Expat Workers Treatment By Saudis; How Expats are treated in Saudi Arabia
How are Expats Treated by Saudi People
If you asked me "how are expat workers treated by Saudis?" as a westerner working in Saudi Arabia (I am from the UK and I look and dress like a “typical” westerner) I will tell you that I am treated in general with respect and in most cases people are very friendly in the workplace and in public. However, this can be very different for expats working in Saudi Arabia from less affluent countries.
This hub will go through how I personally have been treated in Saudi Arabia and what I have seen in the way of abuse towards other expats here in Saudi Arabia. I will also recount stories told to me by my wife and other expats with regards to their treatment at the hands of their Saudi employers.
As a Westerner, my general experience is that the treatment of expats in Saudi Arabia depends very much on the Saudis educational level and ability to speak English, the higher the level the better the Saudi will treat you. A Saudi that speaks no English is likely at best to just ignore you.
I have on the whole found most Saudi’s very pleasant towards me and have been invited to parties, events and weddings just because I am a westerner, often by people I have only just met. Something that has rarely happened in the west.
How Saudi Class affects how they treat you
There appears to be a number of different levels, both socially and educationally within the Saudi society in much the same way that there is in any country, each group treating you very differently.
I have had little experience of mixing with the true “upper” classes here, having never met any big sheikhs or princes or the like so I have no idea myself only what others have told me. Again, these upper levels of society treat us westerners in much the same way that we treat each other if not far more generously.
The lower end of the scale, however are a very mixed bunch, varying from very aggressive arrogant, idiots to shy, retiring non English speakers, the latter generally avoiding any sort of contact at all. The “arrogant idiots” are a strange bunch, they look at you and treat you as if you are a low life as a non-Saudi and non-Muslim, I have never seen any abuse or shout at a westerner, however god help any Indian, Filipino or other similar nationality that should be in sight when they get pissed off, which they often do!
Treatment of Expats in the Saudi Workplace


Treatment of Expats in the Saudi Workplace
I guess that the bulk of the Saudis that I mix with on a day to day basis whilst working for a company in Saudi Arabia are on the whole quite well educated, having degrees, well traveled overseas, with a good grasp of the English language. In my experience these people act and behave in much the same way as any westerner in most situations, they are however very reserved in general with regard to their behavior in public and try to maintain a very decent front, but more about this a little later in my ramblings.
Treatment of Expats that have come from countries other than western countries is however far from ideal. I have witnessed verbal and physical abuse of staff from India, the Philippines and other countries that would have resulted in people being fired and staff making huge claims for compensation in the west. However, many Saudi's show no tolerance or respect for workers from these countries.
Treatment of Women

General Saudi Behavior
I guess the best way to describe the average Saudi is as a petulant teenager, they are on the whole mostly happy and friendly, however, take away their toys, tell them no, or fail to give them attention when they want it and you are going to get a tantrum.
They have no patience, jump any queue that does not contain other Saudis, interrupt everyone regardless, expect instant service and complain loudly and bitterly if they don’t receive it. I have seen them shout at shop assistants, even strike them and have to be restrained and treat maids and drivers in much the same way (I have never seen a woman strike anyone but have seen a few shouting at “lesser” races and at each other on several occasions!)
Don’t get me wrong, I have seen some of the best, most compassionate behavior from the Saudis as well as the worst! I have been offered help by almost every driver passing when I have had to change a tire, and seen Saudis handing money, food, drinks and other gifts to beggars and lowly paid street workers (no, not that kind of street worker, I mean the Indians and Bengalis that are employed sweeping the streets.)
How Saudis Treat Women
Discrimination in Saudi Society
The society is strange with regard to racism, the Saudis are a very mixed race varying from almost western “white” to African “Black” and all treat each other equally as much as I can tell, most wear traditional dress, the long white Thobe, and they treat each other with respect in most cases. However, they treat other races and non-Muslims very differently, other Arabs are generally OK, but still not treated with the same respect, Westerners are tolerated and treated to their face with respect, other races such as Pakistanis, Filipinos, Indians, Indonesians and the like being treated like 3rd and in some cases 4th class citizens publicly!
Basically, they practice discrimination, but it is based very much on social class, many of the Saudis driving the biggest and most expensive car they can and acting as the wealthiest man in town even if they have nothing else.
How non-western Expatriates are Treated
Results of Saudi Abuse
How are non-western Expats treated by Saudis?
If you asked me as a non-westerner "how are expat workers treated by Saudis?" then I would be giving a very different answer to the one above.
Most of the Expatriates working here are from countries like India, Pakistan, Philippines and Indonesia; they work in mostly manual or domestic jobs and are paid a very low wage (although still very good for where they came from).
They generally have to put up with verbal and physical abuse in the workplace, either industrial or domestic. Some of the treatment is truly horrific, there is a case of a maid who had nails and pins inserted into her whenever she upset her employer as her punishment! I know many maids and drivers who have run away from violent, abusive employers as well as various other general laborers who cannot bear their working conditions.
A large number of Saudis treat these poor expat workers in Saudi Arabia as animals, I have witnessed both physical and verbal abuse of workers here, something I have never seen in any other country! The treatment of expats in Saudi Arabia for these poor souls is on the whole terrible and I have found it very difficult to bite my tongue at times.
So difficult to bite my tongue that when a group of Saudis tried to convert me to the Muslim faith I used this as an example of their totally hypocritical behavior which they had to agree with and were totally unable to defend.
Problems Mixing with Saudis
As an expat working in Saudi Arabia I have had only three minor incidents in my three years here, none of which were serious. I was spat at from a moving car by a group of Saudi youths (around the 20’s mark I would guess), and I had another group of bored Saudi Youth overtake me whilst driving only to open both passenger doors on my side and the youths to hang out of the car shouting at me in Arabic and making gestures – they soon jumped back in when I put my foot on the accelerator and drove at them (Probably not a good move on my part!)
The worst by far was a driving incident (nothing to do with my nationality) which I include in the hub about traveling by car in Saudi Arabia.
On the whole I feel safer and more comfortable walking the streets here in Saudi Arabia than most other countries that I have visited or lived. I have had more problems walking in the streets in major cities in the west than I have here and felt far less comfortable!
However, I would still not like to be a non-westerner or a woman walking alone here in Saudi Arabia. A woman in my mind should never walk about on her own in Saudi Arabia, read the hub on Saudi Arabia rules, regulations and laws for examples.
Treatment of Expat Women in Saudi Arabia
If you are a woman and coming to KSA to work or be with your family, then this article about Saudi Arabia Women will help to keep you informed. Just remember that once you are in Saudi Arabia the only way you can leave is with your husband's permission or your sponsor.
If you are a western woman you will almost certainly be treated well within the workplace and even publicly; although you may get hit on by Saudi men quite aggressively if you find yourself alone with them; something that you should avoid under any circumstances.
If you are from a less than wealthy country, beware; many Saudi men will see you as a fair target and will treat you as an object for their sexual gratification (Many Saudi men believe it is their god given right to have sex with their slaves!). I have met many runaway maids and other workers whose main reason for running away is due to physical and sexual abuse including rape at the hands of their sponsors. I have known women walking alone in the street be grabbed by Saudi men in broad daylight. Even my own wife was dragged into a car outside a souk (market) and was only let out of the car when she started slicing up the seats with the knife she carried for protection! Her friend was grabbed outside our building in a well to do area of Jeddah and managed to escape with significant bruising; the police refused to do anything as she was "only a Filipino!"
If you do come to Saudi Arabia; NEVER walk the streets alone, never allow yourself to be alone with Saudi men. Always follow the rules to the letter!
Treatment of Western Expats in Saudi Arabia
How have you been treated as a westerner in Saudi Arabia.
Treatment of Non-Western Expats in Saudi Arabia
If you are a non-western Expat (Indian, Pakistani, Filipino, etc.) working in Saudi Arabia, how have you been treated by the Saudis that you have contact with?
Get Better Treatment in Saudi Arabia
The better you understand the country and the people, the better prepared you will be to look after yourself and avoid some of the many problems that you are likely to face. Dealing with Saudis is not easy and they are prone to behave very badly; the polls above demonstrate this very well!
You can get a huge amount of information by reading my whole series of hubs and information about Saudi Arabia by following this link about being an expat in Saudi. The very best of luck in working in this wonderful country.
Comments
There was something in this hub that made me read it from start to end. Never been to Saudi, but I've heard that every woman in there has to put on the burka and veil. I wonder how long you're planning to stay in there? :D
Cheers!
Another great hub with Saudi Arabia as good topic. I learn much from you. Good information. Thanks for share with us. Vote this up!
Prasetio
HELLO,I am also a resident of saudi arabia.Yes what you said about the discriminatory behaviour of saudies about Pakistanies, Indians and others is absolutely right.While this is not realy a part of Islam.Islam said that there is no prefernce over any saudi to non saudi and any fair to any white, infront of Allah,Execpt One's good religious behaviour.But saudi goes against this Islamic law.But yes covering women with Burkah and veil never looks silly.Actually some time when I saw a woman walking on the beach and wearing only bikini and showing to the people and peaople watching her and makin mock of her and talking about her body it looks silly to me.everyone has his or her own point of view.you are optimistic about saudi arabia so I Like your hubs and following you and invite you to join my fan club.Keep writing and keep smiling.
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. I WISH YOU ALSO ENJOY YOUR TIME IN SAUDI. KEEP WRITING AND KEEP SMILING.
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I love walking and this Hub is very interesting - the little tiny things I take for granted. I have worked hard to have great neighborhoods to walk in.
Funny, as a female, even in the US - we garner more gawks than men.
