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Seven Ways to Impart Moral Values to Children

Updated on September 25, 2018
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Paul grew up on a farm where moral virtues such as hard work and honesty were cherished. As a teacher, each class had a moral lesson.

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Moral Values for Children

In an article published in 2011, I suggested that moral values be taught in schools. These moral values included: unconditional love and kindness; honesty; hard work; respect for others; cooperation; compassion; and forgiveness. Now in this article, I present seven other ways that moral values can be imparted to all children.

Where Moral Values Are Learned

Children learn moral values at home from their parents when they are very young. Following this exposure from their mother, father, or both parents, kids will pick up more moral values at school, in religious places of worship, playing sports, through the media, and by association with good friends.

The problem today is that in our permissive society the teaching of moral values is neglected by most schools, the media, and by association with bad role models. A bigger problem is that imparting moral values is neglected in many one parent families where the mother has no control of her kids and in two-parent families where both father and mother work and seldom spend time with their children.

The author on a school field trip with sixth grade students in Bangkok in 2010.
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Ways to Impart Moral Values to Children

In addition to teaching moral values in the classroom, the following seven methods are worthy to examine: one, being a good role model; two, introducing stories with a moral message; three, having kids watch wholesome movies and TV programs; four, participation in team sports; five, engaging in religious activities; six, working together with children; and seven, setting rules for kids to follow in the home. Each one of these methods is now examined.

Being a Good Role Model

Children start modeling the activity of their parents at a very early age. If kids hear their father and mother use obscene language, they will repeat it and this will become a part of their vocabulary. Furthermore, if very young children see a parent smoking or drinking, they will tend to imitate this behavior. For this reason, as kids first role model, parents must set good examples for their children to follow in practicing moral values. If kids see unconditional love and kindness, honesty, respect for others, and other moral virtues practiced in the home, they will tend to embrace these values.

Teachers, coaches, religious figures, and the media also have the responsibility of being good role models to all youth. By setting good examples for young people, there will be more love and kindness, honesty, respect for others, cooperation, compassion, and forgiveness in the world.

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Introducing Stories with a Moral Message

All kids like to hear and read stories. At the age of one or two, parents can start reading stories to children. All of these stories should leave a strong moral message that good is much better and wins out over evil. In addition, the stories should show examples of unconditional love, honesty, compassion, and hard work as worthy moral values to emulate.

As children get older, parents can introduce Aesop's Fables and also suggest their children read, for example, the classics of Little Women and Little Men by Louisa May Alcott which are packed with examples of moral virtues.

Having Kids Watch Wholesome Movies and TV Programs

All too often, children are watching movies, videos, and TV programs with negative role models and which advocate sex, dishonesty, and violence. A good way of ensuring that kids are learning moral values is by watching wholesome family movies and TV programs with them when children are young. When kids get older, parents must closely monitor the types of programs they watch at home.

Participation in Team Sports

When I was in junior and senior high school, I had many moral values learned at home reinforced by participating in team sports like baseball and football. By being a member of a team, I learned how hard work, cooperation, honesty, and good sportsmanship made teams and individual players successful.

Engage in Religious Activities

While attending eight years of Catholic School. the nuns who were my teachers reinforced many of the moral values which I learned and developed at home from mom and dad. If kids are members of religious youth organizations, they will better embrace the moral virtues of love, kindness, honesty, and respect for others.

Working Together with Children

I learned and appreciated moral virtues when I worked together with my folks on the farm while growing up. I especially remember the importance of hard work, cooperation, and honesty which I picked up from mom and dad on the farm. I think it would be very beneficial for all children to work together with their parents.

Setting Rules for Kids to Follow in the Home

As a former teacher, I found that many of my students lacked discipline in their lives and in the classroom. One good way to instill discipline in children is by setting rules for them to follow in the home. If rules are broken, kids should know that they are accountable and that there are consequences for actions.

Summary

It is important that children be taught moral values in the home at an early age. Later, these moral values must be reinforced by teachers, coaches, and religious figures. The seven ways I suggest is a good starting point to supplement learning moral values in school.

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    • Paul Kuehn profile imageAUTHOR

      Paul Richard Kuehn 

      2 years ago from Udorn City, Thailand

      @teaches12345 , Your comments made me feel very happy and I really appreciate them. Yes, moral values must be taught beginning in the home.

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      Dianna Mendez 

      2 years ago

      Paul, I remember our teacher reading us books with moral issues to us in kindergarten. I believe the books have changed, technology included, and morals are whispers of what used to be taught. I agree it must start in the home and supported by schools and society. God bless you for upholding values of good character.

    • Paul Kuehn profile imageAUTHOR

      Paul Richard Kuehn 

      2 years ago from Udorn City, Thailand

      Thank you very much for your comments. I really appreciate them!

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      Geri McClymont 

      2 years ago

      Thank you for this thoughtful article on such an important topic. I think the home environment and introducing stories with a moral message are both powerful ways to teach children morals such as kindness, compassion, and the value of hard work.

    • Paul Kuehn profile imageAUTHOR

      Paul Richard Kuehn 

      2 years ago from Udorn City, Thailand

      Thank you very much for the comment, Larry! If more people showed an interest in moral values for kids, the world would be a much better place.

    • Paul Kuehn profile imageAUTHOR

      Paul Richard Kuehn 

      2 years ago from Udorn City, Thailand

      Thank you very much for your comment. I'm extremely pleased that you liked this hub.

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      Larry Rankin 

      2 years ago from Oklahoma

      Great analysis.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Interesting, informative and a hub for every parent.

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