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Domestic Violence When Will it End (A dedicated Poem ‘When Will it End’)

Updated on February 12, 2022

Confused

Why is this Abuse happening?

Do you feel alone? Do you feel you have nobody and nowhere to go? Are you going on Social Media and people there make your life a living hell, by what they do, cyber-bullying? Or is your life-partner/spouse making you feel incomplete of feeling human by their conduct savagery towards you? You wonder why this is happening to you.

Social Media abuse exposed

Feeling alone

Many relationships can and do wind up being physically, emotionally, fierce and ruthless of mental misuse by their perpetrator. A culprit's intentions for his/her own particular insecurities will feel the need for controlling their victimised person, spouse/life partner misleading them with lies to control, giving ruthless beatings and mental torment keeping their exploited person in isolation. This can make a victim feel alone; maybe, they are looking for answers from somebody they know that have experienced these kinds of traumatic feelings. The victimised person sometimes will try to find other people on social media to befriend friends for help and support, the culprit leaves their victim emotionally vulnerable. Their vulnerability could outshine through their personal energy; the vulnerable person may choose a bombastic, intolerable person by their good quality traits. Nobody should live and experience a way of life of forceful misconduct. People blame men for this abusive behaviour its women also that use this behaviour towards men. The author researched for many years to find the answers and concluded; why men and women put their victims through this forceful, physical and mental torture.

Nobody's Better Than Me

Looking for answers

Are you a victim of different types of abuse? This article written is to help people become aware of this savagery. The author found from research; going through any different types of abuse, cyber-bullying, domestic violence, child abuse and manipulation with lies is abusive and will leave the innocent person bewildered, confused on an emotional and mental level. Perpetrators could portray themselves in society an honest and decent person, but use manipulation and lies to cover their abusive traits. Its possible victims go through traumatic times and feeling trapped in an emotional and physical prison; feeling they got nowhere to turn to. These abusive situations in the real world make and could have an impact on the innocent person's life; leaving them with mental issues. From research the author found facts, the culprits either was a casualty from abuse themselves or haven't had any counselling of any kind behavioural management themselves leaving them with mental issues. In certain cases the perpetrators conceive unadulterated malicious abusive ideas to see somebody, their victim experiencing their cruel torment for their own gratification.

Different kinds of abuse happen to most people in different status of professions upper class, middle class and working class world-wide. Many victims may fear people won't understand their situation. Obviously their emotional feelings will make them feel alone. They will feel humiliated, vulnerable, loss of self-confidence and self-esteem by being over-powered by their abuser. It takes courage for a victim to step forward with support from a trusted close friend or a family member to seek professional counselling to bring justice and peace for themselves to get their life back in order.

Cyber-bullying, bullying, Domestic Violence, Abuse

Different kinds of abuse can happen to anyone men, women and children of different professions in upper class, middle class and working class world-wide. .  Abuse leaves a person vulnerable.
Different kinds of abuse can happen to anyone men, women and children of different professions in upper class, middle class and working class world-wide. . Abuse leaves a person vulnerable.

Awareness

The goal of this article is bringing awareness to people over different abusive behaviours. Long far-reaching research brought the author to understand the knock on effect it leaves an innocent person subjected to physical or psychological maltreatment by another person's behaviour. The author believes from research it leaves the abused victim with psychological problems; flash-backs, shame, guilt, fear, not believed by someone judging them that abusive torment behaviour happened. From fear and traumatic feelings the author believes these manifest in the innocent person refusing to speak and be open to someone they can trust; this behavioural manifestation affects men and women and can, or abuses another innocent person or a child. They need the courage and strength too do something for themselves to treat their behaviour.

For, this reason for the purposes for a victim or the culprit of behavioural manifestation realising they need help over their behaviour problems and they do not know where to go. Are you a victim/culprit suffering? Do you know of someone suffering? Please follow the links the author has provided to help stop violence to lives affected this way.

Unicef to help stop violence towards children

https://www.unicef.org.uk/what-we-do/violence/

Domestic Shelters plenty of resources global and National for the U.K.

https://www.domesticshelters.org/resources/national-global-organizations#

For people living in the U.K.

https://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/behaviour-problems.html

This one is in the U.S their index.

https://www.apa.org/topics/index

This link will take you to about page of psychologytoday.com website it is an international find a therapist in your country.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/about

When Will It End (poem)

I have dedicated a poem I have written When Will it End, to all men women and children going through domestic violence or some other form of abuse.

HE LIES, HE DECEIVES,

HE MAKES ME FEEL,

I AM GOING ROUND THE BEND.

HE PLOTS, HE SCHEMES,

I STILL DON’T KNOW WHAT HE MEANS.

WHEN WILL IT END?


HE TELLS ME HE SAYS THE TRUTH,

WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT

I KNOW I WON’T LIVE UNDER HIS ROOF.

OUR SONS, OUR DAUGHTERS, THEY SEE WHAT’S GOING ON,

BUT, THE DECEIVING IS WRONG.

WHO DO I TURN TO, WHO WILL BELIEVE.

I HAVE NO-ONE TO HELP SING MY SONG,

WHEN WILL HE LEAVE?


HE IS CONVINCING TO THE WORLD OUTSIDE,

BUT I, I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE.

A STRANGER, THIS SOMEONE I DON’T KNOW

STEPS INTO OUR WORLD UP TO ME,

AND SAYS "I KNOW.

ALL THINGS WILL END, ALL THINGS WILL BE".

AT LAST THERE IS SOMEONE WHO BELIEVES ME.

WHEN WILL IT END?


WITH THIS STRANGER THERE IS HOPE AND GLORY,

BUT, THIS SOMEONE HAVE A STORY.

THE STRANGER SAYS, "YOU ARE NOT ALONE,

THERE ARE MEN, WOMEN AND CHILDREN TOO WHO DON’T MOAN.

THEIR PAIN INSIDE

BECAUSE, THEY TOO HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE".


THE MORAL TO THIS STORY,

IS TO FIND HOPE AND GLORY.

FIND THE STRENGTH, FIND THE COURAGE

FOR THAT SOMEONE, TO BELIEVE

TO MAKE THAT PERSON LEAVE.



Monkey Business By Micheal Jackson. People without any shame abused M.J. for his kind generous nature; this no doubt effected his health and fortune.

© 2012 Mrs L A Gibb

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