When I was in Dubai I was treated very well but the UK overly stuffy were rather terse with me for traveling alone. Traveling alone was not my choice - I don't believe the UK gents understood that. The Muslims were very respectful. The UK gents made it known I was simply female and a short timer.
Great insights - thank you very much!
You have described Saudi Arabia and the life there very well. Their dress and behaviour towards different types of people etc was interesting to read about.
Never been myself but it is in the news so much that I do have a passing interest in the country.
nt to be there to have friends and associatesWa
Original Saudi
The lady in attached picture not a Saudi women, she is an Illegal African lady. You may need to find anther picture with a cleaned cover or 'Abaayah' as we call it.
Most of the African ladies are not eligible and we do a respect to them while they are coming to our country for a small business and at the end when they are planning to get back to home they are saying a good words (such as thanking) to Saudi counties RATHER than others where they leave a shit.
So, Welcome to African Ladies
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Oh,,,LeanMan lock that I m writing poor English.
Sorry, English it's my second Language.
Again, same to me…
I could not understand this much of hubs and post under your name "LeanMan" about Saudi Arabia "or I will call it 'Stupid Saudi Arabia' reference to your hubs" and you are still in this country.
You will loss your control if you stay more in this dummy country, what I can advise you to leave today before tomorrow ASAP.
Don't worry,,, others can adapt.
I don’t know………
Looks that I m not in a wrong impression while most "or actually All" of your Hubs report badly thinks about Saudi Arabia (No Pros). This will forward your bad impression to the world (or site reader).
Yes, I m agree with you that we are still we need to improve in certain area mainly in government services. What I can say, let us make your hubs more efficient by forwarding your notes to whom it may concern in order to come up with some advantage by solving these weakness. For example, when you are writing about Visa process and how it is difficult, you are writing a valuable advice they (Passport and Visa Office) may pay a lot to find these advices. I think you will do a favor to them if you report it to them directly or report it using any official media such as newspaper (ArabNwes) instead of posing these advices in a dark pools.
Hope that are understandable
Best Regard
Thanks,l read everybody's comment about Saudi discrimnation,some sauid are nice and good to talk to,l worked in the hospital in riyadh,seen a lot.some saudi men still have the arrogant of women doesn't have the right to talk back to me,thats need to be change,this is 2010.they feel western women are rude,we are not,is the culture of speak your mind out and have the right to say youe mind,in saudi culture,women are numbers not human.I hear so many story about saudi men that they mean and jealouse,like the case of employee pinning a pins and nails to her house maid,per saudi law,nothing will happen to the employee,especially if he has power and money(power and money are evil),if that happen in the states with a proved,human rights and govement will do a big case with you.There are so many philipinos,malasia and indian female missing,working for the hospital,you know what people say,sometime saudi men kidnapp and raped women,kill them in desrt and bury them.The worst thing is l haven't hear anything done by the hospital about all this missing women.If saudi say "Insha Alla" that means nothing will be done.They are rude to staffs especially if they related to the oyal,due with respect,even if you are a millionaire,coming to hospital,l belived nurse have to threat the patient equally,that is rules of human right.saudi men in low position are so arrogant,another thing when saudi men came to hospital with his one dozen of wifes,he thinks all female nurse have to talk to him like you talking to the king.pls don't let me going on with saudi discrimination to all other country,even sometimes with western women.
Hi LeanMan! Your hub is a great source of knowledge about Saudi Arabia for expats. I'm really grateful for your work.
I'm an architect/PM from Poland with 6 years experience in IRL - I have an offer from Riyadh to work as a PM for King Faisal Hospital. I'm wondering if you have any info re work conditions there? Also I'm interested what's your opinion on treatment of Poles by Saudis - I'm not concerned about the street as I guess I shall be perceived as a Westerner but I'm afraid to be treated badly in work. Any comments?
Regards
Well, Irish aren't the fastest working nation in the world either! The worst part for me is the "safe"-keeping of passport by employer and no way to escape if things go bad.
I should be quite well there, Inshallah (since you haven't forbidden it here)
That's great - it gives me peace of mind and convinces it's well worth trying. Even if treated as a trip to the last forbidden kingdom (as LonelyPlanet puts it).
Thanks for your advice!
BTW 16500SAR would be considered low or adequate salary for a PM there?
Well, from my point of view it is not too much (used to earn much more even after tax) but the times in Europe aren't great now for architects.
I treat the opportunity partly as an adventure and maybe a gate to other GCC posts in the future.
Read your comment with interest GmaGoldie. Obviously your travels to the uk took you to places like London an not to Bonnie Scotland where men would have traeted you far better. Shame you never travelled to Scotland what beautiful sites you missed out on, and the men dont display a stiff upper lip nor act as if someone stuck a broom handle up there arse at birth
hallo
i love reading about that , the reaction for the non-saudi in saudi lol
anyway i might disagree with you in some points
maybe the veil would be silly for u but its a choice they made n its considered to be a good thing in the religious aspects ,, in some other cases its just a traditions
i choose not to wear it but its so okay with .. as its okay to see the stripes in the Red light district wearing nothing .. its a personal choice
the racism u've point to it ive released its normal ,since i moved to germany , it doesn't mean that i agree with it but .. its just the way it is ...
usually saudi treating their drivers , maids very well
of course with some exceptions but these kinda of pp
normally are uneducated
the discrimination by the government i wont argue with that
but society , families i gotta say nein
its all relative ... its different form family to another
ive never experienced that in my family n when i say this word to my father .. he goes crazy .. i use this word to piss him off
i know some saudi girls who cannot make their own choices
others are not
p.s
most of the police members don't speak English cuz its just not a requirement in their job or even in that sector ... its not that they choose not too
i'm 20 saudi girl and God only knows how i miss being there
forgot to say thanx ... take a look to that vid
hi friends i was reading your comments n its really nice , i m also an expat recently shifted to Riyadh but believe me i love this place,calm and simple life style , few of my friends say that this place is not for bechelors lol but i think evey1 has his / her own perception . sometimes it creates problem when u face some 1 who doest know english but i think we can manage as now after spending 2 months over here i am able to understand and communicate lil bit in arabic. The thing i like the most about KSA is TIMING , there are fix timing for every thing ,Weekends are only for families you cant visit Kingdom tower , fasiliya and some other places without family and i think its good coz families can enjoy freely without any problems.Cost of living is not so high so you can enjoy good standard of living.
take care ..
Hi!
I am a non-Muslim Indian woman living in Riyadh from the past 5 years. I teach at a university and so I move in academic circles who have a good attitude and respect for Indians and Pakistanis as it is we who teach the most difficult subjects viz. Computer Science and Mathematics. I have the opportunity of meeting Saudis who belong to the upper class and what you say about them is absolutely true. They are very "refined" people. My Saudi students are very affectionate. We all have been provided apartments (more like mansions) in the most safest region "Diplomatic Quarters [DQ]". DQ is heaven for expats. One can go for long walks alone without wearing abayas. It is common to see Western women jogging in shorts. It is safe and you can breath freedom here.
In short, who you are and where you work matters. There is discrimination, no doubt. What you said about Saudi youth is absolutely true too. But I am fortunate to see only the positive side of KSA. I love KSA.
Hello Every one,
Thanks for the writer for his honesty and trying to say some good things about Saudia
I am a Saudi man by the way,and want to point to some points in a rush while trying not to be defensive, just want add an othe point of veiw in order for the picture to be clearer:
- KSA people are not PERFECT, but tell me where perfect people exist in this world??
-Regarding the bad incedints you encountered are really shamefula and I AM SORRY for that on behalf of Saudi People but beleive me I have encountered worse eventhought I am a Native Saudi so it is not all because of being expats
- There are very bad stories about treating Expats but I wonder WHY the millions of the good stories are not mentioned. I witnessed tens of them and let me tell you an amazing one
(A women noticed her maid putting tissues beneath her T-shirt and when asked her why she told her that she just gave birth to a child. The Women wondered why would you come now and she told that if she refused to come the employment office in her city will put her in black list and she needs money for her family. The SAUDI women sold some of her belongings and gave the maid an amount of Money worths a one year Salary and bought her a tickit back to her country. ( I know alot of similar stories).
-Dear Readers I want to point out to a very important issue here and please tell the others whenever you were asked (Muslims are not perfect BUT ISLAM is)
that means the islamic system is a comprehensive system and covers all the necessary aspects of life in order to live in the best way possible.
Many Saudis are not good muslims too but Many of them are indeed as all the other Muslims Natinalities
Let us not be (Generic) I can not think of any Nationality as all good people !!
We all know that Brothers can be totally different.
Anyhow, I again admit that we have many bad practices in here but beleive me we are still a good country and good people and all nationalities are welcome to work her, if anyone do not like the way we live here I promise to him no one will force him to stay..
Hope you all the best
Ali
Every word of what you said is true ,I live here ..and could`nt have said it better .
greetings from Saudi
I only did 6 months in Saudi but was not sorry to leave. I had few problems myself but I saw plenty of what you describe in the way of discrimination and ill treatment. Qatar is generally a kinder society, though having said that, it's still not a good place to be a maid or manual labourer.
Hey .. sorry for those how got into some problem in Saudi arabia .. anyway I leave in ireland for good time.. and it is the same happening .. I met bloody friendly irish and met some shyte irish.. I think our problem back home is not bad treatment for certain group of people as much as the bad treatment for people work for some jobs.. I noticed we had "as saudi" a serious problem to work in some jobs which I think lead to that bad attitude to those who work there..
