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Personal Reflection: The Way It Used to Be.

Updated on October 12, 2018
Self Reflection: Feel the Difference!
Self Reflection: Feel the Difference!


The reason I even write this tonight, is that how I see myself is going to become my basis for my thoughts, which leads to my actions, which leads to how I behave, which impacts the people that are in my world. Yet the former me did not take any of this into account.

Reflection and Introspection

Reflection and introspection. There is the way it was and the way it ought to be. Check yourself in the mirror... are you honest enough to do a personal inventory? Have you ever judged yourself by that standard? Have you really taken a good look at your “man in the glass”? What does the reflection show you? Remember, reflection is the way it used to be. Reflection leads to the way it can be.

When I look in a mirror today, I see a totally different person than I did two years ago. Today, I see more than a reproduction of my appearance. Today, the man in the glass looks back out at me and asks me to contemplate, imagine, meditate, reflect and consider.

The world is a big place. There are more than 6.8 billion people in the world today. How significant am I? The answer seems simple. The reason is that the world I live in does not contain anywhere near six billion people. Who cares about me in my world is my wife, three children, a son-in-law, daughter-in-law and two grand-children. They probably don’t think about me every day, but to them I am important.

I was too selfish and self absorbed. I meant well, but was blind to my faults and how my actions caused pain to those closest to me. Thank God I am different today.

Today, I am Humble

The reflection I see in the glass today is self reflection. I realize that on my own, I am less than I need to be. I do not mean this in a self–defeating manner. I realized I needed direction and found the answer in my heart. I discovered that having faith in God was the way for me to become the person I wanted to be. I believe that faith in Him was the basis for believing in myself. I found that by becoming ever so dependent on Him, that I had more independence and freedom from worry. I found by weakening my ability to tackle life’s trouble on my own, actually gave me a strength I never knew was possible. Today, I know I am not alone. He is there for me every day. All I have to do is accept Him and try to do what He would want me to do.

Today, I am humble. I try and base all of my actions from honesty, unselfishness, love and pure thoughts. I try and be kind to everyone I know. I try to help others around me. I pray every morning and night and the God in my life today is a forgiving and loving God. He wants me to be a forgiving and loving man. So, today, the man in the glass is a better person, husband, father, grandfather, son, brother, uncle and friend. Like the picture above says, what matters most is how you see yourself, because that is how others will see you too. Imagine that.


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