Actually I dont beleive that is any of your business, if she came to you and discussed it, that is completely a different story. If you are on the outside looking in wanting to give your two sense on her relationship----it is not your place to do so. Maybe her boyfriend likes that!
BTW how do you know it is ruining her "relationhsip" are you having "relations" with her boyfriend to know this bit of info? Hmmmmmmm
Vonda G. Nelson