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Generational Changes: Are Our Kids Better Off?

Updated on December 22, 2012

Is the Tree of Knowledge blooming or getting root-rot

Will the next generation be wiser or merely more technical minded?

It's probably true that in every generation, there will be people who look at the youngsters of their day and say "What are kids today coming to?" I hear it frequently these days that modern media and technology are dumbing down our children. What will anthropologists and historians of the future say about this young next generation?

Let's look at just a few things...

Convenience: We're living in an age where practically everything revolves around speed and convenience. Computers; Cell phones; Texting; And all sorts of other toys. All this allows us to work and play with an instantaneous impetus that was impossible in the past. We can work from home or wherever we happen to be with a laptop and phone. We're never out of contact with the rest of the world. If the urge to speak to someone (Or to text them) hits you, you just whip out the cell phone and call immediately. Internet information is available at anytime time, any where, with just the touch of a button. We can carry 10,000 downloaded songs with us, so if the desire to hear an old favorite suddenly occurs, with can just put on the earphones and listen to it. Everything is quick and convenient today.

The Question is...Is that good or bad? Convenience is always nice but is too much convenience ultimately damaging? Is it ever better to have to wait? Is there any advantage to taking a trip to the library as opposed to googling? Never being out of touch with a job is very productive but is there a psychological toll to taking business calls while you're at lunch with your friend or spouse?

Suppose you're angry and you're thinking of calling someone immediately to tell them off. What do you do? You pull out the phone and send an angry text (Since Texts allow you to vent without having to be yelled at in return) My question is...Is it better to have a cooling off period? Maybe the time it takes to get home to the phone will give you an extra half hour to reconsider saying something you can't take back.

Privacy: Is privacy becoming a forgotten thing in modern times and if it is, is that a bad thing? Is blogging a cathartic exercise that allows people to vent and get the opinion of strangers, or is it a desperate cry for attention? Is the fact that people will say private things in public while taking on a cell phone (Things you wouldn't normally say in front if strangers) a sign that we're losing our sense of public shame? And should we lose it?

Social skills: Is a generation of children who spend more time online than playing out in the street a good thing? You might say they'll learn more online. On the other hand, you could argue that developing people skills is just as important as googling information online. Someone could make the case that kids online are learning to interact on the Net. But some experts say that it requires face-to-face conversation to learn proper ways of interacting. Listening to another persons tone-of-voice and seeing their facial expressions is a vital part of learning to size up the person you're speaking to. Also, the anonymity of the Internet has a tendency to breed rudeness and aggression, since it's easy to avoid any repercussions on the net. You just have to put someone on "ignore" and they are gone forever. You can't do that in real life. Also, is the increasing obesity rate among children connected to the amount of time they spend online, as opposed to playing 'Tag' or climbing trees?

And what about dating? As many people meet online now as they do in person. Since we are in such a lawsuit oriented culture, social interactions in the office and in public are often restricted and hesitant. And we're also too busy in modern times to date just for fun. No time to lose! So we do the online dating thing in our spare time. Its a very businesslike and logical way to choose a perspective mate. Is it a good thing? It certainly saves time, but aren't some things worth spending time on? Is internet dating just a convenient way of denying that we're losing our face-to-face social skill? Is the high divorce rate connected to all this?

Basic skills: Most kids under 18 (and even a few in college) have no idea how to write in cursive, except for their signature. Is it necessary to write in cursive? Is it really necessary to write in cursive? Maybe not. But some child-development experts say its a good way to improve a child's hand-eye coordination. Also, people who can't write script, can't read it. Of course, if cursive becomes obsolete, there will be no reason to be able to read it. But is it a good thing that a whole generation will soon be unable to read a hand-written cursive letter that was written by their parents 30 years ago? Or is it irrelevant?

Research: Clearly, its quicker and more convenient today to do research than it has been in the past. Kids don't have to leave home to be able to look up any type of information. Surely that's a good thing. Of course, some people might argue that there are things kids shouldn't have such easy access to. Should a 10 year old be able to view porno just by clicking "Yes I am 18 years old"?

Media violence: is the amount of violence in movies and--even worse--in video games, desensitizing the next generation to actual violence, or is that merely a myth started by stodgy old timers who like to complain?

Who can say where all this will lead? What will the future say about the world that the next generation will make? Time will tell.


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    • Robwrite profile imageAUTHOR


      6 years ago from Oviedo, FL

      Hi Xenonlit; I hadn't thought about girls becoming more violent, but its true they are becoming more sexualized at a younger age. I am often surprised at how young girls dress.

      I think boys doing dangerous stunts comes the TV, and shows like 'Jackass' and 'Fear Factor' which encourage crazy stunts.

      Thanks for stopping by,


    • Xenonlit profile image


      6 years ago

      You did a great job of presenting several areas where kids today are being forced to develop in different ways than any other generation in history.

      I am particularly concerned about exposure to violence or sexuality and inability to engage in imaginary play. Girls are becoming both more violent and more sexualized at earlier ages, while boys are nearly killing themselves while engaging in violent and risky stunts and sports.

      But the elephant in the room for so many children is parental substance abuse, which is epidemic.

    • Robwrite profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago from Oviedo, FL

      Thank you, Tonymac; it is definitely worth discussing. What sort of next generation are we creating? Time will tell.

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      Tony McGregor 

      7 years ago from South Africa

      I enjoyed reading this Hub andthe interesting questions it raises. Worth a lot more debate.

      Love and peace


    • Robwrite profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago from Oviedo, FL

      There's a lot to consider. I guess we can only wait and see. Thanks for reading, HH.

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      Hello, hello, 

      7 years ago from London, UK

      You have raised the million dollar question. Only time will tell. Thank you for your hub which I thoroughly enjoyed reading it.

    • Robwrite profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago from Oviedo, FL

      Thank you for the kind words, Prasetio. The journey is what will make kids today the leaders (or not) of tomorrow. We'll see where the current journey leads them.

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      7 years ago from malang-indonesia

      You are right, my friend. The kids have long journey and they might become a leader someday. How to create good attitude and responsibility for them self, family, society, even for the country. Very inspiring hub and good topic selection. Vote this Up.


    • Robwrite profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago from Oviedo, FL

      Thank you, fetty. You're probably right that a correction will be made if the generation goes wrong. I appreciate you reading.

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      7 years ago from South Jersey

      We have entered the Technology Age. No one knows where all of this is going. But I agree with your one point that cell phones, smart phones and your blackberry are no substitute for human interaction. New York City is the business capital of the world because of the ease to do business face to face, it has been said. We are definitely misusing technology in our daily lives and the next generation will suffer. But a correction will be made as it always is. Great hub. I hope it generates a lot of traffic for you. You have asked deep and defining questions for everyone to ponder.

    • Robwrite profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago from Oviedo, FL

      That's a good point, dahoglund. Are young people too dependent on calculators for math and spell-check for spelling and other toys, or is technological dependency just a harmless fact of 21st century life?

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      Don A. Hoglund 

      7 years ago from Wisconsin Rapids

      You bring up interesting points. I don't have a lot of contact with young folks but from what I have seen they seem to be a pretty decent crowd overall, despite the view often made of them. I do think the technology does do damage to education. Not enough attention is paid to basics and learning how things are done. They should learn to do math the old fashioned way before being dependent on calculators, for example.


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