Ten jewels I'd like to wear on New Year's evening
After Christmas, the next big event to look forward to is New Year’s
evening. Our heart gets full of anticipation for the coming year. Whatever it was that
we didn’t do well, we tell ourselves: This year, it will be better.
For tonight, from my jewelry box, here are my top ten choices to start another leg of my journey. Everyday,
I try to be good but everyday too, there
is the compelling inroad of rust that put my jewels in a
vulnerable location. But I continue my journey anyway.
People are often unreasonable, irrational,
and self-centered. Forgive
If you are kind,
people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will
win some unfaithful friends and some genuine
If you are honest
and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway.
What you spend
years creating, others could destroy overnight. Create anyway.
If you find serenity
and happiness, some may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do
today, will often be forgotten. Do good anyway.
Give the best you
have, and it will never be enough. Give your best anyway.
In the final analysis, it is between you and
God. It was never between you and them
2) St. Francis of
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy;
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be
consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
3) Robert Fulghum’s “All I Really
Needed to Know I learned in Kindergarten
Don't hit people.
Put things back where you found them.
Clean up your own mess.
Don't take things that aren't yours.
Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody.
Wash your hands before you eat.
Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
Live a balanced life - learn some and think some
and draw and paint and sing and dance and play
and work every day some.
Take a nap every afternoon.
When you go out into the world, watch out for traffic,
hold hands, and stick together.
Be aware of wonder.
Remember the little seed in the styrofoam cup:
The roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody
really knows how or why, but we are all like that.
Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even
the little seed in the Styrofoam cup - they all die.
So do we.
And then remember the Dick-and-Jane books
and the first word you learned - the biggest
word of all - LOOK.
Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexatious to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Strive to be happy.
5) Music and
Poetry; Biographical Novels
I appreciate all types of music but I give more time to
listening to Filipino music and the work of the masters played by violin
virtuoso Joseph Esmilla, Itzchak
Perlman and Sarah Chang. I love Lea
Salonga’s songs. I also enjoy the songs of Barbara Streisand and Nat King Cole.
Kahlil Gibran’s poems, especially “The Prophet” is a
source of inspiration.
I love Merlinda Bobis poems and Novels.
I love James Michener’s novels.
I love Irving Stone’s “Agony and Ecstacy: A biographical
novel of Michelangelo
I love Rob Parnell’s “The Easy Way to Write” Website
6) I love the book of Kelley Eidem “The Doctor Who Cures
Cancer” and Mike Adams’ “Natural News Website.”
7) I run to the Holy Bible in times of hard decisions.
8) I value my
9) My family is a very precious support group
10) I love Saul
Alinsky’s “Rules for Radicals” and Paulo Freire’s
“Pedagogy of the Oppressed”.