To keep love alive, you must spend time together. Communication is so important. Often we can be so tired and into our own life, that we forget to notice if the love of our life is flagging a little too.
Small things often have more of an inpact than big things, in my opinion. For example, i hate football, but since our boys have now left home, i notice my husband needs someone to share his views when watching his team on t.v. I make the effort to ask him questions, like "WHY IS THE MAN in black running up and down with a flag?". He seems to appreciate me taking the time to be interested. Maybe even asking him where he is up to in his book..... which is boring to me, but he loves to sit reading.
Go out for meals together, i love to do this. We sit and talk, our favourite place for now, is a lovely little restraunt on the beach, the staff know us by now and they do their best to get me drunk, giving me free drinks..... we chat over a candle, and enjoy each others company..... he pays, and i am drunk, so everyone is happy. It Keeps our love alive..
Discuss holidays together, and plan something for the two of you.... Buy so many clothes that hubby is turned on all holiday, and does not have to look at all the young girls around the pool. You will love to wear all those nice things, and show off your man..... and all
Now the bedroom..... A c.d. is essential, let him think the songs he loves, turn you on too....... it boosts his moral. Don't rush things take it easy, and always make noises, they love that.... Just at the right moment, ask for a raise in housekeeping money, then get a pen and paper out and get him to sign it. Otherwise two minutes later it will be denied..
Spend lot's of time on hub pages. You can pick up so many tips ...... and always always, tell him you love him as often as you can......
Tips For K eeping Love Alive here are a few. .... if i thing of any more, i will tune in and add them on.... cheers, lovers