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How Reading Will Get You Laid

Updated on April 2, 2012

Why Literature is Sexy Again

Student: "This is dumb. Why do I need to read A Midsummer Night's Dream when I'm a business major?"

Professor: "Chicks, dude... Chicks."

It's a question brought up in every educational setting: why do we need literature? Students everywhere realize the necessity of basic grammar rules, but they often draw the line when professors start forcing them to read (fiction especially). Today's academic culture emphasizes pragmatism above everything else: learn this trade, technique, operation, formula, etc. for this job to ensure success in whatever job you seek out. Nonetheless, colleges and universities across the nation still incorporate the arts into virtually every core curriculum. I take it upon myself to explain the advantages every student (not just English majors) can gain by continuing to read.

1) People Actually Understand You

Ladies, I'd like to present a question to you all. How are you typically wooed? I will venture to guess that most of your romantic advances come via text messages or facebook encounters. Let's face it, most men are more comfortable expressing a thought that they can proofread before sending it to a woman. We understand that physical speech often betrays us in unimaginable ways. I once told a girl I had just met that her hair smelled of pickled eggs. Typing things up allows us to psychologically mull things over before shooting ourselves in the foot.

Meanwhile, regardless of sex, no one enjoys reading an indecipherable text. Once you begin college, start texting like a grown-up. Most reading done by teens before college is through text message or facebook, which causes them to virtually forget what real English looks like. Try reading actual literature for a few minutes, then go back to your jumbled mess of words. If you aren't a little ashamed of your work, feel free to quit reading this article. Just remember that no one wants to read what you write if they can't read it in the first place.

2) You Seem More Interesting

Odds are that if you read something that has gone from someone's brain to a piece of paper through a publisher and eventually into a book which you find yourself reading, that original someone is more interesting than you are. Who are we to disregard this person's thoughts (unless it's Sarah Palin's book, disregard that)? If we live our only life in a little bubble of our own perceptions, which we logically think are the best, we ultimately become what most refer to as a "douche." Cultural jargon notwithstanding, just know that no one likes a douche. Therefore, instead of forming some random opinion and sticking to it, read something--preferably by someone without some kind of a screen name on a message board.

There are tons of people with amazing ideas, thoughts, experiences, and advice attempting to have their voices heard. And for every one of them, there are countless others ["douches"] that seek to fill the internet and the public domain with frivolous nonsense (freerepublic.com and the like). We like to share thoughts and opinions on everything, even if our thoughts and opinions are completely made up on a whim. You may ask, "But Jay, how do I avoid slipping into the douche void?" My answer, inquisitive reader, is to read stuff.

You don't recognize the different between useful writing and wasteful crap without stumbling upon them both. While there are a few tell-tale signs, such as grammar, cited sources, and overall attractiveness of the writer (point - Jay), that immediately designate one or the other, the more your read about a certain topic, logic indicates that you will ultimately see past the crap. Meanwhile, if you just happen to see some tweet from a buddy and accept it as a legitimate statement of fact, then you're headed down the road to douche-ville.

3) Quotes

Fact: Every woman swoons when a man quotes Shakespeare to her (Look it up). Meanwhile, we have to ask ourselves why this fact is even so. If you remember my second point that reading literature makes you seem more interesting, the fact is that Shakespeare is more interesting than you, me, and virtually every person breathing today. When we are able to quote the great writers, thinkers, or general badass-ers of history, the perception is that we are somehow on par with that person. We understand that person. It doesn't make us Shakespeare, but the fact that we know it places us in a realm away from those who don't know anything about great literature.

It's like any major skill a man will learn to impress the finer sex: guitar, parkour, mustache maintenance, Call of Duty (chicks dig those, right?). Granted, knowledge of certain things are often considered sexier than others. The point is this: being able to understand the minds of the best writers in history inherently causes others to believe you will understand them.

4) Transcendence of the 9-5

The common work routine follows a rather simplistic formula. You get up to be at work by 9; count down the hours till lunch; get back from lunch and count down the hours till work ends; go home and lounge until passing out to start it all over again. This monotony is enough to send any human being to engulfing themselves into the fictional worlds of The Big Bang Theory or re-runs of The X-Files. While water cooler talk tends to favor pop culture, I'll pose a thought to you all: name the most psychologically stimulating conversation you've had over the past couple of years. Was it over whether Donovan McNabb could still cut it in the NFL? Did it include an examination of some cliffhanger ending to a TV show? I'm guessing a negative on both of those.

