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Tainted Outcast. Why are white women with mulatto children considered damaged goods by white men?

Updated on June 25, 2010

Unfit for a relationship with a white man.

"A little bit of leaven, leaveneth the whole lump." The evil of racism like leaven pollutes many areas of American society in subtle but very caustic ways. Quite often those who are victimized by these evils suffer in silence; day to day bearing an invisible cross if you will and the unseen internal scars of rejection by the men who at one time considered her "one of their own." I am speaking of course of white women who have birthed black children only to find that when their relationship didn't work out with the black father; her own white race and its men would have nothing to do with her and her mulatto children. White men have labeled her an instant pariah and are unrelenting in their snubbing of any white woman who would dare allow a black man to penetrate her much less bear his children. Her would be white sisters whisper behind her back; amongst themselves they ask questions like "what was she thinking, didn't she know that no self respecting white man would ever want her again?" Her would be white sisters pity her the way one pities a mangy dog who has been kicked one too many times and told to "git!" They greet her with a facade of coyness intended to make her feel as though she's accepted by them but not really. They even make civil comments about the beauty of her "mocha babies." Unaware or not caring that their mock comments add more injury to the plight she has found herself in. The white woman with black children is but one of the many collateral damages of the "great white racist elephant" that is often seen but seldom heard.

As a young black man I dated women from other races and I remember clearly a young white woman who I was dating; I remember her relating the story to me of how no white man would give her the time of day because she had birthed black children. She was not a woman who was not attracted to white men. As she told me she just so happened to have fallen in love with a black man and they wanted to have children. When their relationship didn't work out she found that white men were pretty quick to run away from her when they found out she had biracial children from a black man. She would go on to say that she had been really naïve when she considered dating again after her failed relationship; she said she never knew how intensely racist the society she lived in was. She said she had a new found appreciation for blacks who had been suffering from it all along. As I considered what she was telling me a single thought or I should say half thought went through my mind; a cliché..."a mile in another mans shoes..."

I've often wondered to myself why more white women with black children don't voice the prejudice that is leveled against them by white men? 


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      The IGNITER vs Corrupted Governments 7 years ago from The U.S. Government protects Nazi War Criminals

      Complete hogwash really-usually the white men who have these type of predjudices and hatred are hating on the white woman also, just for different reasons. The hatred comes from a lack of self esteem-"Why won't she date me, but she will go and date a black man!" Never really occurs to him that it is about his "own black heart" and nothing to do with the so-called Bad black man taking his white women!

      I know many many,white men, good men, intelligent, secure, professional, of all ethnic backgrounds that have dated white women with multiracial or bi/racial children-and loved their children also. Their love held no boundry to this silly reason you want to perpetuate.

      When one is looking for a compassionate partner full of love, their best choice is to pass by these type of men who have inner damage to their hearts, to even think such things shows a lack of education, lack of self esteem and a huge heart full of hate. Who would want a white-black-asian-etc man with that going on inside them? A mixture for abuse.

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      I appreciate your passion Ghost but given the number of single white mothers with mulatto children; I've never seen a white man with one of these women. I've never seen a white man entered into a relationship with a white woman who has children from a black man; not one. I'd like to say I have but by and large this relationship doesn't exist. If white men are honest they'll tell you quite honestly that it's not a relationship they would care to pursue given the mixed black offspring.

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      The IGNITER vs Corrupted Governments 7 years ago from The U.S. Government protects Nazi War Criminals

      Funny, because I know both types exist but you apparently gravitate to those who are prejudiced and have hatred in their hearts and I have met the opposite, the white men who couldn't give a ratz behind about something so trivial such as that. Interesting.

      Do you think possibly that light attracts light? and darkness attracts darkness? I do.

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      treasuresyw 7 years ago from Savannah, GA

      Interesting hub. It is crazy how so many biases exist. But, true enough it reminds me of how black women sit around talking about how just because a black man dates or marries a white woman that he doesn't 'do' black woman. How do we know if he does or not? It's just one of them things, but not all white men are bias. And truth is, they should be glad that they see the bias before they get them around their beautiful children and have him treating them like crap!

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      Ghost I'm sure they exist; but they are a minority of a minority. The numbers don't bear this out. In short white men avoid white women with black children. Consider that most people know white men with white step children but very few have seen, heard about or know any white man who is the husband to a white woman and step father to her mixed race black children. Consider also that interracial relationships involving black men and white women have a higher divorce rate than the national average of couples of the same race. We're at 60% and growing at the national average for marriage period and interracial couples divorce at a higher rate than that. So where are all these white men who would be the husband and step father to these mixed race black children. The prejudice is borne out in the sheer numbers I just spoke about. Anectodotally I will tell you that most white men who are honest will concede; a white woman with white children yes, a white woman with mixed race black children. No.

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      Treasure. I think we can agree that noone wants a bigot around their children; regardless of their race. The point of course is that white men are just not interested in a relationship with a white woman who has mixed race black children. I would imagine that single white mothers who have mixed race black children are so used to the prejudice that if they do meet a white man they probably ask him up front if he would have a problem with her mixed race black children. It's a sad commentary on the collateral damage of racism in the country. It's rarely talked about. Considering the explosion of white and black couples and particularly the growth of this one group. Namely "mulattos" it's strange given the rates of divorce among these couples. If the single white mom expects to remarry; if she was unaware of the taint she represents white men will surely make it known to her directly or indirectly. It's something white women are aware of but seldom if ever talk about.

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      The IGNITER vs Corrupted Governments 7 years ago from The U.S. Government protects Nazi War Criminals

      How funny that you write a Hub and you are not a white man, nor can speak for one. Do you have multi/bi racial children either? probably not. You can only speak the hatred inside you unfortuanately.

      You seem to be a hatemongerer of you realize that? As I am reading hubs, listening to things people are saying about you, I see the most horrid, disrespectful comments to others from you and I can hardly believe how sad that is. You are so intelligent, why do you waste time being hateful, rude and belligerant? You reinforce hatred-you do realize this right? Why is that? sorry to say but just listening to the hatred from you is amazing. Do you even see how full of hatred you are? Jumping around to peoples hubs, disrespecting people who have done no harm to you. You my friend have much work to do on yourself because if you can't see it, you truly are blind to your own hatred...but most of us here are not..we see you in the light, or should I say darkness that you are sitting in.

      Maybe possibly you will have a hub that you can speak personally on, something you know about? You are a very tainted, bitter man my dear. Nothing to be proud of really. So sad!

      Why are you filled with such hatred my friend? You could be sharing so much goodness with people, instead you fuel yourself with darkness. Why is that?

      I have to remove you from my fan list, I want no part of hatred that you breed here or on others pages. Good luck to you!

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      Ghost. Let's see my grandfather was half white. Which would've made my father a quarter white. So I'm an eighth white. I think that's how it would break down. I think the percentage of white is irrelevant given the topic. Culturally I'm a black person. My mother and father were treated as "black people." Again this is neither here nor their. I can't possibly speak as a white man. I am making an observation though based on my experiences and what people have told me. Namely that white men don't involve themselves with white women who have mixed race black children. I think what I am doing is exposing the many evils that come out of racism in general; I think this topic very clearly exposes the racial hatred in no uncertain terms. It's unfortunate that you see me as hateful as opposed to seeing the truth that I expose as hateful. Perhaps you harbor similar racists feelings and are reacting so emotionally because you can't come to terms with your own prejudice. In any case I appreciate your comments and good luck in your future hubbing. Have another cocktail Ghost. Good hunting.

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      Pachuca213 7 years ago

      This is a very sad subject. Honestly, although I am sure not every white man is this way, there are just too many people in the world who still live in the dark ages so-to-speak. In the hispanic culture if a mexican girl dates or sleeps with a black male she is shunned alot of the times and most mexican men will not even date her. She becomes dirty in their eyes. But again, NOT ALL MEXICAN MEN THINK THIS WAY EITHER. You see there is only a small percentage that still view things this way. But Unfortunately due to this lingering ignorant behavior others including innocent kids grow up feeling the discrimination against them. I would not know what it is like to be a child of a mixed race (black and white) but I am mixed with several ethnicities the Caucasion class never accepted me until I reached adulthood not that I wanted their acceptance, but as an adult I grew up realizing it didn't matter. I am who I am that's all that I am. Although the Hispanic culture and Armenian culture always welcomed me with open arms never judging or voicing opinions. My children are Mexican-American and I have seen some judge me and my kids based on our heritage, but that makes me feel sorry for the ignorant ones who are too dumb to open their eyes to the beauty of so many wonderful cultures. Very sad subject...good hub!

