Lasciviousness is also a shameless conduct. This is any act of a shameless man perpetrated in darkness and is very disgusting even to the offender when discussed or brought to the open. The boldness with which these acts are perpetrated disappears whenever the matter is brought to the light.
I make bold at this juncture to say that all men without the fear of God are very shameless. Men, including “Men of God” who preach the fear of God but they themselves do not fear God. The Church must pray for their Pastors otherwise even a small girl could be empowered by Satan to seduce them and destroy their life and ministry.
A married pastor of a church who was married for 5 years without a child impregnated a worker in the same Church. He immediately resigned as a Pastor with a note to the Church saying “I am resigning, take the Church and the wife you gave me”.
This Pastor has been unfaithful to the wife. He is an adulterer before he impregnated the Church worker and remains an adulterer after leaving the Church and the wife of his youth to go away with the pregnant worker.
He was to Pastor and not to sleep with his Church members or workers. It is only a shameless and wicked shepherd that butchers and eats the sheep he is meant to protect.
Satan is waging war against the Church through members. Some say the men of God are to blame but I say the workers or members and the Pastor are to blame. There was a confession recently of how a supposed man of God is sleeping with pre-teenagers, teenagers and all members of his choir.
The woman in charge of communication narrated her ordeal of how she became a sex toy of the false prophet. She was invited to the prophet’s room to be briefed about her new appointment in the word and sound department.
She met the prophet half naked and was shocked but he told her not to be afraid. The events continued to unfold until he asked her to hold the prophet (G.O’s) manhood and then lick it and so on and so forth, Jesus Christ!
I said to myself, “that woman must be a fool”. The woman that educated and matured in age should have taken to her heels on meeting the General Overseer half naked.
“And shem and Japheth took a garment, and laid it upon both their shoulders, and went backward, and covered the nakedness of their father, and their faces were backward, and they saw not their fathers nakedness” Gen 9:23.
It is shameful for a child to see his father’s nakedness left alone touch it and lick it. Satan is really winning the battle against our families. A girl with a good family upbringing will not see his Pastors nakedness, even when the Pastor says it is ok to do so.
“And saw the father of Canaan, saw the nakedness of his father, and told his two brethren without. And Noah awoke from his wine, and knew what his younger son had done unto him. And he said, cursed be Canaan, a servant of servants shall he be unto his brethren”. Gen 9:22, 24-25.
Do we not call our Pastors, father in the Lord? To see our father’s nakedness is a curse, even if he is drunk with lust. We must protect our Pastor from Satan’s attack otherwise the flock will scatter. There is no scripture to back up why you left your boyfriend and fornication in the world only to continue the shameless conduct with Christians or your Pastor.
I have heard of shameless conducts in the homes. A sister came for counseling concerning the harassment she was facing at home from her elder sister’s husband. The brother-in-law is so shameless that he was making passes at her. Her elder sister saw him cutting eyes with her one day and called her to a secret meeting to enquire what she was doing with her husband. The sister was angry and disappointed, she told her to go and ask the husband.
The brother-in-law will leave his wife sleeping in their room in the middle of the night and sneak into the sister-in-law’s room. He will lift up her cover cloth in a bid to get his hands into her private part. The sister will feel movements in her body and wake up but the shameless man (the brother-in-law) will run as fast as he could into the sitting room and sit quietly in the dark as if nothing happened.
She has never told her sister of the shameless conduct of her husband for fear that it could break the sister’s marriage. She wanted to pack out of her sister’s house instead but she is also afraid of what the sister will make of her decision. You will agree with me that it is a dicey situation but the truth will make us free.
My counsel was she should use wisdom and tell her story to her sister as if it happened to another marriage and ask what will be her response if she was the wife of the shameless man and what counsel she could give to the harassed sister-in-law. Wisdom will also guide her to know how to present her ordeal to the elder sister.
The truth is that if she does not find a way to tell her sister first, if her sister’s husband suspects anything, he may tell him that the innocent sister is trying to seduce him. Who do you think the wife will believe? Your guess is as good as mine.
However, I told her to minster to her sister to give her life to Jesus and keep praying for the brother-in-law. I told her that without Christ and His grace, I (the pastor) could be as shameless as the brother-in-law.
I am not to condemn him but to find a way to reconcile him to Jesus our Saviour. Jesus Christ can make a very shameless man like her brother-in-law not only to be a born again Christian but to become a pastor who could use his past experiences to preach to others.
We must continue to appreciate God for getting married to God fearing men and women. Singles must ask God for God fearing spouses for without the fear of God; Men are generally useless and shameless.