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Leaving Home: It’s not as it appears on the other side.

Updated on February 25, 2012

Here is why!

Because the light you seek can only be seen while in your moment of darkness.

We have all started out first living with our parents, I don’t mean in a physical home with your biological parents.

What I actually mean is that we are at a great age now, and it's easier for us to understand things a little more in dept. So what I mean is from, the moment your reality started,

not from the moment you were born, but when your existence was announced.

From a child growing up until the time you are ready to leave home, if you then ask any normal person about their childhood, I am sure they will agree that it was the most fascinating time of their life. The truth is that it's supposed to be the most enjoyable,and the greatest luxury any person will have of their life.

I believe that every sincere adult would also dream away with you in that beautiful rendition you would blast out, of your days growing up a youngster. So to be fair and politically correct I will say that I have never conversed with anyone so far, who was not interestingly proud partake in relating their childhood stories.

However there is this common occurrence that comes up about say 90% of the time, that regardless of how beautiful those times are being enjoyed, and no matter the fear of this soon to be attempted, graduation process, no matter the reality that sets in, reminding you that this beautiful ride when gone, will never again to return.

Still it seems that we all, whether instinctively or other wise, always agree to leave those times great times, to seek our our calling, which ever way we choose to start. In taking these giant steps, I can paint quite a few scenarios and be correct in all of them, as being another verifiable reason why young people leave their homes and those beautiful situations.

Now because this is quite a sensitive area in the lives of young people we are then asked as adults try and understand this side of mankind to be handled that way.

This is what my dear mother said to me, it was in an attempt to teach me, what usually happens to those who prematurely up and leave. She said son, this is where your free paper gets burnt. She meant it will never be that way again for me, nothing will come easy from here on. So it is a very touchy time for the kids that are embarking on this trek in all the different ways they do.

There are many plusses and as sure as most youngsters appear to be while making that departure, if observed correctly that look of hesitation is ever so present on their faces. It’s an inner confusion time, and if it’s not seen early, it will be seen and explained later.

It will forever be seen as the decision that changed that young person’s life, and the truth is: Because what goes around, really does come around again.

Though some may want to add their degree of doubt, for whatever reason. It remains that way. I am sure because I witnessed it numerous times and:

I have not heard anyone doubting the seasons, why they are the way they are, we simply wait for the next weather report, and all is well we live by them. Do they know that they actually go around and come around again?

Want to hear some one doubt me now, as I say : The only thing that heat is looking for as it gets its hottest

is someplace cool down!

Let me see the one that’s ready to doubt me as I say: The only place that Ice is heading whether it likes it or not is a melting spot!

It could get to it’s highest or its lowest there is only one ultimate fate.

So my fellowman human, if you are doing any kind of “Good” Be sure to watch out! One of the first things whose undivided attention you will sure to have is the negative, it’s Evil. That’s what will be on your tail throughout. It’s will be trying its utmost, to show you your newly inherited truth, but should be that because this attraction involves you, "it’s personal."

If it did not win its challenge of your parents and they lived as colossal, It’s their teaching you are armed with and their reputation. But it’s your time in the spotlight. So regardless of the truth, that what goes around, is coming around again? It can only come around yo defeat you, if you let it, it’s your life and you need to have control of it. This is one of the dark spots , shine your light.

If you are doing Evil, yes that evil, the opposite of good. It’s coming around again, but only this time, it’s coming around in you. Those regrets of being warned over and over by all those whom you know have your better interest at hand, and they may even truly love you. Those like your parents, your family and friends.

But make no mistakes; those can easily be the very same ones that can influence you in the very worst ways if you are not in charge of you.

Bob Marley said: Only your friends know your secret, and only he that is able reveal it.

The forces of evil will utilize every means possible to capture souls for the evil army.

Life will always be a battle, but once you are in, you are guaranteed a victory one you understand the strategy.

When young people use all the different descriptive terminologies to justify their reasons for leaving that sanctuary and that beautiful luxury vacation, the one which they are being reminded by their decision, to never again return. They will soon realize, in the very early stages of their departure, they will see why this was almost too good to be true.