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      Thank you for your compliments Pachuca and your honesty. It's refreshing given that so few people talk about this kind of prejudice. I'm glad to see how you related this prejudice to your own culture and how the men shun women who have dated black men; also you gave good insight into the prejudice that wounded you to some degree and your children. It's a good idea to have dialogues about things like these otherwise people will accept them as okay when in fact this is more racists evil.

      Que dios te bendiga Pachuca. :)

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      Dave Mathews 7 years ago from NORTH YORK,ONTARIO,CANADA

      My Brother: As a "White Man" I find the Black Woman to be the type of woman I am "Most Extremely Attracted to" and for many personal reasons. It is too bad for me that I have never been able to find a Black woman who sees me in the same light as I see her.

      Brother David Mathews

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      Keep trying Dave. I'll put in a prayer for you for a God-Fearing sista; that you and she may be equally yoked. :)

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      Ralph Deeds 7 years ago from Birmingham, Michigan

      Unfortunately plenty of racial prejudice remains in our country. However, it has diminished considerably in my lifetime. Multi-racial couples are common in most cities, and young people are less prejudiced than their parents. The road to a post racial society is a long one, but one day we will get there.

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      Thank you Mr. Deeds for your comment. I recognize the growth toward a post racial society and am hopeful that we will one day get there.

      God Bless.

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      Barbara Bethard 7 years ago from Tucson, Az

      I hope one daY you will be able to see past y0ur arrogancer

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      Barbara Bethard 7 years ago from Tucson, Az

      just found the comment you left for my eyes only and I like ghost now see you as you truly are...this is sad to say but are not looking at all the world...only yours...europeans, hawaians,orientals, many cultures have come together with the black cultures without any of them asking the world bank for a blank check for reparation ....I am removing myself from you...I feel that in time, unless your heart changes, you will find yourself being left alone more and more often...

      I have a great respect for Ghost and Ralph...if you had posted your comment to me publicly I doubt either would have answered as nicely as they did..

      que Dios los acompañe

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      Thank you for both of your comments RNMSN. You are like most Christians. If you knew the real history of black people in this country you would know the absolute validity of everything that I wrote. In addition if you shared my history; most "human beings" would come to the same conclusion. Namely that this country has taken everything from the black man. His labor, his life...very many have become rich because of their exploitation of the black man.

      All that he has been offered is a "job" or military service against a backdrop of hundreds of years of murder, rape, exploitation and denigration. You think by giving black people jobs that it somehow makes up for all that was stolen. It doesn't and your reaction to truth and what is decent and right speaks volumes about you.

      If it was your people I'm sure you would have a very different reaction. Jews were murdered by the millions by Hitler and when Jews had the wherewithal they spared no expense finding the surving members who had done them so much harm. A black man points out the egregious evil of the country and you call him "arrogant." If I have lied to you or told you something that was untrue about how blacks have been cheated and exploited where is the arrogance in that?...

      If you're going to judge RNMSN then judge righteously and fairly. According to truth not emotionalism.

      As I said I don't need your love I need compensation for your abuses and I will take care of the rest.

      To say that black people have been cheated and never validated is a gross understatement.

      If you really were a Christian person you would easily be able to make a fair judgement concerning these things.

      Alas there are many who are Christians by name but not in their hearts.

      Que Dios Te Bendiga.

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      Deborah Sexton 7 years ago

      I guess you want to hide the truth. I'll write a hub on it. You won't be able to keep me from doing that.

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      Actually Deborah people like you parse out supposed truth and are so ridiculous and blind; answering your comments is tantamount sometimes to speaking logic to insanity.

      That's why I denied your previous post.

      You say you are a Christian yet you think women who are physically abused in relationships are sinning if they divorce the guy who is beating the krap out of them.

      You can expect that I will continue to deny that drivel and so-called Christian logic every time you write it.

      Now go away and bother someone else.

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      You're a moron Deborah. Any person who would begin to post some trivial truths that supposedly supports their racists beliefs deserves to be denied.

      Any person who would try to erase 400 years of an absolute milicious treatment of black people is by definition a racists.

      This movement on the part of whites to all of a sudden make black people racists is bullshi*.

      When I have privelege and preference over you for 400 hundred years and a plethora of historical documents citing my racism and prejudice, rape and murder; when I have the physical numbers of people, monetary, political and social power that you have. When I use my power to subjugate you to my will then we'll start talking about black people as racists.

      Until then you are what you appear to be. A racists white woman part of a racist country.

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      mintinfo 7 years ago

      Interesting subject that you have written about terced ojos. I think race relations are headed in a downward spiral but the reasons are too plenty to address in simple form. One example is, If a society is isolated in a way where Blacks and whites ever merged into a single culture then racism and prejudice might disappear.

      Different people come together through commonalities. Blacks and whites have too many differences therefore they tend to polarize and develop animosities toward each other. Dave Mathews has an attraction to Black women because he has no doubt had many interactions with black people. Other Whites who haven't tend to thrive on the stereotypes that float around among their friends and in pop culture.

      I have personally seen white women who have a Black child and went on to have other children who are white. The reasons I have heard that most white women who date Black men don't go back to white men is they have developed an attraction to black men. "Attraction" is the key as Dave Mathews stated.

      The reason why some are not welcomed back by the white men is because of the stigmas rooted in stereotypical prejudices.

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      I agree with you mint and I thank you for your thoughtful comments. I think the hub I wrote represents just one of many forms of racism that go without recognition.

      Racism as I said takes many forms and has many subtleties that are generally seen as truth because noone talks about them. Espcecially those who are victimized by them.

      I really wish white women who are experiencing this type of prejudice would post to my hub.

      Yes I have witnessed white women who went on to marry and have white children with their white husband. Only one such couple in my lifetime though.

      Thank you again Mint for your thoughtful response.

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      Julianna 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There

      I honestly do not believe all white men are rascist toward white women who have mixed children. My husband is black and I am white we have friends (white) who are married to men (white) who have had children from (black) men. Although there relationship did not work all of them get along when it comes to the children. Maybe getting along has something to do with age, education, background but I have not seen any issues with racism amongst the people that we know nor in our neighborhood.

      Racism is everywhere and it is up to all of us to change it, not sit back and complain about it. We could go back and forth on this subject continually but the best thing to do is nip it in the butt and focus on the positives in the World. I believe your friend may have been dealing with wrong choices, uneducated men or youth could have played a factor, as you grow older maturity plays a key factor when it comes to responsibility and relationships.

      There are black men and women who would not ever date there own race, the same goes for the white woman or the white man so I do not believe that anyone in general thinks that someone is tainted it is the choices that they make and who or what appeals to them when it comes to a relationship and finding love. :)

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      John 7 years ago

      This works in every situation. How many Asian woman with black kids have Asian men going after them ? Hardly any. Those woman give off weird vibes. Any any Asian man who is proud of his heritage wants to hook up with a like-minded Asian female. How about Mexicans ? Their relationship rate with blacks is VERY low but it does exist, and again whenever I have seen a Mexican woman with black children no mexican man is with her, or gives her the time of day. My point is, to many 'race' articles like to single out white people to be examined as though racism is an attribute only white people have...which is absolutely not true. In fact, I would say white people are the least racist group there is now. By far.

      I as a white person can walk into a largely black area and hear names such as cracker being said barely audible as I go by. Same deal in a hispanic neighborhood...A black person going into a white neighborhood, 99% chance he would not be called names or even bothered with at all. And the few who do dislike that persons presence in a white neighborhood wont say a thing since the rest of the area would clobber him to death with the racistbat™.

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      John you're part of the new white movement that is afoot that seeks to make black people racists. It's interesting how blacks have been the victim of white racism for the entire two hundred thirty nine years of the countries history; from that time to now. Your racism is neatly just beneath the surface and hidden now but blacks feel it everyday in subtle and overt degrees. The ability to be a racist is entirely dependent upon one groups ability to completely dominate another group in every area of human relation. Blacks don't begin to possess the numbers, political or economic power to be able to oppress whites. So your whole movement to make blacks out to be racist is repugnant. Given a backdrop of evil beginning from the time we were brought to this country. That being said your movement to get other whites to beat the "blacks are the real racists" drum will succeed simply because you have the numbers, the political and economic power and the racists will to do what you have always done; be white and racist. Some white boy is crying that black people called him a cracker...puhleeze. Cry me a river why don't you.