As you might noticed the saudi how works in those poor jobs do not treat his colleagues in such bad way so I believe this problem will go soon as more saudi have to get those jobs nowadays or just pass a new low to protect the foreigners..
Tbh .. it is not the same all over saudi.. people how dont work in really big cities seems a bit happy.. or when you work with educated people.. and if you could speak arabic it give you more opportunity to engage with the society and have better understanding of what's going on..
wish you all great time there .. enjoy the most crazy country in the world :)
LeanMan,
I stumbled upon your Saudi hubs by accident have devoured them with interest. Thank you for such informative and candid window into the Saudi world.
I have been approached to give a series of training courses to international law firms in Riyadh for about two months, but I am quite wary of going there after reading about the restrictions on women and the road nightmares. In addition, I am curious about where I would fit in in terms of the "race hierarchy" in KSA. I am an American woman of mixed Japanese and Chinese ancestry and look entirely east Asian; neither "western" nor "Filipina or Indian". I will most certainly turn down the invitation if I could be subject to rudeness, never mind abuse.
Thank you for your kind and prompt response to my questions.
I am rather torn at this point. On the one hand, I am quite adventurous and would love to be in an exotic locale that I may not otherwise have to the opportunity to see. On the other hand, KSA seems to be so restrictive for a single woman that I may end up seeing very little of it and be uncomfortable at the same time. I have traveled all over the world (including Turkey, Egypt and Jordan) on business and have rarely encountered the type of scenario that you have described here; in a perverse way, that makes me wanting to see/experience the horrors for myself. Crazy, no?
Since my boyfriend does not qualify as a legal husband in KSA, I will have to be on my own for those two months. The description of a western compound sounds too much like an adult summer camp (minus the alcohol) of which I am not particularly fond. Hotel sounds just horrible as well. When I am on an extended business travel, I usually stay in hotel apartments; Ritz and Four Seasons usually have apartment for long-term residents that are on the upper floors with a separate entrance from the hotel guests. The apartments are equipped with kitchens and can be furnished to suit one's taste. Is there something similar in KSA?
Just one more question. How does one go about dressed richly in public if all women wear black robes? Discreet Gucci logo at the hems?! Jeweled tiara perched above the hair covering?!
thanks for sharing your experience,am living in saudi since 5 years and i feel its good place to live. yes off course i have bitter experiences as well but can be neglected by seeing what is happening in other countries
i guess you can't put it on the Hippocracy of muslims. Muslim today is like a pearl among many rocks hard to find..although many call themselves muslims..
believe me Islam is perfect and doesn't allow such things and today downfall of muslims is due to their distance from islamic teachings...that pearl is getting rarer...
Hello everybody!
And specially thanks to lean mean for creating this hub where we can shear our experiences..I would love to add something to these stories..
Dear brother lean man I am a Pakistani national expat living in ksa from last 17years I came here with my family when I was 5 years old..My father(may god rest his soul in peace)was the one who brought us here...he is not with us anymore he died before 1year.I will shear some of my personal experiences while living here and believe me what I am going to write here is all true and will answer most of the question which are in minds of people living out side of Saudi Arabia.
1st of all I am a Muslim Allhumdullilah and I love my religion but...in all the world people thinks that the Saudis are the best Muslims this is absoloutly wrong...please for god sake mr lean you don't know the reallities..I lived in here almost a big part of life...
1.Saudis they take the things from Islam which are in there benefits and ignored all other..
2.I think in my opinion worlds most hypocratic and racist nation is this nation..
3.you treated well by them because you are a westerner did u ever Imagined the life of those people who are working with private sponsors in working visas as a salesman,a car mechanic,a cleaner,a store keeper etc...no mr lean u never experienced u never feel the pain when half era of your life u spent somewhere and in the end they consider you nothing more than a 3rd class citizen of some country and hurt your feelings...and mentally torture you coz they know even our law going to support us not this expat..did u ever saw there educational system what they are teaching there children's in there books?u better do a research on it..
If the say that they are the best Muslims then I would like to ask them some thing...
All the Muslims they know the story of our prophet (peace be upon him)when he asked his uncle to join Islam and to accept this religion he said I know that you are right you religion is true and kind but I can accept Islam as religion because I am from a big tribe and my family and tribal people will talk about me and call me by bad words simply it's against to my honour..
I ask a question to Saudi people that what is more important to you?your religion or your traditions?and now here most of them will answer no our religion ya???then there is a simple example that you people don't follow Islam u follow your so called honor and traditions...
Because like our Islam said a muslim man can get marry to another Muslim women even from which family she is or even from which race it doesn't matter..but u people say no a saudi girl must get married to a Saudi boy otherwise u kill them and now don't say no please because I have seen by my eyes these things these are not just stories Islam gives us the right to chose our life partner for our selves but u snacthed this right from your child's because of your traditions... your consider your self prior to others just because you were born in a wealthy country?just because another expats from poor countries came to work here...while Islam says no body is prior to other except taqwa (means how much he is religious and kind to humans) our islam teaches love to all living creatures in this world without the difference of colour,nationality and religion as well don't forget our prophet (PBUH) ate with Christians and non Muslims this was our ethics which make Muslims love by others..see today what is the Image of Muslims in west..these expats indian,pakistani etc..are not here to serve u they are here for money keep this in mind 90% of labour work force are expats without them your industry your social life your restaurants each and everything is nothing....u people can see the story of a pakistani girl who was sentenced in to jail for 6 months and then deported to Pakistan and her crime was She get raped by a Saudi man..u can read this story by searching in google as well..
How u say that u are the best Muslims in world?what are the proofs that the Islam u practice is complete?and if now u say that yes we follow our traditions more than anything then please stop miss guiding this world that you are people are the best muslims...I would like to finish here I can answer more questions like why I am still here?and short answer is I am going forever after few months from here...and the reasons of my long stay over here I will write them and also I can write that why the expats if they don't like here don't go back to their homelands....everything I can answer...i want to see the reaction of those people who was saying we go through Islam laws we we we ....
And em sorry for my poor English...there are some spelling mistakes,,
And I know no Saudi is going to comment anymore after the harsh reallities those I exposed...
Hi LeanMan
I am a Non-Muslim Indian working presently as an engineer in India. I have received an offer from Bariq Mining Company(sister concern of Barrick Gold Mining Corporation, Canada). They have offered me for the position of electrician. When i asked them to review the position, they told me that it was just for the sake of getting the work visa. After getting here they would reinstate me to my current position. What is your opinion on this. Would they?
The pay is definitely good. But on reading your hub i am totally discouraged. I have one western expat in that company through which i have got this job. But i am skeptical know much would he be of help.
Please comment.
well informed research about life in KSA. Please suggest a best community / district outside of compound where one can rent a 4 beds + 3 baths apartment around SAR 45-55K.
Thanks LeanMan for your updates. Is Al-Malaz is considered an affluent and upmarket area? Please advise.
Thanks Leanman.
Hello LeanMan
Am currently looking for employment and one country is KSA i am thinking about. Wish to thank you for this site, the information you have provided and the dicussion board.
So do i LeanMan :-) Am looking but there seems to be no positions at the moment, maybe due to Saudisation or that they are slow in getting back to the agency i am using.
Yet with the negatives that i read, am still excited about trying to and possibly getting a job for my career/the experience and personal growth. Have had a friend just return from KSA (female & maori) from which she had good and bad experiences but would go back under certain circumstances. Also what would you consider the best city to work in?
I am a Hindu , Hate Saudi and Saudi's rules they are just animals , before Petrolium exploration they were just beggers .. I hate them and never want any Indian to go there and work , bloddy idiots they even dont respect women.
Well, I am a nurse in Saudi Arabia, non-Western (really easy to guess my nationality now because we're mostly the ones who fill hospitals and clinics here big and small), and I've been staying here for 2 years now. I live in one of the not-so-good parts of Riyadh where most of the foreign Arabs come from (Sudanis, Somalians, Egyptians, Pakistanis, Indians, Yemenis, etc) and what I can say is so far, the very Saudi patients we have are mostly polite, nice, and quiet while the Egyptians (which are majority of our patients) are loud, verbally abusive, and easily angry every second of the day. Seriously, Saudi Arabia made me hate Egyptians, not Saudis.
hey i got engaged nd im an INDIAN:))))..my fiancé is working in KSA for the last 4 years, he describes it as a very good place to live. He's got a permanent visa and by this year i will get married and come there to live for the next approx.7 years maybe...reading all the stuff over the internet about indian's and women being treated in KSA is making my mind work more than usual...though ur hub brings down my BP..lol...bt i hope its all good...how r women/INDIANS actually and really treated in KSA...BE HONEST FRIEND
what if i consider taking up a job in future coz there is notin much to do???...ill be in DAMMAM so.
Hello LeanMan ,,,,
I really like this article that you wrote
it's unbiased and describes Saudi Arabia very well
I'm really embarrassed of some of my fellow Saudis' actions
we should be opened and accept the others regardless of who they are
Thank you LeanMan
Alrighty thanks a ton for all the info sir ..much needed…..have a gr8 time.tc
Muslim haters should first hate the Hindu Caste System and its own horrific inequities.
Wow this is a huge eye opener for me!! My thoughts of Saudi were that I was going to be chauffered around by a nice tourgiving driver. That I would have families at the hospitals bring in baked goods and treats daily. That if I did a good job as a nurse I may get whisked away by some nice royal family with accomadations fit for a princess. I thought I would also be able to save up 90% of my income with just wearing the religious garments. I thought I would feel like a long extended vacation with warm weather 80% of the time and a pool at my command, and possibly travel oppurtunities to exoctic places since they are so close and cheap. So I may be abused, not be able to return home, possibly raped/tourtured. Maybe I should negotiate a higher salary...-31 y/o African American single female nurse-
Lol about Saudi men! Thanks sounds more of how I envisioned even with the cultural differences.
