We all are living in a society where we have to obey the certain norms of it. As regards encouraging sex before marriage, our society views it as an ugly part of action by any person. We know that men would never say 'No' to sex before marriage as they regard very much delight in it and as such most of them do not believe it as incorrect.
Both men and women want romance in their life, but we as a man need to think that the woman is a beautiful creation of God and is not an object to deliver fun for our delight.
Most men do not want sex before marriage as they seem to be quite happy with the relationship they have in their life and also have sufficient patience to wait till an appropriate occasion is faced by them.
In today's environment majority of men and women are living together and enjoying the living relationship without any social customs. In a number of instances, it is noticed that guys who are in living relationship have no intention of marrying the girl. The girl on the other side when smells the intention of the guy tries to end her life or moves out of the living relationship. It happens because the sexual relationship in living relationship take all charm of life and leaves nothing fresh for the married couple.
Encouraging sex before marriage has many side effects like lack of interest, lack of trust and lack of commitment on the part of man and woman in the marriage. If they are determined to see that their marriage succeeds, the couple should wait till they are formally recognized as married.
Sex before marriage is also a sin in the eyes of God. Whatsoever may be the reasons, but it is evident that encouraging sex before marriage is never going to give us happiness in the marriage and thus we need to take step from the lessons learnt in life by the people who have broken their marriage for the pleasure of sex before marriage.