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Estate Planning: 8 Reasons You Need To Stop Putting Off Doing Your Will Or Living Trust

Updated on April 28, 2018
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Carolyn worked as a technical writer, software user interface designer, and as a gig writer wayyyy before it was hip.

Families with young children need a will to identify who the children's guardians will be, in case parents pass away while they are still minors.
Families with young children need a will to identify who the children's guardians will be, in case parents pass away while they are still minors. | Source

Are you one of 50-70% of Americans who do not yet have a will or living trust?

Do you have a will? According to Kiplinger's Magazine, over half of American adults don't. Other sources list this number as high as 70%. For the purpose of this article, "a will" refers to any form of valid estate planning, including the use of living trust documents, pour-over wills, traditional simple wills, and others.

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If one or both parents die unexpectedly, your children will still need financial guidance, loving caregivers, and a sound financial future. Having a will ensures that you are doing all you can to protect in this unfortunate scenario.
If one or both parents die unexpectedly, your children will still need financial guidance, loving caregivers, and a sound financial future. Having a will ensures that you are doing all you can to protect in this unfortunate scenario. | Source

Stop Procratinating #1: Your Children Will Need A Guardian

If you pass away unexpectedly, your minor children will need a guardian. If you die intestate (without a will), the state you live in gets to choose who this guardian will be. Usually this process follows a set order of precedence, rather than based on the relationships you have with your relatives.

Let's face it—most of us have relatives we wouldn't allow to babysit our children for a few hours, let alone taking over the task of rearing and loving our precious children. Creating a will ensures that your children will be provided for, loved, and raised by the responsible person of YOUR choice, not a state-appointed judge.

For many people, the primary concern of estate planning is financial, but this emotional preparation, more than any other reason, will help you sleep better at night, even if you have NO assets to leave your children.

After you designate a guardian, consider how your children will be financially cared for. With a will, or even better, a living trust, your assets can be passed on more quickly for the care and well-being of your children, and you will have more say in the way your money is spent on their futures.

If you have children living with you at home, you need a will!

As part of your estate plan, you can appoint one or more guardians for your minor-aged children.
As part of your estate plan, you can appoint one or more guardians for your minor-aged children. | Source

Stop Procratinating #2: A Will Lets You Control Who Gets Your Money and Other Assets

When a person leaves behind belongings without leaving an estate plan (intestate), the state in which you live decides who your heirs will be, based on who THEY define as being next of kin, according to that state or country's order of precedence.

An order of precedence is the order in which the state considers who your close relatives are, and thus, who gets the money from your estate. If you have a blended family, step-family, divorce with custody issues, special relationships with non-blood relatives, etc., the state's idea of precedence may not match your own.

And let's face it. Everyone has a different family situation. A legal order of precedence, 8 times out of 10, probably does not match YOUR emotional order of precedence. It does not account for family members who have addictions, mental illness, special needs, or other circumstances that most people experience in the families.

If you want to control who your heirs are, you need a will!

Your assets will be assigned by the state if you don't have an estate plan to direct who inherits, how much they inherit, and when they should receive the money, if they are minors.
Your assets will be assigned by the state if you don't have an estate plan to direct who inherits, how much they inherit, and when they should receive the money, if they are minors. | Source

Stop Procrastinating #3: Grieving Families Aren't Emotionally Able to Handle Big Financial Decisions

If you die without a will, and there is money left in the estate after the state takes its share, do you trust your bereaved family to "sort it out?"

Remember that part of the grieving process is anger. In families with messy and unresolved estate problems, this anger may get funneled toward each other. Feelings may be intensified. Your estate could become the battleground for warring family factions. Even the fairest-minded people may resent having to become embroiled in even a friendly dispute about your estate.

"Not our family's style," you say?

Also, experts usually advise grieving individuals to put off making large emotional and financial decisions, like buying or selling a home, or relocating to a different part of the country after a loss. A person who has just lost a relative is less capable of making sound and equitable financial decisions. Having a will or living trust in place with clear, written directives to your heirs ensures that they can focus on their emotional needs or the needs of your children who are left behind; not on trying to sort out a financial situation.