Thanks for the information LeanMan! I have been offered a position at the Prince Mohammad University and my day today is to do as much reading as I can before giving my decision. As an American woman who would be traveling alone I want to make sure that accepting the contract for two years would be a good fit for me. I am keeping an open mind while I am making this decision because I know this is an incredible opportunity for me. I look forward to reading more that you have written!
My thoughts exactly!!
Hello Everyone,
I came across this page trying to understand the Saudi lifestyle. I am a 20 something caucasian male living in USA currently and have been offered a position for a few months in Saudi Arabia. I am not sure exactly what area I will be staying in. As a general question to all, how would I be looked at by the local citizens? I would certainly take-in everything with an open mind. Are there exercise gyms? Would I be fine wearing American clothing? I would hate to miss this experience because of uncertainty...
Thank you all!
hello everyone,
I really like this page & its interesting! For years of flying as a flight attendant in the kingdom I could tell a lot about Saudis character. Every single day I interact hundreds of them and its not easy to handle AT ALL. I cannot say that all Saudis are bad nor abusive. Ofcourse there would be good and not-good.I do have good Saudi friends and polite passengers but very few to measure. Luckily, if they are nice and treat you fairly, that's really genuine! but sad to say in general I have to put this way, I don't like Saudis: being an arrogant, spoiled, the mentality of being "the best creation in the world", the incurable ignorance, and hypocrisy. Even middle class or high class Saudis has this behavior, too. I just don’t get why keep on praying for 5 times a day and then commit sins after? I didn’t say that after a multiple prayers you should not commit a single sin, Im also a human and I commit sins which cant be avoided.
I have seen a lot of instances and personally experienced those. For example during the flight, as an expat worker, most of the time I feel bad with passengers (saudis) looking upon a flight attendant as a slave, snapping fingers, shouting when they want to ask something, don’t know how to follow rules & regulations and very adamant so just like they want to do whatever they want to like they are at their own home. And the saddest part most them you cannot communicate well because of the language barrier. So I myself forcibly learn Arabic words and its good for me. But language is not an issue, it’s the way how they badly behave. Ethics & hygiene to mention.
Because I do believe no matter what status you are in the society rich or poor, if you dont have this good values, good upbringing from home (family) it definitely reflects your personality. Wether you are wearing fancy jewels, hi-end shoes or bags, expensive perfumes it doesn’t impress at all. Having respect for your own will assure gain respect from others.
shukran!
I am an Indian Engineer and having an offer letter (Assistant Manager Post) from an American company. But offer letter is under local Saudi sponsors. That means I may not have any connection with the American Company on paper/ or on documents. Will it create problem as Local Saudi sponsors will be completely Muslim oriented and may be having problems with Asians. Although American co-partners (Having office in Dubai) are relaxing me saying it will not be a problem as company is having large community of Asians (As engineers / technicians).
What is average rents for apartments ? I am having budget of 15-18 k SAR/Year. I know this is little but company is saying that is good enough to stay in 2 BR apartment. Is that true?
Thanks for the answers Leanman, What about the contractual documentation problems ? Will that create issues if require to resign or get outside Saudi ? What will be average rental charges on compound ? (Al khobar)
Hi leanman, i am a British(but originaly indian) and am looking to come and work in riyadh for a reputed financial organisation in a senior role, potentially looking for a long term stay. Package promised is good with all expat benefits, lifestyle & accommodation etc etc. If i live in British expat community/compound (i intend to stay in the most safest or place only inhabited with western) expats and just keep to the expat lifestyle,meaning my own business (work etc etc) how likely is my being "not white" going to create opportunities for potential situations (that you and some people speak off around pecking order & racism) and basically what challenges can i face in day to day life.
thanks in advance, btw your hub has provided me with a lot of insights as i prepare to see saudi arabia as my next destination of work.
Cheers!
You are scaring me now ! Rule in Saudi is any MNC who want to do business in Saudi should have local sponsors from Saudi so every expats who are working in Saudi should be working under a local sponsored Saudi organisation. So everyone should be under threatening like this. There has to be some kind of human right in this . How to find solution from this.?
Hmm ! Quite unusual laws ! Anyways, Lets see and have trust on sponsors. Have discussed with the current employees who are from India (My Home Country) and they say, there will be no problem. Have to take the risk to get something more than what can be earned here in quick Time. Everyone say, quick money does not stay along but lets discuss this once I get quick money :) Cheers
I have got an offer to work in Jizan University. I am indian Hindu. Can anyone guide about the treatment of indian expats by the Saudians
hi leanMan, Thnx for your response. I have gone through your several links and read about the treatment by Saudi Arabians,but my queries are still unanswered. i request you to please take time and answer my following queries
1. you stated many times in your comments that "non westerns are not treated well" then how commented that i should be treated fine??
2.Still i am not able to find out neither in your pages nor anywhere else that how the lecturers are treated in universities, How Saudi students treat with indian faculties,How the Arab Staff behave with Indian expats ??
3. As you have explored the life there at KSA. your personal comments as to come there for job or not ??
4. is it worth to come there for salary of 11000SR/month
Hope u'll give sincere advice thanx
Hi LeanMan.. I am so glad I found this page. I am a non muslim. I have got a job offer with a IT consulting company to work for their client which is a Saudi bank.
1) Do you think the treatment would be same for non expats ?
2) Also as far as accomodation is concerned are there any "safe" places like western compunds for non westerners like me
3) Also do you think its safe to travel in public transport, walk on roads etc without getting abused ?
Thanks
Hi LeanMan.. Thanks for your reply. Yes I am from India. I had been to Dubai a year back and I found the bus and metro rail service very convenient... Isn't there any bus or rail service in Saudi... I am sure the labourer and low paid workers will find hiring taxis or car very expensive...
Also it almost sounds like that in Saudi you may just have to put your head down when you are in around public place or even at work.. Is it that bad
Thanks
Thanks again LeanMan.
I am going to get around 15000 riyals per month as the salary.
How much do you think I would be able to save. I know it depends on the way you live.
But say I live in a decent 1 bedroom + kitchen and cook at home. Go out to a nice restaurant once a week with my wife and twice a week take my wife and 1 yr old to the beach or mall. Thanks again
Thanks again LeanMan. are you counting the House rent in the 5000 every month or is it excluding that ?
Sir,
Thank you for all the info. I have an offer with Al Kodhari in KSA as an HR. They are offering me 8000 sar Basic. Is it enough?
Thank you sir. Kindly suggest if Al Kodhari is a good Employer.
Generally this is the accepted order of things in the Kingdom: Saudi's, Westerners (whites), Gulf Arabs, Westerners (non-white with passport), Philipinnos, Pakistanis, Indians, Sri Lankans and the Bangladeshis last. Having lived here for many hyears I also happen to know for a fact that all of the 'major' Western style compounds in Riyadh have approximately 2-year waiting lists - with active screening of new candidates in place. Basically getting back to serving 'Western/White' clientel who are here on contract. Not sure if this helps, but it is the way it is.
First of all thank you for your post, I think you have been fair enough, not too rough on us :D
As a saudi woman, I have to completely agree wit you that non-western expats are treated pretty badly here, Thank god that my family (and most of the families I know) are civilized people and would never bring physical or emotional harm upon anyone!
I think this matter has to be addressed urgently, those poor people must suffer a great deal coming all the way from their country for a small amount of money and get abused by ignorant A holes.
One thing I don't agree with, in regards with what you wrote, saudi women ARE treated well here! If you stay long enough you will see that! But you have to know that if the family is ignorant, and they do not understand their religion correctly, this will lead to their women being abused.
I consider myself to be very lucky, even though my origins are beduin, but my family is well educated and very open minded. I was blessed to be the daughter of a liberal man and a moderate woman.
Change is coming, more and more families are embracing a liberal lifestyle and this will lead to a more tolerant environment :) Enjoy your stay here and splurge in every corner (Don't worry about taxes) splurge
Hi there Sand Man. I am a Black French woman getting ready to move to Al Khobar & I'm quite nervous about how I'll be treated there. Should I be walking around with my passport? Also when my husband (white man) & I go out should we carry our marriage certificate?
Great Hub you've got & it's loaded with what seems to be invaluable info.
I also admire how you've got a word for all you comment on your Hub.
Cheers, LeanMan. So, Schlimberger will be holding on to our passports? Wow, don't know how I feel about that. I thought I needed my passport in case I got in some trouble with the Muttaween & such.
Anyway, any idea how Saudis are towards Black people? Heard they're not so nice. This makes me nervous. I shouldn't get better treatment because of my passport only. I certainly am not better than others.
I thank thee Lean Man!
I thank thee Lean Man!
Will keep in touch & give feed back. Going in August/Saptember Inshallah!
I worked in KSA and never feel the things which was mentioned above
Yes- this is true driving is bad, but not all the people.Yes,people hate asians but not all the Saudis.
I still remember my Saudi Friends which were really professional and always willing to learn more and working hard also.
So donot worry about few minor issues, get your job and got the money and enjoy the life with family.
I am going Jeddah again in few months and will enjoy my period there.
As a Saudi this post is mostly true! It's sad how some Saudis treat foreigners, I'm awfully sorry to all those who been discriminated against by Saudis. I believe we are getting better in terms of tolerance and accepting others. In my opinion, Saudi Arabia must pass a law to protect non-Saudis from racism and prejudice. Nice topic thu!
Respectfully.