If there is one aspect that every adult deems important in another, it is conversational ability. Forget meeting a person of the opposite sex, if you aren't able to carry on a conversation that doesn't center on World of Warcraft, good luck even finding a job. The point is this, great conversations revolve around things you don't think about or see on a daily basis. The best conversationalists are able to see beyond (to transcend) the monotony of a full-time job, and these are the same people who read. Literature allows a sense of escapism that doesn't include the looming poop/penis joke, eventual boob shot, or unrealistic hokum found on television. Great writers allow us to actually see into the minds of both the authors and the characters, which allows are world to shift slightly. These people see the world differently, and it comes out in their conversations. Why? Because their worlds have been colored by others who see it even more differently.


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      Beyonce 2 years ago

      Wow, this is in every recsept what I needed to know.

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      Josak 5 years ago from variable

      Great hub, chuckled the whole way through, my father taught me the same thing when I was young, "you should read these classics because #1 it will make you more interesting #2 it will make you more intelligent and #3 and most importantly it will make you appear more interesting and intelligent to the girls" :P.

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      AuntPam 5 years ago

      Really enjoyed this, Jay.

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      Joseph Howard 5 years ago from Bowling Green, Kentucky

      Solid suggestions! Although I'd suggest using the original language when quoting. Not only are you quoting great works, but no one is immune to courtship through exotic languages. Two birds with one stone!

      P.S. - I'd also throw in the Russian Irina Ratushinskaya and Polish Wislawa Szymborska. Great stuff.

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      Constantia 5 years ago

      You speak of quoting Shakespeare, but what of developing reading skills in another language? I don't know a woman who wouldn't swoon if quoted Ovid's Amores, Catullus' love poems, or Pablo Neruda. What about the preoccupation with American and British literature? Why are classics and works of global authors so readily ignored?

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      klyaksa 5 years ago

      This is funny and also so true

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      mikeydcarroll67 5 years ago

      I think reading is essential not just for dating but can also be a great source for showing that we actually have a LIFE instead of being a loser. It's good to have a way to something to show for sitting on our butts.

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      Tess Norris 5 years ago

      Although now that I think of it, maybe he was just more of a Kant kind of guy. Being a douche is probably more likely though. We should get companion tshirts for this article that say, "Don't be a douche, Read a book." I feel like the marketing campaign for libraries across America was just created.

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      Tess Norris 5 years ago

      The phenomenon I associate with literature is that someone has already felt exactly the way you have or been in the same situation and they as authors have the ability of more eloquently putting your jumbled mass of thoughts into poetic language that sells books, blows people's minds, and ultimately probably got them laid a lot... That being said, I once quoted a small excerpt of Anthem to a guy because Ayn Rand could say it better than I. He looked at me like I was an idiot, needless to say he didn't even come close to getting laid by me.

      Well played sir. I can't wait to share this with others.

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      Joseph Howard 5 years ago from Bowling Green, Kentucky

      Ha! Love it! Thanks for reading, peace!

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      Kelley 5 years ago from California

      Hey, Joseph Howard, reading certain books could help one get laid, but talking about such could bore them to tears or even intimidate them. I know - I've tried. But boning up on Shakespeare, pun intended, and other classic literature is always a good idea as far as I'm concerned. Later!

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      Joseph Howard 5 years ago from Bowling Green, Kentucky

      Absolutely! I don't understand why people will often disregard books from Rowling or Grisham as "Entertainment Literature," instead of things considered more canonical. Just because your old professor wouldn't read it doesn't mean that we shouldn't. Reading is reading as far as I'm concerned.

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      J. Edman 5 years ago

      Does reading John Grisham count?

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      Mikki 5 years ago

      Women will gravitate towards a well spoken man! Conversation equals communication...and intelligent conversation will win over the kind of women you want to "communicate" with!

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      steven dodaon 5 years ago

      Wonmderful jay

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      Anna Kaye 5 years ago

      I think most women swoon when men quote poetry like Keats. But that's just me. Shakesphere was a bit complex. Great article though, I love your perspective.

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      K.Ray451 5 years ago

      Sooo very true!! Nice Hub-like the creativity. I am impressed.

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      jake 5 years ago

      if you weren't a woman i'd ask you to marry me