To avoid disputes and undue stress during a time of loss, you need to prepare a will!

It's about time to get a will!
It's about time to get a will!

Stop Procrastinating Reason #4: Are Heirs Capable of Managing a Windfall?

If you are fortunate enough to leave a significant estate to your heirs, your heirs may not responsibly manage the nest egg you have given them. Imagine a 20 year old college-age adult receiving an inheritance of $30,000. Would they blow it on a fast car? An expensive YOLO trip to Europe or Asia? Furniture? Wii games?

Keep in mind that these are only examples. The point is, what do YOU value? And do you want to have a say in how the money is used in the future? Some people do. If you don't that's okay, too.

If you want to leave a legacy to your heirs, but want them to use your inheritance on specific financial goals like paying for a college education, buying a first home, other financial priorities that may not match their own, you can use your will to stipulation wishes for their use of the inheritance and with some trusts, even hold the money for the heir until they reach a predetermined age, such as 28 or 36. With a will or living trust, you can designate the age at which your heirs inherit. Without a will, many states will give your money to your heirs as young as age 18. Wheeee!

If you would like to control WHEN your heirs receive their inheritance, it's time to talk to a probate attorney in your area to get the process started!

If you don't have a will, higher taxes and fees will be paid from your inheritance to the government to sort it out. Less will be left for your heirs.
If you don't have a will, higher taxes and fees will be paid from your inheritance to the government to sort it out. Less will be left for your heirs.

Stop Procrastinating Reason #5: Do You Want The Government to "Inherit" Your Money?

Without a will or estate planning tools like a living trust, your heirs could receive as little as half of their anticipated inheritance.

The government charges fees for probate (the process of settling the estate), and taxes the estate. If you die without a will, more money will be paid to the government in fees to find a person to settle your estate.

With a little bit of planning, you can leave more money to your heirs, and avoid paying high estate taxes.

To maximize your estate's value, you need a will or living trust.

Family heirlooms need to be distributed to family members before you pass. But when death is unexpected, a will ensures that your family treasures are passed on to the right people.
Family heirlooms need to be distributed to family members before you pass. But when death is unexpected, a will ensures that your family treasures are passed on to the right people.

Stop Procrastinating Reason #6: Your Treasured Family Heirlooms

Some families have passed precious heirlooms from generation to generation. A family Bible, generational photos, jewelry, and furniture are common heirlooms, but what about unusual items that have meaning only to you?

If you leave your heirs to "sort it out," the 150-year old darning spool, or the yellow majolica cookie jar, or the Barnum and Bailey Circus posters may get left behind. In many cases, when the family is left to equitably divide the items in an estate, the easiest way to accomplish a fair division of assets is to sell off the deceased person's belongings in an estate sale.

Usually one person from your family is appointed as the executor of the will, and becomes responsible for filling out necessary paperwork, paying bills left behind by the deceased, arranging and paying for a funeral, and selling belongings of the deceased person. Since the process can be complicated, time-consuming, and stressful, it is natural to assume that the person in charge will want to do the easiest thing. Your heirlooms could easily be sold for quick cash, and the legacy or tradition you want to be remembered for will be lost.

There are many issues that arise from a court-appointed executor, who may or may not be familiar with your wishes. Keep in mind your own family's dynamics, and consider who the strongest personalities are. Strong personalities often emerge as executors.

To keep heirlooms in the family, you need a will.

Legacy donations to religious organizations can reduce taxes on the estate, and can give your money a chance to work toward a good cause after you are gone.
Legacy donations to religious organizations can reduce taxes on the estate, and can give your money a chance to work toward a good cause after you are gone.
In your will you can donate to any charitable causes you wish. Without a will, if you have no heirs, your money will be claimed by the government.
In your will you can donate to any charitable causes you wish. Without a will, if you have no heirs, your money will be claimed by the government. | Source

Stop Procrastinating Reason #7: You Want To Support A Charitable Cause With Your Estate

If you pass on without known living heirs, the government can claim your money for itself. And it will. The end. If you are like most people, you've spent a large portion of your adult life paying money to the government in the form of taxes. Even if your estate isn't worth that much to you, is there someone—ANYONE—that could take your money and put it to better use than the government?