Hi i am from Nepal and i am moving to saudi reyadh next week. But, after reading your hub, i m so scared as well confused. Go to saudi or not? Please tell me what would i have to do. I am thinking not to go over there
Hi Leanman,,what is iqama? can every expat apply for this? tks in advance
I am glad to hear you are happy here. Unfortunately as a American woman who does not fit the desired western stereotypical image (blonde and blue eyes) I do get treated as crap. They expect a woman to be subserviant. Even though I am a surgeon, I still get disrespected. By the way, most people in higher positions are there from wasta, not due to their skills. At this point I am so sad for the malpractice that I see everyday performed on patients by the poorly trained Saudis. Did you know that the saudis that do their fellowship training in western countries only are there in person. They only shadow the attending physicians. Of course this is not everyone, but most. So sorry to say this but saudis are unethical, arrogant, dirty, HYPOCRITICAL, racist, immoral and generally bad human beings. God Bless America and democracy.
Hello Leanman, this is an excellent hub. I am moving to Saudi in July 2012 to take a position in Jeddah. It is not my first overseas position but the first in Saudi. Do you have any articles relating to safety of British expat workers? I plan to give it 3 to 5 years in Saudi but I read some horror stories on the net. I have n interst in breaking any laws whatsoever. It just seems that you could be unlucky for whatever reason and then you are stuck there. Any thoughts?
Wow! well, things are well said except for one thing which I would like to make a small clarification, in some fields or areas yes Indians, Pakistanis, Indonesians & Filipinos are Classified as Third or Fourth Class citizens but in other industries say health care for example, The construction Industry, teaching etc etc, They are trusted and gazed upon for so many reasons.
I Liked this hub because it explains so many facts.
Saudis are friendly, I myself being a Filipino is afraid to even converse with any of them unless I know where they work or I know who they are. this fear has something to do with our (Filipinos) being stereotypical. having heard of the fate of other Filipinos in KSA which are bad and appalling, murdered, raped, robbed, beaten, it makes us think that every Saudi are the same but I know it is wrong and I am trying to change that Very wrong thinking.
Thank you for this awakening hub! I will vote it up and like what you said, now I am contemplating of an article relevant to this but in a way different.
Hi LeanMan - how do you get so much time to answer all these queries.. you have been so helpful to so many people here, god bless you. I am an Indian, working in a best class company in India and now got an offer from a very well known bank in Riyadh - Arab National Bank. When I read through various posts above, it seems there will be no freedom but money. I am offered around 35000 SAR/month. I hope it is good enough money but honestly i am little scared now after reading how Indians are seen as third/fourth class employees etc... I am having a second thought now before i join this new bank in Riyadh. Hows Riyadh as a city to live in ?
You are awesome. I am mulling an offer from UN for a very high level expat job in Riyadh working directly with a saudi minister. I am american of indian origin. Can a diplomatic visa on a US passport, shield an indian ?
thanks leanman, I meant shielded from discrimination or harrassment...if possible share the experience of expats on diplomatic visa working with UN, World Bank, IMF type of world agencies in Saudi....
Thanks. I am being offered $11k (approx 40k sar) per month + 80% housing subsidy+ 75% education subsidy for kids education. We are a family of four, we are looking at maximum some eating out expenses etc, a driver, a car, a maid, how much can we expect to save realistically. By the way, we will be required to live in the diplomatic/ western compound. I know there are a lot of posts on cost of living etc, but you may have the latest info...thanks again
Hi LeanMan,
I really like ur replies
I am an american woman and both my husband and myself are in the oil and gas business. I have a minor in arabic and have a lot of saudi friends back in the states. We were talking about looking for an oil and gas company to work from either in Saudi or the UAE. My question to you is, how are western women treated? Just like a regular Saudi woman? Can I get away with working in an oil corp. in saudi, or is my husband only qualified to work there (too bad he can't speak arabic!)?
Thanks!
Thanks so much LeanMan!
One more question, do the western compounds have church meetings (does it have to be hush hush)?
LeanMan,is it doing part time job here in riyadh are allowed or not?pls enlighten me as I have interview this coming week.i informed my boss regarding my application and there is no issue for him on my part time.
Hi Lean,
Just wanted to let you know that I have made it to Khobar. Only been here 5 daysbut boy do have some beef against this society already!
This place is so hot & humids my glasses get foggy when I step & oh that abaya is awful. Why can't they be in linen or 100% cotton huh, so we can suffer more?
And stares, people openly stare. So far I have only been out with my husband & w boys. Haven't dared venture out alone yet.
Why can't foreign women drive? If Saudi women are happy not driving they should stay like that, but please C'mon already.
Will keep in touch
hi everybody, i m working i s ksa since 3 years, and i advise to everyone that plz if u want to come to ksa do come but only for pilgrimage or other religious purpose. bcz non-western expats are treated as animals or some servants who r born to obey them, i like ksa but the people behavior have made my mind sick, e.g today i was drawing money from atm an old saudi started shouting behind my car to leave atm as he as to get money i continued but he came down from his LANDCRUISER and started kicking my card and snatched my atm card, what u people think are we animals???? we r nt human beings, i controlled myself and left atm, else either i would have gone to prison for beating a saudi. this is just a minor example, anywhere if expats are waiting for their turn they must wair and if any saudi came he is free to go and be addressed without waiting for his turn, i think expats in ksa are just like donkey working hard for their masters and at last they get beaten as reward,,,,,,,, i feeeel deeeeeeeep pain in my heart, because every one backhome thinks that we r living here comfortably,
"As a Westerner, my general experience is that the treatment of expats in Saudi Arabia depends very much on the Saudis educational level and ability to speak English, the higher the level the better the Saudi will treat you. A Saudi speaking no English is likely at best to just ignore you".
You forgot to add mention the colour of the skin and the expats nationality
Sir,
I have been to Saudi Arabia for employment,in 80s boom time of oil kingdom and their economy,Our company both time was under British and German management, Our employer honored conditions and commitment to employees as per employment agreement.
In some companies Asian workers were complaining about Saudi Employer , were paying salary one time after three months working.
i heard that they say " beggars are not Choosers' Poor Asian countries and poor Asians has to listen such comments.
In general my Saudi job was economically sound and respectful.
pramod gokhale
Hi leanMan
I'm happy to find such a post about Saudi Arabia and, everything you said is right. As I live in Saudi Arabia. But the question is: where is it better to live in Saudi Arabia or United States. Regarding, wage quality of life safety and everything
I'm Yemeni and hold Green Card and my family American.
Plenty of thanks for your posts
First , thanks for all the information that u give us ! Its very helpful !
I have a question, a read about a lot of the treatment to differents nationalities, but what about latin american people ? Did u see any latinaamerican ppl in KSA ? How saudis will treat us ? Im a woman, ma boyfriend is from lebanon, if we married its probably that we live there because his work, so what kind of treatment i have to expect as a latinoamerican woman ?
LeanMan,
This is an update from my post a year ago inquiring about a two months business trip to KSA. I forgot to thank you for your helpful insight upon returning to the States and extend my apologies!
My business trip (ended up being just a little over three weeks) to KSA was extremely entertaining. It allowed me to see and experience so much that is fascinating, not all pleasant, but certainly worth the price of admission. As it turned out, international law firms in KSA only have Saudis around for show...most of the actual people who conduct a law firm's business are westerners. That made my life a lot easier.
Interactions on the street and out in public are a different story. I am not "toned down" by nature and experienced quite a bit of rudeness if not outright aggressiveness from the Saudis in the first few days. Being shoved aside by a striding Saudi woman or sneered at by Saudi man was quite common. Having read your blog though, I was prepared for my social experiment. I later draped myself with the massive amount of jewels that I had brought for just such a purpose (an amount that I would not have dreamed of wearing at the same time in the US without being in an asylum) and lo and behold, people are suddenly a lot nicer, still not "nice", but so much more on par of what I believe to be civilized behavior toward a stranger. Seriously, I could not help but laugh. Those people are ridiculous! Where is their warmth of humanity? Of course, that may be just a matter of cultural norm. On the other hand, if I was walking in Philly or somewhere dressed like that, I would have been robbed or even killed in short order. So in comparison, Saudis are downright saintly. What a country! Is it wrong to just giggle at the memory?
Hi LeanMan
Thank you for a lot of interesting and terrifying information. I am just considering making the biggest mistake of my life. I have a couple of questions for you.
1. Do you have any experience in living/working in UAE? Is life in Qatar or Bahrain any easier? Do Saudis pay more to lure expats?
2. I was told that your passport is your rate of pay. Is it true that your salary depends on the passport you hold? If so who gets the fat chunks? I am asking because I am a lucky one who has a choice.
3. And lastly – are you still in KSA? Did you find another job?
All the best to you,
Eric
I will share some of the news 2 years ago a pregnant Filipina woman was about to deliver in just 1 week, she was walking from the hospital to their accomodation when a service bus of that hospital offered a ride to her accomodation instead of going to their destination was raped by saudi teenagers inside that bus.
Hello! Thank you for all the information....it is really healpfull. I really need an advice. I am from Romania and in one week I will go to an interview for a Nas Air cabin crew member job. It is really dificult to decide what to do...because I am a little scared. So, I need an advice...what to do? Do you think that it is ok to work as a cabin crew at Nas Air company? Will they treate me as an usual foreign woman in Saudi Arabia? Do you ever traveled with Nas Air? How do you see the cabin crews? Thank you very much in advance !
