The Female Abuser: Women Who Commit Paternity Fraud - The Perfect Crime
The Female Abuser
Rather shockingly it's quite disturbing to know that only one person in the UK has ever been convicted of paternity fraud yet it affects up to 30% of the fathers who actually get a paternity test for their child.
Paternity fraud also has devastating consequences for the many victims of each individual case . However, in many countries it seems like the justice systems actually (and very wrongly) condone paternity fraud which brings several other questions and issues into play.
With the law taking such a biased attitude towards paternity fraud and female abusers, it's inevitable that women are going to continue to commit the crime partly because they know they can probably get away with it and partly because the law appears to actually encourage them to so. In 2008 it surfaced that despite the fact that the UK government had exposed 4,854 cases of paternity fraud, not so much as one of the perpetrators was convicted of the crime.
An act of committing paternity fraud not only results in the child's father being victimized but the child is also deceived into believing that their dad is their natural father. This clearly shows a lack of empathy and real love for both the child and their alleged father as well as the father's entire family who have also been deceived.
The law's view on this is that the child's best interests should be taken into account and severe emotional damage should be avoided therefore they consider any father who has wrongly signed a birth certificate to be the child's legal father. However, what they don't consider is the even larger amount of damage that would be caused if the child grew to the age of 18 or 28 or even 38 then started questioning the situation their self.
Obviously, discovering as an adult that your dad is not your biological father after being deceived for most of your life is going to have even more damaging consequences than the child learning this from an early age (though this would have to be done slowly over time). Inevitably a child that has been deceived for so long before finding out the truth would certainly begin to feel hostile towards their mother after outright lying to them for so long.
Of course, the father and every member of his family have also been deceived, every single one of them has been victimized and made to love someone as a family member despite the hidden fact that they are not really related to them.
It's not unusual for a mother guilty of paternity fraud to continue sleeping with the biological father behind the legal father's back - both of them can provide money, sex and support. The worst thing about a case like this is all the money that the deceived father and his family have spent on the child over the years as well as the emotional damage and broken trust they have been made to suffer.
If the deceived father leaves the relationship he is still tied down as the law seems him as still being the legal father of the child and he must therefore continue to pay child maintenance for the child that is not really his. The act of paternity fraud is a selfish, heartless, cruel and sometimes even sadistic act and it's worrying how some mothers are even capable of deceiving their own children in such a way - the mothers commit the crime yet it's the children, the deceived fathers and the rest of their families that have to pay the price - it's the absolute height of selfishness.
Paternity Fraud is a crime that nobody should be allowed to get away with.
Interestingly enough, in 2009 it surfaced that in a one-of-a-kind court case in the UK a stockbroker had won 22,000GBP in damages after him and his daughter had been deceived by their mother for a total of 18 years.
Let's hope that we see many more cases like this in the future.
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