People who don't have heirs may not feel a need to leave a legacy behind. That is understandable. If you fall into this category, are you willing to choose the government as your only heir?

Leaving money to a charity may have tax benefits too. If your estate is larger than 600,000 dollars, you may want to look into organizations that would benefit from your date with the inevitable.

If you don't have living relatives and you want an heir other than the government, you need a will.

If you haven't done a will because it costs too much, use software or other planning options. Nothing beats a good estate attorney, but if that's not in the cards, use the next best thing.
If you haven't done a will because it costs too much, use software or other planning options. Nothing beats a good estate attorney, but if that's not in the cards, use the next best thing. | Source

Have you been putting it off because a will costs too much?

Paying an attorney to prepare a will can cost more than $1500 if your will doesn't just cover the basics. Many financial advisers suggest that attorneys are the only way to ensure that your will gets smoothly through the probate process.

If you aren't fortunate enough to have an estate-planning attorney in your family, this amount may seem prohibitive. If you are one of the 50% or more of American adults who doesn't have an estate plan, you should know that there are some inexpensive alternatives. Here are three:

Estate planning software:You can purchase estate planning software from $40-$60. The product I saw endorsed most frequently by financial sites such as Kiplinger's was Nolo Software's Quicken WillMaker software. I personally ordered this software myself. WillMaker includes several options, helping you navigate through issues like legal guardianship, creating a revocable living trust, and passing on heirlooms and other property. You fill out an online questionnaire, answering questions in a similar manner to tax preparation software.

The software is updated yearly. If you use estate planning software, it is advisable that you invest in the upgrades to keep abreast of any changes in estate law, to ensure that the will or trust you create stays legal.

Estate planning books: Several authors have written comprehensively on the topic of estate planning. I recommend Suze Orman's series, which is informative, but written so just about anyone can understand.

Estate planning services

Online estate planning services can provide you with a will or living trust for a fee of $2-300. These services help you create you own legal documents, and are not considered legal representation. By choosing from a cafeteria-style menu plan of estate-planning choices, and answering an online questionnaire, you can have a will that will work adequately in most states.

Take the next step: Make an appointment with your attorney, or try out one of the above options to get the process started. You'll be glad you did!

© 2008 Carolyn Augustine

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    Carolyn Augustine 

    7 years ago from Iowa

    MrTrustStore, thank you for your comment. I agree with you completely in principle, of course. People should invest in the best legal help possible when setting up a legal document such as a will or living trust. However, it is my thought that some people who are experiencing financial hardships and who cannot afford the services of an attorney would appreciate knowing that these other options exist. Perhaps in every instance they are not effective, but better to have something than nothing, and go to one's maker intestate. I receive no kickbacks or benefit from drawing people's attention to these options. But with that in mind, people should always investigate the options and make an informed decision.

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    Randall Kaiden 

    7 years ago from Oxnard & Santa Clarita, CA

    Very nice hub but I would just like to add that people should be careful about using books, software, DIY products like LegalZoom, etc. The problem is that you may think you've done things correctly but if you haven't, you'll never know. Your loved ones will know when they are dealing with the problems after you are gone, of course. But that really defeats the point, doesn't it? And if you think problems are rare, try doing an internet search for "Legal Zoom complaints" and check it out for yourself. Paying an attorney a few extra dollars on the front end can really save a family tons of money and heartache on the backend...

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    Carolyn Augustine 

    9 years ago from Iowa

    Yes, I agree. The familiar truism that the only things in life that are certain are death and taxes underscores everyone's need for an estate plan.

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    Family Law London 

    9 years ago

    A will is definately some people fail to think about. Especially young people, as they think they can wait until they get older. Of course, anything could happen so it's best to be prepared in the unfortunate case of your death.

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