Hey man,
I enjoy your posts, a lot of really good information. I work for a very large company here in the 'Kingdom' and I was recently refused a car loan on the basis of I am a foreigner!now I told my colleagues, whom indicated that a lot of expats come here, don't like it, get loans , cards and do a runner! Which is stopping us hard working folk getting the benefits of low interest etc. Now I do work with a bitter lot haha and try told me of at Least 7 different incidents one most recently a month ago, about a chap who came and left with $7000 on a card, another about a guy who stayed for 6 months got a 100,000 riyals loan and ran away on the weekend! is this true? What are the implications of something like this? I'm not thinking of it myself as I've been refused haha. But I'm interested in what effect this would have on an expat elsewhere? What power does the saudi government have?
What about discrimination from ur own country citizen UK against Arab and Muslims? I can tell million stories! Ur trying to tarnish our image because we are Muslim. I read ur blog from top to last end n i can rest assure u that ur hatred is obvious. Ur the one who being hypocritic not us Saudi. I f we see some thing wrong we say it on the face! Regardless ur westerner or from less wealthy country labor with bad attitude and behavior and who don't respect customer will have to expect the exact same behavior back! Thats why most western expat treated well here simply becuz they tend to respect the culture and maintain a good attitude towards the locals so they r payed back the same way. I my self encounter and observed some rude (to Arab culture stadard) from other Non-Arab labor but i try my very best to ignore it and i dun blame them they might did not have opportitunity to learn or did not have good education or disciplin back at their countries. At the end, if ur not happy with it please go find better place we meed ur job. If u like it n u respect the country we will treat u like a king and u r very welcome. Salam! Excuse my poor English.
I want to add something here,, as Saudi we don't care what color u r u guys r totally wrong. If u r black, white, green we care more about how much respect and passion you give us locals and to respect for our customs and religion and based on that we will pay it back in the same amount and way of respect. Its not because you r "western" that's total hogwash and naïve to say. Nevertheless, it is a matter of fact that "western" expat in particular have succeeded to -through out years- to build good perception "good sterostype?" About how respectful and good attitude n behavior they show to the host country n its ppl.thats Y. One last thing, its naïve to say Saudi person who speaks better English = more respectful! Thats so naïve! Character n personlty have noghing to do with being able English! Actually ppl who think this way show how education level they are. Salam! = peace in Arabic.
I don't need you to tell me to go and observe i do see majority of people treating their maids very well many non-muslims labor and maids are emeacing Islam because of the bright side and treatment they were shown by their Saudi families. (Islam is growing thank God). exceptional bad treatments happen here and there like ( 10 crime for like per 100,000) but why do u only keep repeating 1% u just another hater who want to bash n bad name Saudi people why do not u also mention the good examples u seen or heared while u r here? What's all this unjustified hatefull remarks about? Is it hate for Islam or hate for Arabian ppl? Did u mingle n enter every hous of the 20 million saudis and see how they treat their maids and labors? Does the "Saudi ppl behavior expert" speak Arabic? I guess non! locking ur room door at some 4-sided wall compound n giving lectures regarding social issue sounds fun for time killing hobby. My father own a supermarkets and during Ramadan we every day eat from the same dish form long time ago while ur western (r u from uk?) country ppl were treating black ppl as subhuman even till today many of u guys r racist scums especially in euroupa we treat u much more better here. Ur blog is like 80% false info! In Arabic we do have an old say "dogs keep barking,, the caravan keep marching!". Not waiting for a reply coz i will never stop by this hatefull spreading page again. I feel sorry for ppl like ya! Pathetic!
Hello Lean Man, I would like to clarify my doubts after reading few of your answers to many people who need them the most. Quick response is highly appreciable.
Hello, after reading all this I m really hesitant to go to Saudi. . We are indian. My husband has done PhD in US. He works for Shell petroleum (royal dutch Shell co). We are in Tx USA on intra company transfer. We will be here for 4-5 years with I have work permit and can work here in USA. My hubby got an offer from sebic riyadh. Sebic is a fairly big petrochemical n oil company of Saudi Arabia. He gets 120000 $ /annum in USA as a package plus bonus and other benefits. So of course in saudi Arabia he will more salary than here. we will choose to go to Saudi he will be working as an expert or a scientists. So in this situation do you still think he will not get a good treatment there or treated as a 3rd class citizen?
How is that place? I mean riyadh? Is it good place to stay with family for a hindu indians? Most importantly is it safe for me and my daughter?
What about me? Can I work? How they will treat me? In which sector if I will work I will be treated better? In US I will be working in IT.. (presently at home with my baby)
What you would suggest? Staying here or grabbing the opportunity? ?
Hello LeanMan, I thank you for your humble response. I am 24 year old bachelor from India, I am really glad to share my doubts after reading your valuable answers to many foreigners who get opportunity to go to Gulf.Firstly appreciating your fabulous job for expats willing to go to Gulf countries. Recently have got an abroad job offer from a company in Dammam, KSA. My monthly pay split is SAR 3000 Basic + 750 Accomodation + 300 Food + 100 Personal stuff +400 Phone calls+ Car with Fuel and Maintenance + Medical Insurance + To & Fro Air tickets once in a year with 30 days paid vaccation + Iqama Renewal + Marriage and New born baby allowances and still more allowances for Ramzan and Bakrid festivals in addition to very good incentive structure of 3% on my sales as my job role is Sales & Business Development Engineer + One month salary Bonus with a 2 year aggreement.
Here i go with my questions
1. Is it an acceptable offer? If so, how much could i save?
2. How safe is the place for Indian Hindus?
3. How is the general working culture of the companies over there?
Brief explanation on this is highly appreciable as i am unaware of this place.
Thanking you in advance.
Hello Dear LeanMan
Thank you very much for your valuable information and quick response which enables my plans for my trip to Saudi.
if this Saudi believe in God or in Allah and if Allah is created every thing including non Arab and non Muslim people and if this people respect the invisible us they are saying why the are not respect us even like camel.
i live here for more than 5 years i have one thing to talk 99.99% Saudi are living with out any humanity.
Hello I am a black South African female and I have been offered a lecturing job in Saudi. Will I be discriminate against? So worried now...
Hi LeanMan,
i am planning on coming out to KSA, maybe Riyadh. What have you seen the treatment of non-white expatriate coming with Canada or US nationalities. I did grew up in Jeddah, but left more than 15 years ago. i mostly have fond memories of that place but i was only 13 when we left so...
LeanMan,
I am from Saudi Arabia, and I think you wrote an accurate report about Saudi Arabia. Well researched and provide a complete coverage of the status of expatriates in Saudi.
House maids and drivers are treated in the lowest form of humanity. They come here and work for families as slaves. They do not even know what are their rights because most of them are illiterate and ignorant.
I think the problem is not only from the Saudi side, I think their home country also is partnered in the problem. Because if you see how they live their origin country and how corrupt their governments are, you will be surprised why they tolerate working in harsh conditions in Saudi Arabia.
Saudi is not the only culprit, they home countries are a violators as well.
This blog has helped me get a good idea on working in Saudi, thanks for writing this.
I am from India and I was interviewed for the position of project manager in IT division of Dar AL Riyadh, Riyadh location. The final interview is also done (offer pending) and the pay is approx. 16K SAR per month + med insurance and child education expenses. Family visa is also provided by company and I think also has 30 day leave per year.
Wanted to know if you think this is a fair deal ? Is there a room for negotiation ?
Thanks in advance.
All u said was correct ..iv been working here in saudi arabia for 4years ..and its correct that they treated people base on their looks and education...i was working in hospital and i had patient mostly maids which tried to do suicide...my place is far from city so most saudi here are not well educated and they have poor ethics.. Iv seen many nationality but i guess saudi are the worst..they dont know how to be humble.,, if u go to other country like america or canada europe i guess they will not treat other expat the way this saudi people treat us...hope allah will change these people...
Hi LeanMan
Want to begin with the point saying I hate Saudi people from today 06/jan/2014
Thanks for your article, its really very true and most of the thins I found out today after talking to my relatives and friends who worked in KSA ....I am really shocked...Islam never thought such things and my friends say most Arabs are not real Muslims, they are Muslims for the name sake.
Let me share what I wanted to share on this blog.
I am Indian Muslim with CMA & MBA degree and always wanted to go Saudi for work due to salary and the Mecca & Madina the holy place of all Muslims and even I got call from one of reputed MNC company in Saudi but unfortunately there was an incident yesterday with one of my relative who work in KSA Taif, around 7 pm he was returning home after work, midway he was stopped by few young Saudis and beaten him with Iron rod and Pepsi bottles for no reason and he is seriously injured and now he is planning to come back to India. I am very Sad even hearing he can not complaint as the police will support only there citizens and there is no justice.
After this I spoke to one of my friend recently came back from KSA, he says "the Arabs are animals and has no value for the life of non Arabs", they through bottles on the running CAR and I was shocked to find out many of my friends and relatives work in Saudi are beaten on the street by Saudi youth for no reason, looks like they enjoy troubling others.
I am planning to reject the offer I got from Saudi and don't want to leave in a hell for few more penny.
I would request all my Indian brothers irrespective of their religion not to travel to Saudi for work as there are many walking devils on the earth.
Islam always believes in brotherhood and peace but these uneducated Saudis are making to look like Islam is bad, I am very sad to learn so many bad things about the country on which our beloved prophet (SWS) walked and leaved, I always thought that people of KSA should be very kind and humble towards every one but they are not.
Don't understand why all the foreign countries can force KSA to bring new law to safe guard the people of different country who work there?
Thank you so much for your reply,
Last year I traveled to UK and believe me people of UK are very generous and caring.....but KSA? may Allah save and protect all foreign brothers & sisters (amen) and proud to be Indian Muslim who believe in humanity and brotherhood.....
