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When Others Don't See What You See

Updated on December 22, 2010

We Are Two Different People

When something happens and two people can't agree

Clearly one is wrong and one is right or is it one is right and the other one is wrong

It depends on how you look at it

From what point of view

So instead of batting our heads against the wall and trying to make someone believe something is true

Thinking we have the answer and they just don't get it

Back off

Let what ever happen happens

No need to defend the truth

The truth always prevails

If you do nothing wrong you have nothing to hide

Why defend the indefensable

It is time to move on to more important things in my life

I have given it more than enough time

I believe you concentrate all your efforts on the things you can change

You are not here to change someones elses mind

You cannot do that anyway

It is useless like stopping the wind

You can redirect it if you are smart

To blow somewhere else and not on top of you

Let life be filled with lessons that we learn over time

Do not spend time trying to argue and make a point

Nothing is ever accomplished and nothing is ever completely done in life

We can all make changes and we have to decide how we want to use our time

What changes we will make and what things we will let slide

So take that energy you have found

Bundle it up and use it where it can be the most service

Helping someone else who appreciates your good will and help

I have to redirect my passion for things that I want

I am not hear to make others happy and they are not here to please me

I am here to make me happy and if others are happy along the way I am even happier

If not oh well

Instead of finding others who distract us from our true task

I have said all I want to say

Those who don't understand never will

Let there be peace for all those who find frustration in their own life

Let it go and the sooner it is released wonderful new things will fill your mind

I am on with new projects and new desires

Bigger and better than the ones I dreamed of before

Life is funny and sometimes absolutely filled with lots of nonsense

When we widdle it down we are lucky if we have enough wood to make a pencil to write with



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    • Darlene Sabella profile image

      Darlene Sabella 

      7 years ago from Hello, my name is Toast and Jam, I live in the forest with my dog named Sam ...

      Oh how I love your hubs, they are so raw and honest. Your passion shines through all that you do, always your fan and friend. I wish you and yours a very Merry Christmas and pray of peace on darski

    • DREAM ON profile imageAUTHOR

      DREAM ON 

      7 years ago

      Micky Dee I am so lucky to have you and others who spend the time to listen to the bells charm.I know life isn't always the way it should be but if I have a choice I rather spend time with the life I dream about and want than one other people never are happy with.The only one they think they have is hell on earth.I thank God for those who have given me the right to speak my mind in public and not be jailed or be put to death for my thoughts.I was lucky I was not born at a different time and color or I could of been a slave.I was happy to be raised to believe in God and I never had my faith challanged and prosecuted for my beliefs.I am just very thankful I have a Christmas and I am here to enjoy life with friends and family without the gifts.(o.k. that may be pushing it a little too far)less gifts than many.Keep on leading your path and I can even see it in the winter time right through the snow.Have a wonderful holiday and a bright new year of joy still to come.

    • Micky Dee profile image

      Micky Dee 

      7 years ago

      So much sleeping going on sometimes it's hard to know what really is important to fuss over.

    • DREAM ON profile imageAUTHOR

      DREAM ON 

      7 years ago

      Judicastro I am so proud of you.You are so much smarter than me.It took me for ever to learn that.I love to see how other people just understand something I tried to fight all my life.Thinking if we can do something the right way why wouldn't everyone want to do it.Now I know all I can and should be concerned with what I want to do.Others that like the idea might follow the advice.Many really don't care what I think and will go on their merry way.I just love sharing what I have learned and I feel good about it.Dim Flaxenwick You have followed me down so many paths in my writings.I hope I am not the sand between your toes that aggrivates you too much.Acaetnna I try my best and I am always looking toward you for advice and help to make me a better person.Kirutaye Sometimes the answers are simple but we don't see them.I am trying to repeat all the things that work for me in my life and having others share their own struggles and challanges.So I can live a better life and if others want to they can be happier too.Theseus I find it so enlightning when a few beautiful words can go so deep into my soul.You are all wonderful and I hope you all have a special Christmas and Happy New year that you will remember for years to come.

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      7 years ago from philippines

      Great hub!!

      Happy holidays to you and your family. Hope you have a blessed and wonderful year ahead. God bless.

    • kirutaye profile image


      7 years ago from London, UK

      I can see you are passionate about your message.

      The truth will always prevail, so keep telling it like it is.

      Thank you for sharing. :o))

    • acaetnna profile image


      7 years ago from Guildford

      You always give great advice and I love reading your hubs.

    • Dim Flaxenwick profile image

      Dim Flaxenwick 

      7 years ago from Great Britain

      Wonderful hub. All so true. Thank you. x

    • Judicastro profile image


      7 years ago from birmingham, Alabama

      Great hub dream on. I have found that when we let something that someone has or has not done bother me it puts a hook into my mind and I can't get away from it. It creates a life of it's own and you begin to fantasize about how you can change them or change the wrong. Great advice, in essence just get over it and move on to more important things.


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