very healthy - I'm at the point where I'd love to start laughing about the absolute ridiculousness of this unmitigated tragedy - that's where all great dark humor comes from, huh? out of the depths of the tragic. I'm ready to laugh my emotionally drained head off. (That only took 25 years! PS, I'm much slower than most) Unfortunately, I haven't read any good books on that and few comics venture to go there - they're still too young (the 30 bunch) to be ended with the process. I predict we'll start seeing it in a few years. I'm starting to notice it on TV.