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Is She Interested in you???

Updated on March 27, 2008

Signs and Signals


Traditionally women will give you signs as to whether or not she is actually interested in you. The problem for us men is knowing what these signs are or if we are interpreting her signals correctly. Some women may just tease you. This makes it very hard to interpret the signals of a woman who isn't teasing. Were going to take a look at how you can sort through this mess.

She Draws Your Attention

Women like to draw attention to themselves. This is the main way that they start flirting. She may do any of the following: Drop something in front of you to see if you will pick it up. Bend over in front of you. Try to walk in your path so that you will notice her. Stand near you. Gaze into your eyes from across the room. There are many other things to.

Do You Have Her Attention?

She may have your attention, but do you have hers? A woman who is into you will pay allot of attention to you. Is she asking you questions about yourself? Does she help carry the conversation? If you are in a group setting does she pay special attention to you? Is she still standing there talking to you? As simple as these things sound they all mean she has some interest.

She Makes Time For You

Why is that some women seem to always be to busy for you? Because, they are not interested in you. No woman is ever to busy for someone she is attracted to or where there is the potential for love. A woman will always make time for you if she is interested. She will rework her schedule for you, she will get someone to work her shift, she will do almost anything to be with you if she thinks you're worth it.

She Tests You

If a woman likes you she will test you. In many ways everything you do is being watched carefully by her. Often a test is a really challenging question by her or something that makes you think "Where did that come from?" She may also try to test your self-esteem. Make sure that you pass these tests.

She Tries To Relate To You

Women like connection. She will search for ways to show that your allot alike and that you have things in common. In some cases she will try so hard that it will be something a little stupid. I had a woman once point out that we had the same credit card. She was really proud of this. If a woman does something like this with you it means she is interested.


Some women may indicate that she will be submissive towards you. You can often tell by her body language or the way she looks at you. She will almost appear to be weak in the knees. For example, if you shake her hand she may almost rest her hand right into yours. It will almost be like she wants to hold hands with you. Another common thing you will see is her leaning in a great deal towards you, trying to touch, and stand closer to you.


What you choose to do with these signs is ultimately up to you. Most men do nothing and that's why they don't go on dates or have a girlfriend. So you can be a nothing man or a something man. It really is up to you.


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      SweetiePie 9 years ago from Southern California, USA

      Thanks for sharing this with me lostnsno.

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      lostnsno 9 years ago from Seward, AK

      Thanks for your post..I would like to say in turn don't doubt your self. In general we men don't know much when it comes to women kind and we are also afraid when we have been shot down, so we look for confedence when looking for someone to date... once again thanks

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      SweetiePie 9 years ago from Southern California, USA

      This hub has some good advice, but just to let you know us shy girls often do not make the first move.  Maybe more outgoing women can ask a man they like out, but I always wait for the guy to ask me or I assume maybe he is just not interested.  One time I thought the guy was interested even though he did not ask me out, so I sent him an email and asked him what he was doing that weekend.  It was sort of an open ended way of letting him know I was interested, but the response I received from him was "Have a nice weekend."  After that experience I have never asked a man out because I am afraid to.  I am more traditional and I think a guy will ask me out if he is interested.  If he is not, then I do not think he will be asking me.