      Go away.

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      AeEvans. There are not enough white people like you. Nor does there appear to be the will on the part of white people to change the Racists Construct that white people created. It is not the responsibility of black people to take apart the institutionalized racists machine that white people built. I never made my race an issue. It has always been made an issue for me.

      I don't bear any responsibility for a people who hated me without a cause and committed and continues to committ racists evil of every kind against people who look like me.

      Respectfully. You can live in Racial fairy land and choose to focus on the little positive there is and all the while blacks tolerate white arrogance and racism because blacks need their jobs.

      What needs to happen is that whites need to get in the faces of other white racist people and tell them what a bunch of friggin racists biggots they are. When white people start to have a civil war amongst themselves; when whites start overturning their own families in the name of what is right and good and holy then racism will change.

      Until then racism will be alive and well in this country. Fed by large numbers of white people who go unchallenged by a large number of silent white people who say they aren't racists. Your silence is approval.

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      Mint. I imagine that if someone is not attracted to someone of their own race they might seek to be with someone they are attracted to. My hub is really not about attraction; nor can attraction explain the truth of what I'm saying. Again the vast majority of white women who have mixed race black children; should they seek or desire to start a relationship with a white man will find it very difficult specifically because she has children by a black man period.

      We can talk about isolated instances of white women with black children finding a new relationship with a white man but I know that realistically this doesn't happen; white men are just not having it. If the children were white it wouldn't be an issue; but a white woman with mixed race black children. No way. The average white man is going to have major issues with this arrangement.

      It's strange to see people try to rehabilitate the white man with regard to this subject when most people know the absolute validity of what I'm saying.

      Don't worry you're not going to get any white men coming into this hub and posting their very real problem with white women who have biracial black and white children.

      Again my hub is just one of many of the subtle; collateral damages of racism.

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      Elena 7 years ago from London, UK

      Interesting Hub - then again it could be that He wouldn't know how to explain it socially when they are out together. Some might really like the woman.

      Not all men are like that - Katie Price is famous in UK and has a disabled son. (father a famous African Footballer who wanted nothing to do with her or the boy). She has gone on to have good relationships with Non-Africans and recently married Alex Reid - who treats her kids like his own.

      We live in a very "sad" society. Shame on the men who think such women are damaged goods.

      Best Wishes.

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      Lady_E. The fact that he would be made to feel that he had anything to explain to anyone is yet more proof of yet another subtle and caustic form of racism.

      It's funny how as you begin to talk about one subtlety another kind of racism magically appears. Namely that anyone would be made to feel that they have to explain the existence of the different races of the members of their family. Am I the only one who thinks racist things like this are repugnant?

      We can play games and sing cumbaya but until people are vocal about the very real instances of racism that are happening everyday these things will continue to negatively effect people.

      You said "not all men are like that." Yes I understand that. It has been said by people prior in their posts here.

      I'll say it yet again. The overwhelming, vast majority of white men will have nothing to do with a white woman who has bi-racial black and white children.

      Thank you for your comment.

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      Judah's Daughter 7 years ago from Roseville, CA

      Hi brother ~ wow. While I haven't read all your comments, I can only speak from my own experience in this area. I am one of those women you've written about here. I dated a white man ~ we were deeply in love for three years. I hoped always he would ask me to marry him. His excuse? His mother couldn't handle the fact I had an inter-racial child. His mother...right.

      I then dated a white Christian man that proclaimed how much he loved this black pastor in Texas and wanted to travel there to see him preach in person. He listened to him every week on the radio. I felt comfortable telling him I have an inter-racial child, only to get an email that evening after our date that he couldn't handle that; that he still struggles with racism. Wow. I pray God is working in his heart even today.

      I am truly thankful that my child is actually a protective shield in my life when it comes to dating, for I wouldn't want any man that would have a racist bone in his heart. For the racist community, I do find racist white men do have a problem with it, and racist black women also are resentful to think one of "theirs" chose a white woman over them.

      Racism is hate and John (whom Jesus loved) wrote in 1 John 4:20, "If someone says, "I love God," and hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen." Both Moses and Solomon married black women...God is not against inter-racial marriages as some "preach" without saying a word...

      Thank you for knowing and exposing the hearts of racial men (really men and women) in this hub and the hurts of women like me who have certainly encountered them. God bless you.

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      Wow....Sister Judah. Who would've thunk it. God is amazing. This whole time you were standing right next to me and I was writing about you and didn't know it but God knew. Wow....God is good Judah.

      Racism is heavy on my heart especially with regards to Gods people. There is so much racism in the Christian church Judah especially between black and white.

      In any case I don't believe that our interaction is a coincidence considering the God we both serve.

      Wow Judah. Thank you for reading my hub or should I say thank God for leading you here.

      Wonders never cease.

      God Bless You, God Bless You.



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      Judah's Daughter 7 years ago from Roseville, CA

      Yes, wonders never cease :-)

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      Tony McGregor 7 years ago from South Africa

      Racism is an evil which needs to be continually exposed. I have recently looked at a book which is on a website called "Aithout Sanctuary" which is about the lynching of blacks by whites in the early part of the 20th Century. It is truly frightening that such things could happen in the US. And similar things happened here in my country, especially during the time of apartheid.

      I just hope and pray that racism will be overcome and done away with.

      Thanks for writing this Hub which some will find difficult to read, but it's important that this kind of thing be written.

      Love and peace


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      laine 7 years ago

      its always got to come back on whitey. its getting old.

      if blacks cared more about their race they would not mix with whites. blame the ones mixing. i would not want a mixed family. if i had kids i would want them to look like me and my race, not some other race. which is 100% right and justified. color exist and if it were not important everyone would be one color. races exist, stick to your own. in a perfect world races would live separately as they always have and then there would be no racism or race hate. and for the record, i think non-white races are very racist maybe more so than whites. dont put it all on whitey, that's racist.

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      terced ojos 7 years ago from

      Laine...your post is indicative of pure racism.

      Your attitudes and ideas are why this racial hatred is so pervasive. You and people who think like you are the problem.

      You are the foundation of this hub. It was written on the actions, attitudes and racial hatred of people just like you.

      Your post proves my point you have done nothing but show how very true every word I wrote is.

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      Real dude 7 years ago

      Damn right they don't want to take responsibility for some sluts half-breed kids. You guys don't seem to understand what racism is. In my opinion only people in position of power like police and employers have ability to be racist and discriminate and in those situation it is ompletely immoral and unfair. However a man has a right to be with whoever he chooses for whatever reason he chooses, this cannot be called called racism, just personal preference. Men should do only what they want. You seem to suggest that white men should cater to these womens needs when these women have not catered to the men. Why is it bad for a white man to reject a woman with black kids, but it is not seen as bad for a woman to have kids with a black man first and then expect a white man to want her? Why didn't she seek commitment with a white man in the first place instead of being used up by a blackman? Just for the record i am not racist, but i can see things from the mans point of you. I have no interest in any woman with children whether they are white, black or asian. I hate not just black kids, but kids by any other man. I am a very traditional in my views on reproduction and marriage.

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      Brian 7 years ago

      Yes they are damaged goods to me. I won't date a single mom in the first place but especially if she has a half breed kid. And its a big f you to white men from both the black guy and the white girl. I'm personally disgusted by white girls that do this and I hope they learn the hard way. Once you go black you're never accepted back. You know black guys do it just to piss off white guys. They don't care about the white girl. They do it deliberately. There is almost no danger in that happening to black girls because 99 percent of white guys will not go out with a black woman.

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      terced ojos 6 years ago from

      Real Dude I appreciate your honesty and you are "real ignorant" which is why you will not see yourself or consider yourself a racist.

      I would ask that you sterilize yourself and not produce children with any woman of any race; your inhuman views will surely poison those babies and infect the rest of the human family with their presence.

      You lack any redeeming qualities of human compassion.

      In my estimation no self respecting woman of any racial background would lay with you let alone seek to procreate with you.

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      terced ojos 6 years ago from

      Brian. Thank you for your honesty. Your opinion is exactly what this hub is about.

      You paraphrased in your own words most of what I wrote.

      Your attitude is the prevailing attitude of most white men.

