Most women want commitment; I don't. We are only promised today so why get all caught up in wanting something that most older men are not capable of giving? Most "available" men over 45 are not available emotionally due to trauma from past women relationships.
I want honesty, and trust - trust in each other to be honest.
I want sex. Good oral and reciprocating hold me tight and move all over the bed, or floor or whatever SEX!
I want great conversation with the television OFF! Candles or low-lights are optional!
I want some great wine, or one or two dirty martinis, salad, bread and a pipe full of some great herb.
Is that too much to ask for?