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When Will It End. (Dedicated poem)

Updated on December 7, 2015

Confused

Why is this Abuse happening?

Do you feel alone? Do you feel you have nobody and no where to go? Do you go on Social Media and people there make your life a living hell, by what they do, cyber-bullying; or Is your life-partner/spouse making you feel incomplete of feeling human by their conduct savagery towards you? You wonder why this is happening to you.

Social Media abuse exposed

Nobody's Better Than Me

Feeling alone

Many relationships even on social media; can and do wind up being physically, emotionally, fierce and ruthless of mental misuse. Maybe, you are looking for answers for somebody you know of who is experiencing these traumatic times. Normally the culprit for his/her own particular insecurities will feel the need for control over their victimized person, spouse/life partner misleading them with lies to control, ruthless beatings and mental torment keeping their exploited person in isolation. This will make the ill-used person feel that the culprit's conduct is typical and endless after the harm done. Nobody ought to live and experience a way of life of forceful conduct. After many years of research to how and why men and women put their victims through this kind of abusive torture. I have concluded that people with this sort of forceful physical and mental conduct have either been a casualty of ill-use themselves and have not had any counselling or any sort of behavioural management themselves, or they or simply conceived thusly only for unadulterated malicious abuse to see somebody their victim experience cruel torment. This leaves the victim feeling humiliated, vulnerable, loss of self-confidence and self-esteem by being over-powered by their abuser and making them feel alone.

Cyber-bullying, bullying, Domestic Violence, Abuse

Not just Women, Men do too go through Domestic Abuse, cyber-bullying, bullying. Children now go through cyber-bullying, bullying as well as Abuse
Not just Women, Men do too go through Domestic Abuse, cyber-bullying, bullying. Children now go through cyber-bullying, bullying as well as Abuse

Looking for answers

For this reason I would like people to become aware of this sort of savagery, with the goal that no harm can come to others. In the event that you need further help and counsel I have added web links to this article for people being exploited in this way to get the help they need. www.womensaid.org.uk you will discover worldwide connections in Womensaid in whatever nation you live in www.standingtogether.org.uk; or www.getconnected.org.uk this covers a scope of points on misuse and even has a web-site chat for you to talk to someone on the off-chance that you want to stay home and reluctant to go out. These days with the help of the internet social media groups have set up to help and support one another survivors and victims, such as https://www.facebook.com/BullyingSupportForYou abuse is bullying and bullying is abuse.

Monkey Business By Micheal Jackson. For he too had been abused by people who took his life for his health and fortune, without any shame.

When Will It End (poem)

I have dedicated a poem I have written When Will it End, to all men and women going through domestic violence or some other form of abuse.

HE LIES, HE DECEIVES,

HE MAKES ME FEEL,

I AM GOING ROUND THE BEND.

HE PLOTS, HE SCHEMES,

I STILL DON’T KNOW WHAT HE MEANS.

WHEN WILL IT END?


HE TELLS ME HE SAYS THE TRUTH,

WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT

I KNOW I WON’T LIVE UNDER HIS ROOF.

OUR SONS, OUR DAUGHTERS, THEY SEE WHAT’S GOING ON,

BUT, THE DECEIVING IS WRONG.

WHO DO I TURN TO, WHO WILL BELIEVE.

I HAVE NO-ONE TO HELP SING MY SONG,

WHEN WILL HE LEAVE?


HE IS CONVINCING TO THE WORLD OUTSIDE,

BUT I, I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE.

A STRANGER, THIS SOMEONE I DON’T KNOW

STEPS INTO OUR WORLD UP TO ME,

AND SAYS "I KNOW.

ALL THINGS WILL END, ALL THINGS WILL BE".

AT LAST THERE IS SOMEONE WHO BELIEVES ME.

WHEN WILL IT END?


WITH THIS STRANGER THERE IS HOPE AND GLORY,

BUT, THIS SOMEONE HAVE A STORY.

THE STRANGER SAYS, "YOU ARE NOT ALONE,

THERE ARE MEN, WOMEN AND CHILDREN TOO WHO DON’T MOAN.

THEIR PAIN INSIDE

BECAUSE, THEY TOO HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE".


THE MORAL TO THIS STORY,

IS TO FIND HOPE AND GLORY.

FIND THE STRENGTH, FIND THE COURAGE

FOR THAT SOMEONE, TO BELIEVE

TO MAKE THAT PERSON LEAVE.


© Copyright 2012 Updated 2015

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      Sonya Artis 4 years ago from Kansas City, MO/Ft. Lauderdale, FL

      I just found you today...I have to catch up on your greatness.

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      Mrs L A Gibb 5 years ago

      thank you.

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      Debby Bruck 5 years ago

      Hi Mrs Lagibb ~ Glad to hear this was in the past and things are better for today. Blessings, Debby

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      Mrs L A Gibb 5 years ago

      Thank you for your comment and your blessings. But, this was written out of insparation of what I see what can go on within a relationship.