      I fail to see why white women in general defend white men as not being "racist" in this regard when they know all too well the credibility of what I wrote. Namely that white men consider white women with "half-breed black/white children" tainted and damaged goods because they layed with a black man.

      This is the Amerikkka just beneath the surface.

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      John 6 years ago

      Ghost,you are very naïve.I am a white man and would never touch a slut who goes with a black man...NEVER!

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      Robert Griffith 6 years ago

      Terced Ojos:

      I enjoyed reading your hub. You my friend are 100% spot on. I think many of the posters here are in denial in regards to the subject of white men dating white women with Bi-racial children. You, as a Blackman have a pretty good insight in regards to the way Whitemen view such things. I can tell you right now that I know very few white men (me included) who would enter into such a union. This is coming from a guy that has open minded white male friends for the most part. Some of which even have Asian wifes and what not. Definitely not Aryan Brotherhood racist, that's for sure.

      A bit about myself. I currently live in Australia. However, I was born and raised on the South Side of Chicago and have a life time full of experiences in observing the dynamics of race relations.

      Let me say that I married interacially with an Australian women of Iranian blood and have two wonderful children with her. She is dark and has all the typical features of a person from that region of the world. My children look Greek or Italian. LOL!!!

      Anyway, wwhere I disagree with you is in regards to whether or not I would not identify a whiteman who is not open to dating white women with bi-racial children racist. I believe you are confusing preferance for racism. Becoming part of a family is the most personal of ALL decisions one can make in his/her life. Choosing your own path in such an endeavor cannot be called racist either way in my opinion.

      Example: If my wife worked at a restaurant that I was having lunch at and refused to serve me because I was a white man than yes, I would say she is a racist. However, if my wife did not want to marry me and bear my children because I was a whiteman, then I believe it would be quite selfish and unfair of me if I labelled her a racist.

      Now, I think a major issue (not the only issue) that the vast majority of whitemen avoid white women who have bi-racial children is because they feel they are the 2nd choice of that women. They feel they are being chosen for stability and safety (I am not talking just financially) by a women that plainly views them as being 2nd best.

      I agree with that assessment (for the most part) by white men. Reason being, I have known 3 white women who dated black guys in my life. ALL 3 openly admitted to favoring black guys. That means three out of three that I have known preferred black guys. That means (by their own admission) that any whiteman they may date in the future is clearly NOT their 1st choice) Now some might say "well you have only known three woman that did that and that is a tiny tiny sample so therfor it cannot be taken as an accurate depiction". While that may be true, in my OWN experience that makes THREE out of THREE.

      In fact, while people sometimes of just happen to blindly fall in love regardless of race, I believe that this is rarely the case. Usually, one will find what one searches for. I need look no further than myself to see that. I have always preferred Middle Eastern/Persian/Arabic features in females above that typically found in white women. As a result, I sought to meet, Date, and one day possibly marry a woman of sjust such a backround and raise a family. 10 years after marrying, we are doing just that.

      Myself personally, I would never date a women who had bi-racial children from a man of a different race than myself. Believe me it has ZERO to do with hatred or anything even remotely close to that.

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      John 6 years ago

      I felt compelled to voice my opinion on this, because this phenomenon *definitely* exists in the world.

      Some people believe everything happens for a reason. More often than not I wish I was one of those people. A white woman who has biracial children has made a choice--a bold one in today's society for sure, but it is a choice. Each person in this world is responsible for his or her own life, his or her own happiness, his or her own dreams. If a white woman loves a black man, and that is her choice, then that is her choice.

      The flipside is that love and attraction are as cruel as they are benevolent. While it feels wonderful when you love someone and that person also loves you, it stings horribly when you love someone but they do not also love you. You cannot force someone to love you, and you're better off not wasting your time daydreaming about conjuring up magic potion to make someone love you.

      A white woman who has a biracial child has in today's scoiety made a mark, for better or for worse. If later in life she finds herself alone yet fancies another person, terrific. But if that person does not fancy her in return, it is not up to her nor anyone else to force that person to fancy her. You can get angry that she has been rejected, but you cannot get angry with the rejector, for he (or she) is simply deciding what is and is not right for his or herself. It's cruel, but it's a result of people being able to choose for themselves what are and are not their hopes and dreams.

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      birracial 1  6 years ago

      i am of such a union (white mother black father)i was disowned as well as my mother by her white family. even as late as 20004 my maternal grandmother and her family would not have nothing to do with me simply because of my mixed heritage. so it is not always the white woman or the black man who is a victim of this type of plight but sometimes the innocent children of these relationships. i feel as though racism should not still be an issue in 2004. people are people. society needs to grow up

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      birracial 1  6 years ago

      i am of such a union (white mother black father)i was disowned as well as my mother by her white family. even as late as 20004 my maternal grandmother and her family would not have nothing to do with me simply because of my mixed heritage. so it is not always the white woman or the black man who is a victim of this type of plight but sometimes the innocent children of these relationships. i feel as though racism should not still be an issue in 2004. people are people. society needs to grow up

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      birracial 1  6 years ago

      i meant to say that racism should not still be an issue in 2010 (not in 2004 sorry for the typo)

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      Nadine 6 years ago

      To -->Robert Griffith

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      Fenris 6 years ago

      So what you are saying is that we evil white men must be forced to become cuckolds to these "women" and their offspring?

      I have seen some off the sites belonging to those black hate groups and don´t even bother dragging out the KKK bullshit with me!

      Women are just as responsible for their actions as any man (white or black) if they have children with black men who usually dump them after they have had their fun it´s their own problem and if they are "suffering" is also their problem!

      You blame ALL the bad things in this world on us whites it is obvious that YOU are the "hater" here not me!

      I have no problem what´s so ever with blacks it is usually they who have problem with me thank´s to my "white" skin just like Hitler blamed the jews for his problems that started some off the worst atrocities in modern history do you want the same?

      In my country we have the same bullshit as in yours and instead off listening to their people the government call us racists whenever we protest against the racism towards us for in their opinion as whites we do not have the same rights as for example black africans!

      I agree with some off what brian ,Deborah and REAL DUDE wrote why must I take responsibility for a women that thinks I am not good enough to have a child with but good enough to pay for it????

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      truther 6 years ago

      go check the CDC stats concerning Black males...and get back to me.White males risk our social status dating those types,in addition most of us are not attracted or have much in common w/ww who'd go black,if that sounds racist==tough its the truth.

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      Rick 6 years ago

      There is no problem to be a racist. I am racist and I'm proud of it. I do not believe in killing blacks, or enslave them but I believe, black mind can not work and function as good as white mind. That's why there has been absolutely no significant civilization out of black africa ever. White mind has been designed to make rules. yellow mind has been designed to enforce rules created by white minds and black mind has been designed to be the subject of white rules. Blacks are good at hard simple labor jobs. Downfall of USA started when we tried to make doctors and engineers based on black minds. we tried to force it. It was waste of time and energy, black is black and black is inferior to white, not just because most blacks are ugly or disgusting, because of their incompetent under developed mind. All black men are interested in white women. They love to fuck white pussy and show off for their people that they have been accepted by whites. White woman in a relationship with a black is a loser from the beginning, and giving birth to an alien probably is the worst punishment.

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      Fenris 6 years ago

      Rick:Black men who prowl for white women do it beccause off some imagined wrong we "Indo-aryans"(or "caucasian") have committed against them white "women" who prefer black males do it beccause off two things either political correctness or "white guilt" like in my country or out pure lust every spieces on Earth feel extreme aversion towards interracial mating some people get off at doing what every fiber off their being says NO to like having sex with an entirely different species for example! The feminists in my country at least are some off the biggest hippocrites when they cheer on women who vow NEVER to bed a white man but instead start "relationship" with arabs or africans people that do NOT believe in equality at all and then turn around and accuse us whites off :Sexism,racism and bigotry etc etc etc...!!!

      I have read on internet about women that have sex ONLY with black males but who are married with white men who in turn aprove off such a life-style such "men" are not men at all in fact in such "relationships" the black man may be the only "sane" person since such behaviour highly disturbing these or likeminded people say they just want to live out their fantasies sure enough fantasies are good BUT THERE IS A LINE some fantasies should remain just that or when those boys in columbine did what they did = They both lived out their darkest fantasy as well as took revenge upon the school-system that alowed them to bullied into such hate!

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      Fenris 6 years ago

      Sorry for the typo´s!

