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Picture Books About Gay and Lesbian Families
A List of the Best Gay and Lesbian Themed Children's Picture Books
Once there was a book. And he married another book. And they lived happily ever after.
A collection of the best picture books available for children that include or focus on gay or lesbian characters and topics. Whether it's the beloved uncle, the child raised by two mommies, the confused guinea pig or just the child asking questions, these books are both good storybooks, and helpful for children to read to understand themselves, their families and what being gay might mean.Besides, how can another picture book hurt?
Why should you buy a book about gay people for your child? Well, if you or a family member is gay, then it will help them understand (assuming they find it confusing). It will show them they aren't alone - reading endless books, however good, in which the characters never look or act like you gets wearing.
If your child isn't even aware that gay people exist, these books are a nice and non-threatening way to introduce them to some of the less visible parts of society. Having picture books on a wide diversity of subjects helps to educate kids and normalise those topics for them. Strangeness breeds fear, and familiarity and understanding lead to tolerance. And of course, if they discover they're not quite hetero one day, they are much better adjusted to deal with that fact. One day they might need to decide if they are 'normal' - and if they can talk to you
Do you own any 'gay' themed picture books?
And Tango Makes Three - A charming real life story about two penguins and the daughter they adopted
And Tango Makes Three is an adorable and enchanting story from real life. Two male chinstrap penguins pair up in Central Park Zoo, and try and hatch their own egg. Sadly, it's a stone. But the keeper took pity on them and replaced it with a real egg - which hatched out Tango, creating a delightful little family.
According to the American Library Association this title also appears in second place out of The 10 Most Challenged Books of 2009 and fourth out of 100 Most Challenged Books of the Decade (2000-2009) due to it containing *gasp* homosexuality.
The Boy Who Cried Fabulous - An incredibly fun book about a fabulous boy
A fabulous, lively and beautifully illustrated book that isn't explicitly about gay people, but about a boy who finds everything quite fabulous and ends up sweeping everyone else along with him.
Heather Has Two Mommies - 20th Anniversary Edition
Probably the best known gay picture book, Heather Has Two Mommies was the first lesbian-themed picture book ever published, in 1989. It had to be sel-published, through donations, as no publisher would go near it. It's certainly well up in the most challenged books - number ninth out of the 100 most frequently challenged books between 1990-1999 but it fell off the Top 100 list in 2009.
The 20th Anniversary Edition is edited and rewritten slightly to make it more child-orientated, removing the excessively-textbook content about artificial insemination among other things (when reading reviews on Amazon, bear in mind that the older reviews from early 2009 and before, refer to the older edition).
Kinderen voor Kinderen song - Two Fathers
King and King - Sometimes Happily Ever After doesn't need a princess.
An alternative fairytale, this book tells the story of a Prince who has to wed. After rejecting princess after princess, one arrives with her brother in tow and it's happily ever after.
Jenny Lives With Eric and Martin - Mette bor hos Morten og Erik
Published in Danish in 1981 as Mette bor hos Morten og Erik, this book was one of the first picture books published about gay families and is still considered one of the best.
Do You Think Letting Children Read Books About Gay People Is A Good Thing?
Education or censorship? Which side are you on?
Some of the Most Banned Books of All Time - Including three picture books...
Heather Has Two Mommies, And Tango Makes Three and Daddy's Roommate all turn up on this list of terrifying and vile titles, such as The Catcher In The Rye and Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone
Everyone Should Learn How To Think - Although GLaDOS makes me fear thinking robots
Here's a charming little video from the ALA about freedom from censorship, in which Z-Bot becomes a wonderful and fulfilled robot. The only problem is, after GLaDOs, the concept of a smarter robot is ...worrying.