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      Mrs L A Gibb 5 years ago

      thank you for your comment, but this is not about me. I was inspired by the fact of what I see what goes on with a relationship. Yes, its true, I did have a taste of it, but this was many moons ago.

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      Debby Bruck 5 years ago

      Waiting for it to end with you. I'll hold your hand, too. Blessings, Debby

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      Brett Caulton 5 years ago from Thailand

      A beautiful poem on a very serious, yet very complicated subject. People can sometimes be too judgmental of both parties, and sometimes do not even notice when someone needs real support. It is tricky, but there can be better times ahead, once you gain the courage to make a change.

      Thanks for SHARING your personal story.

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      Mrs L A Gibb 5 years ago

      Thank you for comment. Since join HP I have made some wonderful friends.

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      Eiddwen 5 years ago from Wales

      A brilliant hub and thanks for sharing.

      Eddy.

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      Mrs L A Gibb 5 years ago

      I quite agree is to have forsight on someone's past history. Some people are not honest and genuine this clouds our judgement when we use it to find this out. My ex, I had known him from my college days on and off over years till we married 9 years ago, I Thought he was geninue. Is it not, when you live with someone you really get to know someone. Who would have thought knowing someone for 25 years on and off could be mind controlling, lie, manipulate and cheat, all for the love of money, when they knew I could manage money and save, even though I had not much due to illness then. I saw right through his actions, this is why our marriage only lasted 2 months. At the end of the day we all look for someone we need to love. Perhaps you would like to read this, men do go through it too.

      http://beyondjane.com/women/domestic-violenceabuse...

      Thank you for your comment.

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      Mrs L A Gibb 5 years ago

      Thank you for your comment. I do hope it will, But it's not just women, men too. perhaps you would like to see. http://beyondjane.com/women/domestic-violenceabuse...

      I do enjoy yours.

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      Lawrence Da-vid 5 years ago

      In the future, perhaps it would become appropriate to run a comprehensive background check on prospective spouses and their families. Perhaps then, a future groom or bride with gain foresight into possible coming events gained from history past.

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      Mrs L A Gibb 5 years ago

      Thank you Vincent, Abuse happens to all people in walks of life. Perhaps you may want to read this http://beyondjane.com/women/domestic-violenceabuse... Now you have come through all that torture, which no-one should have to go through. I feel people who gone through this experience, are a tower of strength, and it is the survivors, who can help others and get the word out there to help those who are going through it.

      May you have a long and happy peaceful life now.

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      Mrs L A Gibb 5 years ago

      Thank you Always Exploring. I do hope Victims gain the strength and walk away. perhaps you may like to read this. http://beyondjane.com/women/domestic-violenceabuse...

      I Love M. J Too. And I think he too was abused just for his money. Thats why we Lost a Loving Caring Human being. R.I.P.

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      Vincent Moore 5 years ago

      Me my siblings and mother were in an abused live style growing up as a child and then a teen. She let the men in her life rule our household and one in particular was a devil. He was cruel, mean and physically hurting my mother. our mental abuse was what he spewed from his filthy mouth and personage. He physically abused my mother and one of my sisters. He is dead now and it couldn't come soon enough. Hopefully he is in Hell where he belongs and paying the ultimate price over and over again. Peace and blessings to you.

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      Ruby Jean Fuller 5 years ago from Southern Illinois

      Great message. May people who are in bondage read this and gain the strength to walk away. Thank you for MJ'S video. I love him and miss him...

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      Mrs L A Gibb 5 years ago

      Hope you got my reply Sky. Thank you again for your comment. Hope, people do come out of their hiding place and face up to the truth and stop making it worst.

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      Sky9106 5 years ago from A beautiful place on earth.

      A beautiful poem and as from truthful roots , it is as real as it can get.

      I can see many will adhere to your truth and understand from that deep place where so many tend to hide but that's only makes it worst .

      Great work mrslagibb, with serious meaning, keep it up..

      Bless.

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      Mrs L A Gibb 5 years ago

      Thank you for your comment. I did get out. I am only trying to help others because I know it happens everyday. Some do not realise at the time, but through reading maybe victims will realise. And find the courage. But it takes Survevors, to help the victims.

      I Will Add into my hubs Single Stop USa

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      NiaLee 5 years ago from BIG APPLE

      Thank you so much for that testimony and that way to wake up, remind or rally people. So many people sadly think that it is so easy to get out, so easy to protect ourselves... after being abused for years, your mind and body are so damaged that a normal behavior is not easy to have. You have to rehabilitate the bodymind before being able to react normally and protect yourself... the worst is when the people we love reject us or hurt us more by acting like it is nothing or some people have it worst... destroying somebody mind is as bad as destroying their body...sometimes even worst because nothing is that visible...our perception of ourselves and the whole Universe is biased and we have constant fear and depression. Thanks God, I got out, though I always look around if I am not about to get on a similar ride...and I do it good.

      Love and peace to all.

      If you are hurt, go to Single stop USa, get the info and move on with your life.

      Be love, be peace, be strong and know that you are precious and loved, you should treat yourself preciously and love yourself first...then everything will be alright!