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      Smiles8 6 years ago


      I am a successful white woman divorced 5 years from a successful black man with two bi-racial daughters (11 & 16). Your original post is dead-on and nothing but the truth in our society. I have dated white men over the last several years and as soon as the fact my girls are bi-racial is revealed there is some excuse after a period of time as to why it doesn't work. I want to conduct a study with online dating proving my point. One where I will reveal my children's identity one where I will not. We know which site I will get the most dates from white men, don't we...

      People want to act like things have changed in our society but people are just PC now. I would respect a white man so much more if he actually said I would not feel comfortable being a step father to bi-racial children than I man who tries to make me feel inadequate for some other bogus reason. And yes, born again Christians (I'm Catholic) are some of the most judgmental people I have ever met.

      Lastly, I am the racist white parents worse nightmare. A successful happy single white woman with bi-racial kids whose black ex-husband is still one of her best friends. Oh my gosh what type of influence would that be on those rich white kids! Yeah, I know some of you would say I am bitter or self-hatred, yeah, yeah.. I live this every day of my life, it is the truth here in northern VA. You would never know my girls are bi-racial and if you saw me with them you would think I was their nanny. We have learned to laugh about it but our society is still so racist.

      The white men who disagree with your post have most likely never really been faced with this dilemma.

      Thanks for your honesty and post.

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      Fenris 6 years ago

      Smile8: Why do you lay blame un white men everytime it does´nt work out don´t we have the right to choose a woman who respect us?

      Racist you apearently know NOTHING about that word!

      There is a woman I have been sweet on since I was a kid but she allways prefer imigrant scum rather than us boring white men (or in my case geeky swedes) the reason why we don´t (usually) want to date a woman with halfblack kids is simple:we feel that such women do not respect us so WHY in the name off all gods must we waste our lifes serving such women I sure as hell wont if or WHEN I marry a woman race matters little to me but I will respect her as long as she respects me!

      I´m not against "racial mixing" as long as it is done for love not just "BECAUSE" and in small nuimbers!

      The black man who started this site is nothing but a racist bigot himself!

      And instead off spitting upon us try get to know some off us "worthless white men" BEFORE you write us off as racists!

      ME if I should ever fall in love with an african woman(or one off african descent) then that is what is meant to be if my heart decides then I will have to obey!

      I´m am so sick and tired off hearing all these black nazi-pricks complain about us all the time and just like Hitler blame theu missfortunes on us "whites"!

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      Smiles8 6 years ago


      I apologize if my post sounded angry or that I am blaming white men. All of my relationships have had respect regardless of color. The white men I've dated never felt I did not respect them because of our race. My ex husband is a black-nerd himself so it has nothing to do with being "cool". All 3 of the white men I've dated since my divorce have not been racist nor did I write them off as "worthless" as you've stated.

      If a man wants to love me, he will need to love my daughters and feel comfortable with them in public. In addition, will need to be strong enough to shake my ex husbands hand and have mutual respect for one another. I also think informing ones family about my kids became an issue with the last guy I dated. While he seemed open to the situation he went home for a week and came back and I think it was the driving force behind the break up. His dads family is not open about inter racial dating.

      In addition, I've watch my teenage daughter, who is stunning, date only smart, cute white guys. While the boys are open to inter-racial, their parents are extremely stand-off to both my daughter and I.

      It is complex and love is not enough in these situations. I'm not writing off all white guys, just the ignorant ones.

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      John 6 years ago

      I posted a little while ago about how I thought that when it came to partners, it was each individual person's right to determine who was and was not an appropriate person for him or her.

      In retrospect, I do have to say that I probably would avoid such a woman as well. I know that sounds absolutely horrible, and perhaps it is, but for me I just can't imagine dating a woman whose kid just doesn't look like her. I personally am very attached to my own background Czech/German, and that's honestly what I prefer my partner to look like (and thankfully she does), and it's what I'd prefer my kids to have.

      I know it's horrible and it's terrible, but somehow I also feel it's right. Oh well.

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      Fenris 6 years ago

      Smiles8: I must also apologize if I sounded a bit harsch but the guy who created this site I have seen his type before they usually want to piss off people like me into using the "N" or similar so they can call us dumbass "hillbillies" or "Hicks"!

      And white men who for example go to Thailand marry some woman there bring her home are practically crusified(figuratively) for it by white feminists for as they accuse him off "buying a slave" how do they know he is´nt madly in love with this woman?

      I do admit that in Europe things are extremely different I know full well that afro-americans are different from "pure" africans we live in a very bad time were africans massacre whites for being just white and then move to some country in Europe get together with some bimbo only to have "roots" in that country so the bleedinghearts will let him stay! Recently there was a guy from Nigeria that impregnated TWO women in my country (as soon one became pregnant he moved on to the next woman) this sort off thing happens A LOT in Europe so I agree that my post was filled with more than it´s fare share off anger and I apologize for that but that does not mean I will trust women blindly(I have been treated badly by women in my life except my mother offcourse)!

      The worst racism in today's world are being comitted by black africans rather then white europeans! Then there are those women who thinks they "must" be together with black men or arabs beccause off the "evils that we have comitted against them"(most off is untrue) = "white guilt" or beccause it is the political corect thing to do!

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      Fenris 6 years ago

      There are a number off black women for example that I find very apealing but even so I try to look for women with more "nordic racial traits" rather than even my "fellow europeans" since Thank´s to my own heritage wich is in part walonic off wich I´m equally proud but since I am nordic(swedish) I will try and find a nordic woman for this I´m considered racist!

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      Smiles8 6 years ago


      There is nothing wrong with having preferences in the characteristics of who you like and eventually love. This does not make you a racist at all. My sister has been married to a white man for 20 years and has told me she does not find black men attractive..I can totally respect that in everyone.

      I lived in Germany for a few years while in the military and I know race relations are much different in Europe.

      I personally find institutionalized racism the worst kind here in America. It goes unspoken in corporate America. I did not put pictures of my girls up in my office for almost two years because the man that hired me was a racist and I didn't know it at first.

      Anyway, thanks for your honesty.

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      Smiles8 6 years ago


      What you've said is honest and not horrible. I find the honesty in white men that are willing to admit this refreshing because I think the 3 men I dated were never honest about it. Because no one would ever guess my kids are bi-racial I feel like I need to wear a sign around my neck when I meet men because its one of the most awkward things to bring up.

      I NEVER thought about whether my kids would look like me or not and frankly it never mattered. Being raised in Los Angeles in a very multi-racial suburb it just was not something that I thought about or valued. I'm 5'2" and very Irish looking, my eldest is 4" taller than me and looks like a model. When we go out to eat people always ask if our checks are together. We have learned to laugh about it and I usually push the check to her. My 10 year old is already 5' and looks Hispanic. I focus on them becoming productive members of society, not the fact they have brown eyes and beautiful curls in their hair.

      When my 95 year old grandma died a few years ago she told me how proud she was that I was forging the way for a less racist society. It will take much more than bi-racial kids and open minded people on both sides to change how people look at race. My mom recently joked with me that she hopes I fall madly in love with a Japanese

      Life is a journey!

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      Fenris 6 years ago

      Smiles8:About what you said about your sister that she "did´nt find black men atractive" had she said that anywhere in Sweden she would have akmost automatically been branded a racist!

      I guess our problems with racism (wich come from both ends of the "color" spectrum) does´nt seem to work it self out anytime soon beccause our politics can swing from far left to far right in record time with offcourse each sides particular views on what is political correct!

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      Fenris 6 years ago

      Also swedish and many european women date and even have children with "men" from middleeast and africa beccause they think it is politically correct some even tell themselves they "love" these men even after they find out that their "cool" boyfriend had several "girlfriends" in "reserve!

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      Smiles8 6 years ago


      I'm not sure of the age of the girls you speak of who have "cool" boyfriends but that makes me laugh. Hopefully no intelligent man should waste his time seeking one of them. We all know nerds rule the world! And nerds come in all shapes sizes and colors. I'll be honest with everyone on this post because you don't know who I am..I have found white men better in bed. So those girls that think the sex is better with different nationalities are fooling themselves.

      I don't see many white men or women with middle eastern people here in the US. Even prior to 911 it was not common here on the east coast. I will sound like my sister on this one..I don't find them attractive.

