ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

Domestic Predators

Updated on July 13, 2015

We've all read recent cases of domestic abuse where a gal subjected herself to months of abuse and ended up dead. These mothers usually have a child or MORE and all of this could have been prevented. Several people are to blame in these instances.
First, you have the abuser who, 9 times out of 10 is a Momma's Boy who is old enough to vote but doens't really want such responsibility ..or any for that matter.

Alot of these guys come from single mothers who try to over compensate for the marriage going to hell by removing tough love from the daily regimen.
You can easily identify such mothers when they are at their son's school, threatening legal action because their son got a bad grade, or because he was penalized in any way for not performing to expectaion.
These boys end up expecting the same devotion out of their girlfriends. They want that undying love, unconditional defense and they want to be enabled 100% to do everything they want, from the female interest in their life.

Add to the mix all the gals out there who wouldnt give a good guy a second look no matter how good their personality, no matter how good their financial prospects....These girl's taste in men, for some reason, leans towards guys would rather beat them than love them.

When the gal has kids in the picture, the new bad boy entering her life sees the kids as competition for her attention.
Why not? Boyfriend's mother always put him first so boyfriend is very territorial when their new girlfriend puts her kids first and not him.

Since the Momma's boy has no emotional connection to these kids, the little ones are open targets for their rage when they want his attention during a video game session or if Mom prioritizes the kids before abusive, immature boyfriend.
When Momma lets this boyfriend babysit while she goes to work (because he wont work) he finally has his time, with no boundaries, to exercise justice on these lil kids who have DARED to come before him in their mothers eyes.
Get the problem yet?

Mom gets home from work and discovers that one or more of her kids have had an accident, crappy boyfriend pretends to be emotional and they call the cops. When the medial folks do their evaluation, they come to the conclusion that there was no accident.

Mothers out there!..When your instinct to protect and nuture your kid past the age of 18 is no different than when they were 3, there is a good chance you are teaching them that they have the responsibility of a 3 year old with all the perks of being adult.
Someone down the road is going to pay.

Gals...when your boyfriends mother has cut them off and will no longer financially or emotionally assist your boyfriend any longer that is a strong signal that your boyfriend has been abusive to his mother and is a lost cause.

Girls these days dont see that. They try to be the difference maker! They think they can change him but he will not change.
Mom has already corrupted him to the point she has lost control...YOU wont do any better. Move on....keep your kids away from them.

Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    No comments yet.

    working

    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://hubpages.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

    Show Details
    Necessary
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Features
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Marketing
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Statistics
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)