When asked, thought the very best answer will always be the truth, but you will rarely hear it mentioned.

That is to come later in life, but it’s the hope of all related, that the time was wisely spent, and that enough positive ammunition has been secured for that vicious trek through the rest of his/her physical life.

Depending on their truthful and sincere reasons for leaving and depending on the wisdom they have exercised while enjoying the best time they ever had.

Well your future waits!

There are many that will return home, and guess what! There is absolutely nothing wrong with coming around again ending up home. Once your reasons are sincere, if they are honestly because you have now seen the light, and the real experience that you were being molded for all this time. All is well, there is not one good parent out there that would not love the company of their own sibling, someone they have had the pleasure of nurturing and training, to now return from the battle to share the great news. One way or another the understanding that it took to return to go over your training should also create to now sincerely join forces with the best possible partner that a child can have in life. Because now you are actually thinking wisely, you went to secure your own base from which to operate, you went to construct a new foundation but you did not necessarily failed, you say a clearer light, you now surrender to the reality.


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      Sky9106 6 years ago from A beautiful place on earth.

      Thanks 'AE". There are the good kids, that's the ones that quickly realize that life is not joke or any game, and have learned to love and appreciate their parents regardless. They then make all the necessary adjustments and move on with their love intact.

      Then there are those who were so eager to leave, and it was not for reasons of gratitude, where they were eager to help, and their movements will then enhance the functioning of their family. It's rather for themselves, and their shortsightedness .

      They are the same ones that will be later moving back, in a much worse condition than they left.

      It seems that without that parental blessing on leaving it's rather a curse they usually leave with.

      Time will usually tell.

      Blessings and Give Thanks..

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      Ruby Jean Richert 6 years ago from Southern Illinois

      Your writing reminds me of the lyric line, " Leaving home was the hardest thing i ever had to do. " Well written Hub, full of solid truth..Thank's..Peace

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      Sky9106 6 years ago from A beautiful place on earth.

      Thanks so much for reading WillStarr thought that you may like since I saw your thoughtful comment .

      Blessings and I will be over soon

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      WillStarr 6 years ago from Phoenix, Arizona

      Interesting and thoughtful words. Voted up.

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      Sky9106 6 years ago from A beautiful place on earth.

      Well it will be a pleasure and I be honored by you copying it. Am already flattered by the prophet.

      Oh Mr. Chip, first sincere thanks to you.

      You bring these smiles to my face , it even allows me to have a vivid picture of you writing /typing .

      Well, if that was truly you in the super market taking with my friend, while getting her super special ozone lol, water, I am still searching for it.

      Thanks for reading and Blessings.

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      Sky9106 6 years ago from A beautiful place on earth.

      Blessings rasta 1. Once you read and enjoyed.

      Yes my brethren you can't run away from yourself.

      Home is that palace that you really will never again find.

      Regardless of where one finds oneself with their parents, especially Mother!

      Thanks for reading , looking forward to reading one from you soon.

      Blessings .

      Will answer wd in a min.

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      WD Curry 111 6 years ago from Space Coast

      I liked it all, but I didn't want to copy it over.

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      Marvin Parke 6 years ago from Jamaica

      This article reminds me of Bobs song running away. Cant runaway from your self.

    • Sky9106 profile image

      Sky9106 6 years ago from A beautiful place on earth.

      Good Sunday morning to you and yours my dear Sir.

      Blessings . Thanks so much for reading and thanks your chosen response .

      I believe that every sincere prayer gets answered .

      I thought you would particularly like the ones about the ice and the heat. To each his own.

      But don't forget that I like all fish.

      I guess you liked it all with your thoughtful response.

      Give Thanks.

    • WD Curry 111 profile image

      WD Curry 111 6 years ago from Space Coast

      the greatest luxury any person will have of their life.

      I can paint quite a few scenarios and be correct in all of them

      The forces of evil will utilize every means possible to capture souls for the evil army.

      you see a clearer light, you now surrender to the reality.

      That's right son, you didn't hear it from me. You heard it from a prophet.


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