      My sister lives in Los Angeles and has many friends of different cultures so when she states she is not attracted to black men, no one labels her. She is a big time salsa dancer and loves the latin race but is married to an Irish man who adores her. Plus everyone knows how much she adores my daughters and they are mixed so calling her a racist is laughable in LA.

      I concur about the politics in most countries being an issue with dividing the races. Hopefully in our lifetime we see more honest peace among all.

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      Robert Griffith 6 years ago

      I enjoyed reading your hub. You my friend are 100% spot on. I think many of the posters here are in denial in regards to the subject of white men dating white women with Bi-racial children. You, as a Blackman have a pretty good insight in regards to the way Whitemen view such things. I can tell you right now that I know very few white men (me included) who would enter into such a union. This is coming from a guy that has open minded white male friends for the most part. Some of which even have Asian wifes and what not. Definitely not Aryan Brotherhood racist, that's for sure.

      A bit about myself. I currently live in Australia. However, I was born and raised on the South Side of Chicago and have a life time full of experiences in observing the dynamics of race relations.

      Let me say that I married interacially with an Australian women of Iranian blood and have two wonderful children with her. She is dark and has all the typical features of a person from that region of the world. My children look Greek or Italian. LOL!!!

      Anyway, wwhere I disagree with you is in regards to whether or not I would not identify a whiteman who is not open to dating white women with bi-racial children racist. I believe you are confusing preferance for racism. Becoming part of a family is the most personal of ALL decisions one can make in his/her life. Choosing your own path in such an endeavor cannot be called racist either way in my opinion.

      Example: If my wife worked at a restaurant that I was having lunch at and refused to serve me because I was a white man than yes, I would say she is a racist. However, if my wife did not want to marry me and bear my children because I was a whiteman, then I believe it would be quite selfish and unfair of me if I labelled her a racist.

      Now, I think a major issue (not the only issue) that the vast majority of whitemen avoid white women who have bi-racial children is because they feel they are the 2nd choice of that women. They feel they are being chosen for stability and safety (I am not talking just financially) by a women that plainly views them as being 2nd best.

      I agree with that assessment (for the most part) by white men. Reason being, I have known 3 white women who dated black guys in my life. ALL 3 openly admitted to favoring black guys. That means three out of three that I have known preferred black guys. That means (by their own admission) that any whiteman they may date in the future is clearly NOT their 1st choice) Now some might say "well you have only known three woman that did that and that is a tiny tiny sample so therfor it cannot be taken as an accurate depiction". While that may be true, in my OWN experience that makes THREE out of THREE.

      In fact, while people sometimes of just happen to blindly fall in love regardless of race, I believe that this is rarely the case. Usually, one will find what one searches for. I need look no further than myself to see that. I have always preferred Middle Eastern/Persian/Arabic features in females above that typically found in white women. As a result, I sought to meet, Date, and one day possibly marry a woman of sjust such a backround and raise a family. 10 years after marrying, we are doing just that.

      Myself personally, I would never date a women who had bi-racial children from a man of a different race than myself. Believe me it has ZERO to do with hatred or anything even remotely close to that.

      To add to that, I would also say that I often consider the wife to be the same race as the husband in many interacial relationaships. For example, out here in Australia the most common interacial pairing will be undoubtably Asian woman and White Euro males. I consider these Asian women to be white. No different to me than a blonde haired Australian woman married to a blonde haired Auzzie guy. I know that may sound silly to some. But I do that almost reflexively as I conside the Male to be the head of the household, and a representative of sorts of his family. My wife, being a Christian Lebanese is in the same category. She is viewed as being white when we go out and whatnot. In fact I would say 3 out of 4 interacial pairings out here are just that combo. That being said, when I speak of "we" (when politics are being discussed) at get together's and other such venues, I include the Asian wifes (as well as most non-white woman white white husbands) of my countrymen as one of my own people.

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      Smiles8 6 years ago


      I agree with you that most white men would not date women like me. I also agree that people do not find blindly into love and preference is not racism.

      But you have stated some strange opinions. You know 3 women like me that prefer black men. I don't I prefer white men and they are not second choice. My ex is probably more white than most white men. So your self reported statistic holds little weight. Also, no one views Asian wives of white men as white. They might travel in that circle socially but they still have a culture and identity of their own. I spent 10 years in the US Air Force and watch many men (not us women:) marry the locals and no one (regardless of the color of the wife) thought the wife morphed into her husbands nationality. That is a silly comment even if you are head of household your wife has a great culture that should be respected, not ignored.

      Respectfully, Smiles

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      Robert Griffith10 6 years ago


      I really do not see how my opinions are all that strange. The last paragragh I wrote was jumbled and backwards. Both my little girls were throwing soccer balls and volley balls at me while I was trying to finish up my comment. LOL!! As I added thoughts, and reordered them I did not read them before hitting enter. I just felt fortunate that I was able to actually get the comment away before the computer took a direct hit from an errant volleyball/soccerball.

      I will elaborate on my opinion in regards to the wife taking on the race of the husband. Now, I obviously do not believe that the heritage of a woman magically transforms when she becomes the spouse/mother of a member of another race. This would be a physiological impossibility. (Even with modern technology LOL!)

      The statement in regards to a non-white women being considered white was more of a comment that I had directed towards other white men. Basically at the root of it is this: Any non-white woman that takes a white man as her husband and bears him children should be treated by other white men as though she is one of their own. No, not as property, but as a fellow kinswoman. Seeing as though these women bear the children of white men, we should treat them as we would treat one of our own people. Like I said, that point was more or less directed to other whitemen that may be trolling through the comments.

      I have heard whitemen numerous times make derogatory comments about this or that asian woman, or this or that South American woman in regards to her marrying a whiteman. I think this is wrong and discriminatory. And as a result, I would encourage these white men to accept these women just as they would accept a blonde haired swedish female into our circle and into our lifes. In the last few years or so, (in Australia anyway) Asian White interacial marriages have zoomed off the charts. As a result I think many more white men are heeding the aforementioned advice. Anyway, enough of that. LOL!!

      Now, you mention that you do not prefer black men. That is fine. I do not think any less of those women that do. I have always treated everyone with common human decency. However, because of their preferance in dating I would consider them to be non-marriage material. I want to know that my woman loves everything about me. As I alluded to, my wife is Iranian-Lebanese Christian. She loves green eyes (I have green eyes) she is attracted to light brown/blonde hair. (I have light brown hair) It is very important for a man to know that his love LOVES his features and his style above and beond all others.

      Ultimately, you have "get in where you fit in". Realistically, in my personal opinion I think it is wrong for a whiteman to try and raise a black child. I think it does a disservice to not only the whiteman who is going into a position in which he will more than likely not succeed. It is a disservice to the black child of a white mother as well. That child is going to see a whiteman in the house trying to tell him what to do. Resentment is bound to build over these issues. The whole scenario has "failure" written all over it.

      Being a former U.S. Marine myself, it is safe to say that I have done alot of travelling. I have dated woman of all stripes from Indian, Japanese, and Morrocan, to Argentines, Mexicana's and Brazillians. I say this not to brag or boast. But to illutrate that I myself have travelled down the road of the exotic. That being said, If I was not married, I would not hold it against a white woman,(nor would I call them racist) if they chose not to date me because of my past. That is their choice and they have every right to it. I prefer a darker set of features on females. Could I appreciate the beauty of a Blonde haired blue eyed nord?? I don't know. I have never really been in that position.

      WOW!!! What a rant that was. I suppose being half Irish and Half Italian, rants come naturally to me. LOL!!!!

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      Jones 6 years ago

      Yet another post that makes demons of white men. When a white women sleeps and have children with black men she obviously does not want to be with men of her own race or think that we are not good enough for her. Funny enough when she is all used up by her black mates and need a father for her bastard offspring whitey becomes good enough again. Its that mind set and over estimating their importance in society that makes me well and truly hate and despise white women. If she wanted a black man and black children go find another black man to look after them and leave the white men she gave the one finger salute to alone. Trust me no man with self respect will be satisfied with left overs. I am thankfull that I realised that white women only want to destroy our race and drag the white man down with them. I just wish more men would realise this and avoid white women and their poison at all cost. As usuall though all the problems white women face and their hordes of fatherless black children is the fault of white men , it could never be their fault could it.

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      Smiles8 6 years ago


      Not sure of your age but you are sure full of hatred and seem confident using one description of all in a race and gender which is down right ignorant. I can't imagine waking up with such narrow views of people. One day someone you describe with such hate is going to save a loved ones life, or your off spring will marry of a different race and maybe then your eyes will open.

