We can never confidently understand what is happening to us.
And when we are the happiest person in the world we know that could crash in just one minute. We hesitate, we are blaming ourselves too much because attachment.
We are distanced from the person who is the main solution to the problem.
Otherwise perhaps that person continued on her own. Simply disappeared in our mind. Distance does not allow us to think the same. A part of our mind will always make mistakes. And we will never understand completely when will the things settle in our life.
The thought that something has changed.. will haunt us. Uncertainty even more.
But the knowledge that nothing lasts forever is a relieved feeling for us. We realize that happiness, our happiness is the most important.
We exclude everything else, we are sending all the negativity and where it belongs!