is part of everything in life.

      Thank you.

    • Brenda Arledge profile imageAUTHOR

      BRENDA ARLEDGE 

      4 weeks ago from Washington Court House

      Lorna,

      Thank you.

      This is truly how she feels and it is heartbreaking each day to hear her voice being overwhelmed with facing this disease.

      This time with coronavirus is not making it easy for her.

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      4 weeks ago from Southern Illinois

      Oh, this is so sad. I had a dear friend who had Alzheimer's Disease. Why can't they find a cure?

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      Clive Williams 

      4 weeks ago from Jamaica

      The earth is our healing.

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      Lorna Lamon 

      4 weeks ago

      This disease is so cruel, particularly so for those who care for their loved one. I watched my dad disappear a little more each day and it is truly heartbreaking. Your mother's poem perfectly describes these feelings of hopelessness and needing more time. Taking one day at a time and living in those moments is so important. A beautiful and poignant write.

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