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      Johnny 6 years ago

      Is it just me or does the purpose of this site seem to be to bash white men? If you inter - racial mother's are attracted to black guys, why not look for another black guy?

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      Guy 6 years ago

      Because they are reducing the changes of the white race surviving. A white woman breeds with a negro, she removes her superior genes from the world. Whites are a tiny minority in the world and they are disapearing. Beyond that, blacks are inferior to whites in different ways, the most striking being that they are intellectually inferior. This causes many problems in our society. They have a high violent crime rate for one. They, as a whole, are a race of rapists for another. They are more racist than any other group and many of them want to ruin white women because of their hate.

      Don't take the answer from someone who isn't a white man who feels this way, take it from a white man who actually knows. My beliefs are based on fact. I don't want to dislike blacks, but they make it so easy. They are below whites in important ways.

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      Fred 6 years ago

      I came across this site purely by accident. I'm multi-racial (1/2 Native American, 1/4 Black, and 1/4 Jewish). I'm an artist/free lance write by avocation, married, and a retired teacher/tax professional. As a Catholic-Christian I don't hate nor dislike anybody but I would like to communicate with mixed-race people for friendship.

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      anon 5 years ago

      Notice how it is all naïve, older baby boomer men, who are from a previous generation and do not have to deal with this problem, who are saying it is not a big deal for a white woman to have mixed kids.

      Old baby boomers and white women. White women want to be able to have mixed kids and find a white sucker to support her. It is in race mixers' interest for sucker white guys to support a white woman with mixed kids once her "black man" leaves her, which usually happens.

      It is in white men's interest to NOT support these women, or be used as a bank account for the flotsam of the world.

      The vast majority of white women who date black men hate white men. When their black man leaves them, they may crawl back to white men to support them, and pretend they never loathed white men. Do not fall for this white men reading. These people replying here do NOT want YOUR interests to be served.

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      tcep 5 years ago

      These white women with biracial children know that black women almost entirely refuse to have any type of relationship with white males much less birth their children. White guilt offers no excuse with such obvious disproportionate fratenizing. Meanwhile they continue to give the black males the best part of their youth and childbearing years then expect a childless white male to support their biracial children. Men need youthful women, they want women that can give them children, women that respect them, women that respect themselves. You are oppressors, and all the reason we will avoid you like the plague.

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      Gss 5 years ago

      To the white women with biracial children, if you had a baby with a black man, and you are happy, then why are you seeking a white man anyway. Either take back your black ex-bf or find another black man.

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      taylor 5 years ago

      Why is everyone making it seem like once you date or marry or have children with a black man, you can never go back to dating white men? A person can't feel attracted to more than one race?? And just bc you loved a black man previously, you have to stick to black men and can never fall in love with any other kind? And that shows some kind of insecurity in both the white men and black women who you say feel second best to the white woman or black man for choosing someone of a different race

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      paloma  5 years ago

      I am a mulatto woman in my 40s, mom's white, dad's black . My mom never had any trouble getting a white man after divorcing my dad. And that was some time ago.

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      Corbin 5 years ago

      I truly wish the saying "once you go black you don't go back" was true. I don't date out of my race and have no interest in a woman who does. Believe it or not, a large number of white males think this way but don't voice it because it's politically uncorrect.

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      Demosthenes 5 years ago

      Terced ojos, paranoid male who looks for justification for his point of view in society. However I have seen no statistics, so what is your "enlightened perspective" based off of? Personal experience? Hhhmmm, well luckily there is only one biased perspective per the 6 billion + people on Earth, since objectivity does not exist... Rick you clearly don't know your history......

      ---Random White Male

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      ajonz9 5 years ago

      you should not be having sex with someone outside of marriage. you should not be having sex with someone whom you do not intend to marry and have children for a family environment. God separated the races at the Tower of Babel because humans got very egotistical . you should not be having sex without protection/condoms if you are feeling very invigorated and lustful. especially if you want to marry a white man who is self respecting. A white man has to explain to everyone why a black baby is holding his hand. if a man is going to pay for a babies future, it should be his own baby that he loves and protects. Sorry so many fathers of all races have not been able to meet the demands of women for the nicer things in life. A little experimentation is fun and exciting... however, an unplanned pregnancy due to experimentation is your own responsibility and degradation. to be pure in ones own race is better justified lifestyle and more respectable.

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      anon 5 years ago

      maybe it's because often white women who have been in relationships with black men start to act very ghetto. who wants to deal with that bullcrap

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      jonn 5 years ago

      a white woman with black kids-she is a traitor to her race. what respectable white man would date-or even befriend a white woman with a half breed pourchmonkey children. she gets what she deserves and its funny how she relizes she made a mistake after she gavebirth to the little nigglets

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      Blah 4 years ago

      Guess she should have made a better choice with her life.

      Look, men tend to run from women with children already if the kids aren't theirs; what difference does it make if it's your ugly kid or someone else's ugly kid, it's not my kid.

      Worse, I can't even pretend it's my kid. If you think that doesn't factor into it, you're an idiot.

      Maybe she should have been sure it was going to work out before having a kid. Then she wouldn't be in that position. Sorry she was dumb, guess she'll suffer the consequences.

      And, to be honest, mixed kids are usually uglier than non-mixed kids.

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      Gabriel 4 years ago

      Ok, Let me make this simple for all of you. I am a white male. I wouldn't date/marry or have kids with a black woman because I wouldn't want the child to be hurt because of my choice. All choices have consequences/rewards; It is too late when you have openned Pandora's box, let hope escape an cry that everyone else is to blame.

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      Genghis khan 4 years ago

      Last time I checked this was a free country and I can date who I please. I have a right to reject dating any woman for whatever reason I choose. If I refuse to date a woman because I don't like the design of her cupholder in her car, that's my right.

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      Guest 4 years ago

      Honestly, as a white man myself, I find that most white men I talk to about dating, and relationships, are usually opposed to the idea of dating a woman with kids, let alone the fact that these children have a black father. I think the main reason for this, is that when a white man see's a white woman with biracial children (they are just children, to qualify them as such is ridiculous, but we do live in a race labeled culture), they assume she is not interested in them (white men). However, there are some pretty horrible stereotypes about white women who date black men, they are fast, dirty, easy, into drugs, like being with a man who upsets there father, etc. You never really know the why until you ask. I have never seen a white man with a white woman and her biracial child, but that is not to say it doesn't happen, but I can't think of any instance where I've seen this. I feel pretty confident saying this as a white man, it's just not really going to happen that often, and yes, the reason being rooted in racism. I hope this all changes one day, but until then, don't hold your breath looking for the white man, his white girlfriend/wife and her biracial child!

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      john 4 years ago

      It's because in most cases the black father just wanted to have some fun with a cheap, white slut, plus get some revenge on the white man in the process, and the white mother had a sexual fetish for black men and wanted to humiliate white men and rebel against her father.

      When the black man impregnates the white woman he conquers her, and wins a small battle against the white race so he leaves her to go find another cheap, white slut to knock up. Now the white slut is past her prime and wants to start looking for some pathetic, white sucker to fund her and her mistakes.

      Screw that.

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      Genghis khan 4 years ago

      What exactly do these women have to offer a white man? They have nothing to offer. They only care about what the white man can offer them!!!

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      Nadia 4 years ago

      So if I broke up with my son father who is white. Black man wouldn't me why? Who cares who someone else dates and many of the above comments are so wrong and racist. So to the Griffin guy I would be considered white because I am with a white man and have his child? I do not think so but that is my views. I live in a small town in Canada where rednecks are everywhere. Guess what you know how many white man and have came to me and wanted to date me. They have asked why am I with my son father because I am way better looking then him. Yes I am a young black women that lives in a small town and guess what alot of white guys like black women. I think it also depends what a person acts like it shouldn't matter on race. Who said Africa never did anything? Maybe if the Europeans and the Arabs did not try and take credit for what the Nubians created in Africa. Africa was always creat with European rule and it will be our time again to shine.

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      normal male 4 years ago

      I'm a white man dating a woman with a mixed race child and a white child and it is shit. Unfortunately I fell for her big time and then she dropped the bomb and there is really no where to go, it's all down to the way she is perceive by society and I've seen it first hand and it's not pretty. To have someone I'd love to married looked at in this way is very hard to handle, I have broad shoulders but the stigma attached is massive and very apparent and deep down I know we will have to go our separate ways.