Saudis are Bastards even more then USA & Europe the difference is Saudis do illegal sex & abuse in back of the curtain & rest of I mean USA & Europe is do openly
I’ve lived in a nearby Gulf state for over 15 years, so, so ,so very true. Saudi is times 10. Agree with all your observations, you’re better off if you’re from the West (and white) and poor you if you belong to any other nationality. Their ignorant behavior is the result of overnight riches, sexual frustration from having all this money and no channels to openly practice vice. A sad state of affairs in the Muslim world, embarrassed by our behavior because it tarnished the image of Islam. Hope your stay in Saudi remains pleasant. And I reiterate your warning….if you’re a woman, please use caution…never go unaccompanied anywhere. This also applies to younger males, if you’re new to Saudi, avoid being in a closed or alone situation with Saudi youths.
Very nice site!
May I seek your opinion how Chinese, Japanese and Koreans are perceived and treated in everyday life in KSA?
Hi Leanman
Really enjoy readibg your blog. Informative, fair and balance. Thanks a lot ...... :)
Dear Tony,
Namaste,
Any country with a failed judicial system and lack of law enforcement would be in similar crisis especially when there's considerable wealth in the land.It has nothing to do with Saudis or British or any other national it's just human nature to exploit those at lower vantage points.
things are the way they are!
I am a Filipino and is currently working in Saudi Arabia too, and I completely agree with the substance of this article. Fortunately for me I am employed and treated in very good, decent and normal conditions, but as to some of my countrymen, what is stated here is true. Alas, the poverty situation and unending dismal corruption in the Philippines forces many OFWs (overseas filipino workers) to endure and tolerate such abuses by their superiors all for the love of their families behind. Filipino family breadwinners will rather endure the shame, hurt and insult, if that means the families at home will have a sustainable lifestyle. At any rate, on a general note, the Philippines is particularly thankful to Saudi Arabia. As for the cases of discrimination and abuse, I gues that's just how the cookie crumbles.
Thank you. You post opened my eyes to descriminiation in ksa. Was thinking of relocating there and maybe teach at a university but now am not so sure. Even though I am a Muslim but this has nothing to do with the religion but everything to do with culture. Good bless.
I have witnessed both physical and verbal abuse of workers here, something I have never seen in any other country! The treatment of expats in Saudi Arabia for these poor souls is on the whole terrible and I have found it very difficult to bite my tongue at times.
Well.. for me I am now working in Dammam as a Graphic Designer
My experience here is quite good and some minor bad aspects, They threat me good as they can see me doing some things they didn't know. They are easily get amazed and for that, I can get the respect that needs.
My Iqama is a problem because my boss give my iqama which is not similar to my profession and I immediately go direct to him and ask it to change (He said that he will change that! And he should!)
Most of the people here threats me good as in return I also threat them good. Some of the people here are good but in terms of sexual aspects they are so "maniac" as we are in a same gender who thinks that I am a girl, I will not mention of what they done but the thing is I can defend my self, also I can say unacceptable words to them (Job Position wise).
I am from Philippines.
Do you really think wearing abaya makes Saudis muslims ?
Muslims are ao rare now.
Nobody follow Islam anymore like before.
We are going down look at middle east now .. It's choas !!
Syria, Iraq, lebanon.
We don't know what future hiding for us.
saudis wasn't racists in the past.
It's new thing after finding oil and establishing Saudi Arabia ... Money make them like this.
In this Earth every high society look down to low society or poor.
Especially if they are not democratic country.
Hi Leanman,
Thanks a lot for your information and patience to respond each comment.
I am Indian and Architect by profession. Lately I have been offered a job in ARAMCO at a senior position. Though I am Muslim by religion but liberal kind of Muslim in terms of practice and thoughts. I am skeptical and loads of concerns about my journey in SA. Kindly guide. Thanks again
lisainjedda, there are gyms only for ladies in Saudi Arabia, you can find some of them on the internet or ask someone for recommendation, so you don't have to worry about the skipping gym and your workout routine! for anyone in Riyadh, i can recommend NuYu, i'm very satisfied with the service! thank you and good luck
I am done with work in Saudi. It's simple; work in Saudi and live outside Saudi. The social life in Saudi is only for Saudis, but workers tend to forget and raise concerns on abuse. The deal is clear; "you're hired to work without social life", take it or leave!
Hi I'm a doctor, would like to work in Saudi arabia as a single female Pakistani Muslim, I just curious as to what I should expect? I mean I be treated like one of the other Pakistani road sweepers?
I forgot to mention that I'm from England but and don't speak Arabic or Urdu. So how many people could actually talk to? And do you live in a western expat compound? because I thought they where a completely different environment and people in them are also foreign so would relate and understand me.
Hi Lean Man,
I have got an offer letter from a big co. I just read above topics and i am very confused that all started 4 year earlier and i want to know that circumstances sill same like 4 years ago. Nothing change. one thing is my mind that all will change with time but slowly slowly and please tell me if you find any changes from 4 years ago to till date. changing in expat rule or human rights against expat.
Thanks
I am in khobar we don't wear the hijab as women and I've enjoyed the life there. Never been harassed and it's pleasant. I am a Black female single parent. With a British Passport. Apparently it's not as strict because it's close to Bahrain
Hi leanman,Alhokair group are going to hire me as a ride operation manager at riradh. Will you guide me about company. And what is atmosphere in theme park. I am worried about there culture because ther will be local women come to entertainment. So how to be there . Please guide me.
Dear Leanman thanks for your reply. I am worried about if suppose to be any local woman blame us without any mistake like I touch her or look at her then what , how to clear from that.what is your experience in Saudi Arabia theme park.
Hi LeanMan,
Many MANY thanks for taking the time to post your thoughts and experience in the kingdom.
I'd like to know if you have any knowledge on discrimination of a very specific population subset. I'm a US citizen, of Indian (South Asian) descent, who practices in medicine in the US. I'm contemplating an opportunity in SA, but because of my ethnicity, I hesitate.
Can you please comment on this sentiment? Is it valid? Or do you think I likely won't have anything to worry about?
Im a filipino.. A reverted in islam...
Its my dream to step on saudi arabia...
Alhamdulillah... I got here...
What u said are mostly correct...
U westerners are treated more better than the likes of me...
I agreed to u that saudi must improve the way they treat us expats esp. The maids and drivers...
We are working the best as we could and still paid less amount.. I think, your food allowance for a month or less is my salary for a month... :)
Anyway, i love islam and i know islam is the best... Only this people (not all) are very proud and disrespectful to us expats.
The males are more easier to talk and they understand better... But as for the female "madam" most of them are very BaD...
Although not all... I just wished that my country will stop sending maids here in saudi... Wallahi, a lot of maids here are living like in hell...
In the yawmul qiyamah, those oppressors will pay for what injustice they made to us...
I first came here because I am a Muslim from America and wanted to live and work in the "holy land". Now, I am just here for the money. That's all.
And something else. Saudis are totally useless and moronic people. Even as a Muslim, living here is like living in an open air prison, or a desert hell. The country is rich, but totally under-developed. There are no taxes, but regular stuff costs 3 times as much as in the west. If I could make the same money teaching english in Turkey, I would leave. Saudi Arabia is only good for working and saving money. There is no life, happiness, entertainment, or anything interesting here, except for Makkah and Madinah if you're Muslim. Also, if you come here, there is a huge cultural and population idiocy factor that you have to deal with. Like the visa and residency procedures. Also like the illiterate and totally dumb people that all want to be taxi drivers. Or the ones that think they are superior because of oil. You basically get paid a lot to babysit idiots and make sure they don't trip over themselves. I have never met dumber people in my life than Saudis. They also make Islam look so horrible.
And something else. Saudis have no right to lecture anyone about Islam nor do they have any right to control Makkah and Madinah. Saudis bring women here to use as sex slaves. They even specialize in child and sex slavery throughout the world. They destroyed what Islam is and was supposed to be. Bahrain was created just so they could bang whores, do drugs and drink. All of their wealth is actually America's money. Before, I could tolerate Saudi idiocy. What I saw in Makkah during Ramadan made me take being Muslim less seriously. Saudis are total morons. And something else. You Saudis treat indians and pakistanis like trash, most of time rightly so. But you Saudis should look in the mirror, because you guys straight up look, smell and act just like them. I actually am pretty certain that saudis are the descendants of indians that migrated here 2000 years ago. This explains their pagan past pre-Islam, and their total resemblance to indians, along with their preference to bring so many pakis and indians and the like here.
To Original Saudi. You should know this. The demand for oil will plummet by 2020. The U.S. doesn't need Saudi oil anymore. Whatever the U.S. does, the world follows. Saudi will be peddling oil at 2 for 1, $10 dollar a barrel prices. Saudi could try to get into solar, but that market won't be dominated by Saudi. Africa can produce far more solar than Saudi could. You morons should realize that your way of life is coming to an end. It's part of the qiyammah actually, since you only understand things in religious terms. And if you think that the leverage you have with illuminati will still hold after oil, think again. Illuminati will drop Saudis like a 2 dollar whore when it is no longer profitable. America already dropped Saudi, as current events have shown. You think that loyalty can be bought, wrong. Saudi is surrounded by enemies, even your own citizens are you enemies. Do you actually think Turks will run to protect Saudis? Maybe Iranians? Or Pakis? Or Israel? Or France? Or Russia? Or England? You Saudi morons can't see the truth. Just because Muslims pray towards Makkah doesn't mean they care about Saudis. And your bought alliances are all unravelling. America was the only thing protecting you idiots. But America has no interest in protecting Saudis anymore. Like your King Faisal said, you lived on dates and milk and hou will go back to them.
