When me and my husband starting dating, it was so nice, and then all of the sudden he started acting like a jerk around me around his family. I told him he needed to quit that. I feel like now that we are married that he doesn't want to anything that I ask him to. He thinks all he has to do is go to work, pay the higher bills, get on the computer try to make money, eat, and go to sleep. It makes me mad because we are fixing to have a baby and I feel like I can't get him to do anything. I told him this morning that I expect him to wash dishes and has he done it yet, no. So now I feel like I'm fixing to have two kids that I'm going to have to take care of and that's not fair to me at all. Bozy, you aren't the only one, and trust me, things will get better because mine is still a working progress for the most part, so just be patient.