I think before you can ask that question, you have to determine the root cause of your hurt and/or pain. In order to make the best decision for yourself, you have to have all the facts. The question should be "Do you love yourself enough not to continue to exposure yourself to any situation that yields only pain"?
You must never love anyone so much that you are willing to surrender your dignity. Love yourself and you will know how best to determine this answer. Hope this has been encouraging and enlightening for you! Peace