Truth hurts, huh? Original Saudi, lol. You people are LUCKY that I am here. That is the real truth. I know the truth about everything, even Islam. The truth that you Saudis are too dumb to understand. You quote obscure passages about Islam, when you don't even understand it. You people refuse to say "audhu billah mina sheytan iregime". Why? It is the whole foundation of Islam. You don't curse satan because........You can't fool the real divine......When you pray to Makkah-Allah, do you even know who you are praying to? Or too dumb to figure that out too? You pray to Mi Cha El. And we both know why no Muslims are allowed to have this name, except one coincidentally. You people are disloyal Abduls. I see right through you. The qiyammah as you call it, or the safak as we call it, won't pass overe saudi, but more like right through it. Making deals with satan won't stop this earth's end. It just made you fall from grace in the eyes of the real divine.
Add Your Comment..I'm also an expat and I live in Saudi
I chose to move here and I'm sure we all agree we in EARTH so it's not HEAVEN and yes in every place we will find Good people , bad people crazy people
Strange how the" Westerners" talk of discrimination when they are the Architects of Apartheid !! Yes the Architects of the most horrible discrimination system
Secondly in the Middle East at least you can get a Job in K sA ask the Palestinians whose homes have been stolen by the Israelsi or the Ethiopians who were born in Israel or even any Black or Non wrote what treatment they receive in Western Countries
I was walking down the street near my hotel in Berlin when I heard the click of a shoes and " passport please " barked at me !!! I was a paying tourist and the plainclothes man insisted he was from immigration and needed to see my documents as I was in hijab
I was affronted and refused to comply with his demand and this. Showed me that Racism is Alive and Kicking in all these so called civilized states
So if one does not want to stay and work in Saudi please feel free to go elsewhere as Stirring trouble is not welcome ( yes Not welcome )
Hey what a wonderful article and i can see you won't get votes from any Saudi's. But most of what you wrote is true.
But I do see some hope with falling oil price and govt pushing saudization and more educated coming in market place, i really hope things will changes.
As for other racist behavior, its everywhere. Its in my country India, in my state Maharashtra and its in my city Mumbai.
And I know, all true Gods Children know how to fight it and I know the Good Lord is all watching.
Amen.
i had tears in my eyes while reading this and going through some comments and i don't tear easily, it does kinda hurts that there are some truth to this.
i am a Saudi girl and i understand a lot of this i mean the discrimination against certain workers (like Indians and others you stated) and westerns valued in a ridiculous way just because of the race (wow its Americans) without knowing the actual person or anything..
it is funny because as Muslims we are supposed to treat everyone equally, no one is better than anyone regardless of race, wealth,looks..ect .
i use a public school bus to commute to school and one day we got hit from the back by a car who a kid in 6TH GRADE been driving, many girls in the bus blamed the driver and practically told the kid to run , call his older brother to pretend that he was the one driving then they would all go and blame the Pakistani bus driver. people.. really? no.
there are many many problems we have to discuss i really really want us to be a better country, a country that actually practice Islam not make it a facade. when you ask someone why they doing something wrong with knowing it being wrong they put that stupid grin and be like har har im just a bad Muslim.
what piss me off is the education, its screwing us here from a young age, and traditions ugh traditions. these are the bad roots hat need to be changed. i had conversations with people with really closed mindsets all because of bad early teaching and old traditions. traditions that should STOP.
regardless of the corruption of the country itself the people normally and generally are very nice and light hearted they are fun generous and all and i will continue living here because i love it there are just things that need to be changed.. things that some people need to realize its wrong.
Don't come to Saudi Arabia. We don't want you here. You talk about Islam and being Muslim wanting to visit Mecca and Medina when all you care about is money. Saudi Arabia isn't some sort of caliphate for you. We are nation of state. Prior to the oil no Muslim nation cared about Arabian people in 'the desert' and we have discovered the oil with help of westerners (and a Bedouin man named) and now you, Muslim south Asians act like we owe you a thing? We don't. Now, this doesn't mean I like how manual labors are treated but the blame is on your countries that doesn't care about your poor classes, they're treated the same in your own countries and with less payment and you're only criticizing us for that. Stop letting your governments exploiting the poor classes to come and work here knowing what they're going to face.
Every single job that is giving to you is a lost job for Saudis. Some of you even don't have the right qualification and yet you have tax free income, better salaries, cheap food and goods, cheap oil and giving accommodations when Saudis aren't afford any of that. With all what is said about the bad treatment, there's more than 10 million immigrants here. This proves that you're either okay with it but pretend otherwise or blowing things out of the proportion. If someone was treated bad and knows very well that we need to work on our laws then why come here? don't have enough dignity to say no to cash? In 1975 the Saudis worked in pretty much everything. I want to see my people doing the same thing, but when your cheap labor are coming here from South Asia and accepting all kinds of offers giving to them by elite Saudis who don't give a shit about our economy I feel sad about it. Not only you're ungrateful for the opportunity that you have stolen from Saudis but you will also draw every single Saudi with same brush and at the end of the day, hate the country, the culture, the people, the weather and EVERYTHING but the money. If you sell your soul for the money, you have yourselves to blame.
So my last word is do NOT come to Saudi Arabia. Honestly, we don't want cheap labor here. %63 of all crimes are done by immigrants and uneducated cheap labor with illegal immigrants. We're safe country but nowadays many children are kidnapped and killed because you hate adult Saudis and avenge by killing babies. I've seen many cheap labor selling pornography for kids in Mecca from so called 'Muslim countries' and yet we're the only bad Muslims huh?
If you're from Pakistan, India or Arabic countries, don't come to Saudi Arabia. I only like Filipinos because their work ethics is excellent and I do support better laws for workers but we don't cheap south Asian labor.
Saudi Arabia population is 20 million people whilst the immigrant are 10 million legal and 5 illegals. There's no country in the whole world with this much of immigrants. There's no Nazi groups in Saudi Arabia but you will find many in Europe, UK, USA, Japan, China. You will not find 'hate crimes' here but you will find it elsewhere. You will not find Saudis stealing your houses. In India in recent polls many Indians said no to immigrants. Why is it only considered 'racist' when Saudis do it? And I know what you're going to say is 'Saudis are lazy, they don't wanna work and therefore there has to be immigrants there' but guess what? No one can work win against cheap labor wanting mirage salaries. The cheap salary might help them back home but it doesn't help us here. We have families too whilst an immigrant lives alone and doesn't have families or extended families to take care of them.This oil boom did not help us because of the elite Saudis who filled our country of all kinds of immigrants and now, that the oil is going down we, middle and working classes need to fix that. There's absolutely nothing wrong with working as manual but we need higher salaries and south Asian cheap labors are not helping us with their lack of dignity and greediness and their irresponsible governments exploiting them without any care of the conditions. When will you learn from Indonesian government that refused to let their workers face bad treatment and no rights?
I am busy applying to work in saudi. So thus far I am reading up about the way it works in saudi.. I Gt am given the chose to choose on where I would like to work.
So far jeddha appears to be the more friendly expat place to be. BT what happens if I decided I want to leave in 34 months of working their?
I am so scared of saudi. The laws and so scared I get accused of something By someone and get thrown In jail.. how safe are the compounds?
I am a 60 year old living in the UK , i arrived in the UK as a child in 1960,I can still remember the beating and humiliation I suffered in the east London mosque. ( I was made to go there by my father to study quran) well, I never did study anything, all I remember is the cruelty. And as I grew up I learned that man is a hypocrite, whatever religion he be. I have tried to understand religion, especially in my darkest hour of need,but I feel nothing. All I see is man's greed. I don't need Jesus, Moses, Mohammed, or anyone else to preach to me right from wrong. All religions have used religion as a tool to enslave and force weaker fellow humans to submit to their tyranny. Why would I want to be a member of a club, which arrogantly claims to be, God's chosen people? Or one that made vast profits, trading in human slavery, yes you! Muslims. Christians. Jews. All guilty. Christians, your hypocrisy is breath taking, while you praise your jesus and sing your hymns, you casually drop bombs on innocent civilians. Muslims, you preach to the world about your humanity, yet you don't know the meaning of the word. Jews, you have spread mischief since the beginning of time. As for you Hindus, you are as dumb as animals, as you worship mere animals. And continue to have in place a cast system, which denies millions of fellow humans equality.As for you, Saudi Arabians. The guardians of Islam. You should see the writing on the wall. You have found great wealth without labour. Soon it will disapear, along with your oil.You will be back to wandering in the desert. Why is my name Rashid? That was given to me by my parents.
I am in Canada since 12 years but still trying to go saudiarabia ... I believed everyone has own preference
Hi everyone, wow the comments are like posted 6 years ago and I don't even know if someone would still reply me here but I'm gonna post this anyway. I'm not a worker from Saudi but I do have a boyfriend who lives in ksa. I'm fully aware that boyfriend girlfriend is not a thing for Arabians so we are keeping our long distance relationship in discreet from his friends and family except for one of his best mate. Well I got scared with what I just read, that they treat people who came from the Philippines harshly, I'm a part Spanish, Fil and half Jap so I'm pretty scared I might have the same treatment like what other Filipinos are experiencing there. I know it's off topic but can I ask you guys something? Is it normal for a Saudi man to be very controlling, and has a hard-to-reach pride? He doesn't want me to work as well since I'm under "his protection" as what he said. Hoping I could get an answer from you bros and sis.
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How to survive working in KSA
If you need to learn more about living and working in this country read my hub about being an expatriate in the kingdom so that you get a better understanding of how you are going to be treated by Saudis and everything else about living in KSA.

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