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"Telling Your Girlfriends Personal Business To Your Man Will Destroy Your Friednship"
"Telling Your Girlfriends Personal Business To Your man Will Destroy Your Friendship"
I think this is about the saddest situation , I ever encountered in my life involving girls friends, friendship coming to an abrupt end, because of telling personal information to a live in boy friend. Ladies, if you're telling your man , your girlfriends personal business,then your friendship with your friend will soon be a distant memory. My daughter 's friendship with a suppose to be friend of nineteen years , came to an end, when she realized that all of her personal business was put on front street by this suppose to be friend, who told her man all of her personal details, who in return told a man friend of his. What on earth was she thinking, girls should keep personal stuff between girls and keep the men out of it, because it's not their business in the first place. When a friend tell a friend,personal stuff in confidence, you 're not suppose to tell anyone especially not your man. This type of situation is very embarrassing for your friend. My daughter found out and was heart broken that this suppose to be friend told her man all about my daughters and another girlfriends personal business; that should have been kept with the girls. My daughter and their other friend was blown away that all their very personal business was now on main street.
I didn't really think this actually happen ain reality, but it happen to my daughter and a friends hers, by a suppose to be friend to both of them. Now, days it's sad to know you cannot even trust your girl friend to keep her mouth close about your personal and embarrassing idiosyncrasies. This is all new to me, because in my fifty years of friends ship with my lady friends, I never had anything like that happen to me. What it all boils down to is, it seem you can't really trust your suppose to be girl friend with your dirty laundry, you really have to know a person before you put all your cards on the table, because you never know who's out to get you.If you get up enough confidence to tell a friend make sure you tell them this is in strictest of confidence and not to be told to anyone else, especially not your man. Hopefully that will cover all your bases, but I gues now days, you just can't be sure. I have always believed that what ever you tell a friend should be kept with that friend. There are men and mostly women that doesn't following the code of truth, honor and ethics. It's sad when a women can't trust her women friend to keep personal stuff about you from her man. Ladies, we don't tell our men about our lady friends personal business that's totally not acceptable, I'm sure you would feel the same way if one of your friends aired your dirty laundry especially to a man. Wow,how embarrassing is that to happen to you. Ladies if you can't find anything to talk about with your man except for your girlfriends personal business, then you shouldn't talk about anything, because your girlfriends business is off limits to your man friend.
Ladies, just a warning, if you cherish your friendship with your girlfriend, please refrain from putting your girl friends business in the streets. Friendship is all about love and trust, but if you're spreading your girl friends personal business around town, then you a friend and you sure as heck, can't be trusted.
Benny Faye Douglass