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      A white guy 4 years ago

      Strange that people sit around and talk about how white males are bigots for not wanting to take care of a black mans child. From a white male perspective, if a woman has white kids, no one knows if they are mine or not. It is much less complicated to accept that kind of situation. But deep down I know if I get involved with a white woman who has black kids. Other white people, especially guys would look at me and think, geez he took some black guys sloppy seconds and now he is taking care of his kids while he is in jail or off with another white woman. Intolerable, if your a white woman with black kids, might as well move to the projects and forget you were ever white. There is no such thing as love, you make choices as to who you date, and who you marry. To say that, oh that's just who I fell in love with. Bullshit and everyone knows it. You choose that relationship, you sought it out. How do I know that? Because I seek out relationships, and I am definitely not seeking out you.

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      Jake 4 years ago

      Cutting through a lot of the PC BS in this hub, the fact is VERY few white men want a white woman who has black kids. Such a woman is a LOSER who has been used by some black guy. And used is the right word. The liberal media pours forth an endless torrent of propaganda hyping black guys to white women in TV shows, movies, and ads. The result is many naïve inexperienced white women are brainwashed into hooking up with black guys, who as a group are the worst garbage in our society. The women get used and then dumped like yesterday's garbage, and why shouldn't the black guy dump them? The liberal media, acting as their multi-billion dollar unpaid pimp, sends a lot more their way. The white woman is left with the black kids, is probably in poverty, and has basically wrecked her entire life. Then you expect some white guy chump is supposed to come along and clean up the mess? Riiiiight - fat chance.

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      Jake 4 years ago

      Let's see if I got this right - the white girls go out and sport-f__k black guys because they've been brainwashed to do so by the liberal media, and then Mr. Chump White Guy is supposed to marry her and pay for her black kids, while the black guy is out doing another DWB?

      Ain't happening.

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      Donner 4 years ago

      I'm with "Jake" and "a white guy." And majority here like them of rational mind. As for the rest, the politcally correct libtards. LOL those white women with black babies can scream all they want about prejudice. It still isn’t going to make a white man want to date them. In fact it will just make the gap wider because no white man’s going to cave in to social pressure of the ridiculous. Come on. Dating a white woman with black children because now you HAVE TO just to appease society? No Way. Instead likely white men will just rebel all the harder because it’s our nature to fight dictatorship any way we can. So it’s not going to matter how much those women with black babies scream about it, white men still aren’t going to want anything to do with them.

      Now those women got pregnant by black men so why don’t they just keep on dating and getting knocked up by black men. Why all of a sudden do they have to go after a white man anyway? Probably because they can’t get a dime in support from the baby daddy who’s vanished so they’re trying to hook some well to do white guy to provide for them. Well to damn bad. And I quote:

      from Google: 'We are black men. That means we make babies':

      “Sadie, 19, has two children by two men who are friends: "I am stupid. I thought they were the coolest guys, and I was so lucky. They were great dancers and they look at you and you melt. But now I just want to look after my boys. I don't want them to grow up like their dads - all talk and nothing else."

      “Donna, finally decided to throw out Wayne, the father of her child and another by her arch rival in school, Aimee: "I think Aimee and I both had babies as a competition for a man who was never worth it. Then he started beating me up and said he would go off to her if I complained. And just to keep face I said nothing. Now some third woman is expecting his child. I will not let him near my child."

      So those white women made their bed and now they have to lay in it. No one put a gun to their heads and made them do it. And yeah you can call me prejudice or anything you want. I DON’T G. A. F.” I’m not here to please you or anybody else.

      Also it certainly doesn’t seem anyone here understands the severe stigma placed on a white guy seen with a white woman that has black children. Black men alone or in groups walking up to them pretty much anytime they’re in public:. “Hey cuck, you let black men f**K your woman. Well I’ll follow you home and you’ll let me f**k her too so I can put another baby in her for you to raise.’ That’s right most black men are immediately going to take it for granted the white couple with the black children are in a cuckold relationship. Don’t think so? Enter ”Cuckold” in Google. Or even just “Cuckold Place.” Because for reasons I won’t go into Cuckolding is reaching epidemic proportions with thousands of simpering ass white husbands encouraging their white wives to let their black lovers make them pregnant.

      So are you white men here who’re talking dating these white women with black children willing to put up with a constant barrage of this kinda crap. How many times a week are you going to get the sh*t kicked out of you by groups of black men who make open passes at the white woman with black children you’re dating? Don’t tell me it doesn’t happen because I live in a city and see it all the time. Not in this instance but just white couples with gangs of blacks making outright passes at the guy’s girl. Even patting her on the butt and daring her white boyfriend to do anything about it. Yeah real easy for you all to sit here and condemn white men for refusing to date a white woman with black kids. So to all you “politically correct” white men here shooting of your liberal mouths why don’t you put your money where that mouth is and date such a woman. See how f*****g long you survive and are actually able to pull it off.


      And if the handfull of you “kiss the black ass” pansies here don’t like it then again put your money where your mouth is and date a mudshark. Better still marry it and keep us updated. I wanna see how long you last and how many times you end up in the hospital.

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      slasher11 4 years ago

      They can highlight that prejudice and take it to the media all they like, but it'll never change the way we feel about white women with black children. Nothing will.

      Isn't there a saying...ah yes! Once you go black, you're not welcome back.

      You can't force us to date white women with mixed kids. We are 50% of the white community and it is in our right and our power to reject those who, at one point and time, stumbled upon the black side of america (or anywhere else in the world.)

      That's life. And if you don't like it, then here's a tissue.

      *offers a tissue*

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      ALittleConfused 4 years ago

      Sometimes I think, when and hopefully if...I do hope the Good Lord will take me back to Heaven...but I wonder if there will be many white men there if this is how they feel about God's children...who we ALL are. If white men feel the way some of these words of posts suggest...if they really come home from out in the world amongst humans where surely they have to keep secret these superiority complexes...log onto their computers and then let it all out--how much higher in status and selection they presume to be when compared to EVERY body else non-white...and let us not forget, especially BLACK. Oh my, WE shall one day be delivered from this foolishness. Until then let us all go on about our merry ways loving, praying, and eating. Until we die. Then God will tell us why they were so very afflicted with this mental dereliction of theirs. They are behind closed doors and anonymous. Not very manly. Not at all.

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      Mike S. Smith 4 years ago

      This is so very true. I know white men that have found that the women had a black baby and walked away. Think of him going on a sales meeting with his wife and black baby, all the other white men think that his women as been doing a black. They think of him as weak, so weak that he has to hve a back do his bed work.

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      Patricia 4 years ago

      I am a white woman who's white adult son has been dating a white woman, who I only recently discovered has a mulatto child whom she conceived with a black man. I have told my son that if this association does not end immediately we will consider him dead to the family in everyway. The shameful woman disgraced herself, her family and the entire white race. I will not have my son and by extension the rest of our family tainted with this unforgiveable shame. I would feel exactly the same way about anyone who strays outside of their own race. I am proud of my view on this subject and respect other families of all races who are equally opposed to race mixing.

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      b-dawg 4 years ago

      it is much safer to be black in america than to be white. black skin is a shield.

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      TruthTeller 4 years ago

      Most people don't understand the vast genetic differences between the human sub-species. These white women engaged in bestiality between the human sub-species that resulted in hybrid offspring. Most normal people are against bestiality between the human sub-species and are not okay with knowingly creating hybrid humans.

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      Orbis 4 years ago

      I see it all the time. I'd not only snub the white women with black kids but I'd probably try to make their lives more difficult, giving preference to smarter people than these stupid stupid people. There mere existence is a joke to me.

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      ImageBased 4 years ago

      They are rising very fast (educated white male-educated black/Latina couples) but from what I see are still not as high yet as the astronomical numbers of uneducated black/Latino male-uneducated white female). Those numbers are very, very high.

      Just follow the socioeconomic trends always. The educated marry the educated, even when going interracial (white male-Asian female & white male-Latina). The uneducated marry the uneducated especially when going interracial. There are reasons for this. The vast majority of interracial children are born out of low end socioeconomic families with little to no recent heritage structure emphasis. This correlates exactly to socioeconomic class structure. Little to no personal or family investment in the reigning socioeconomic system means little to no need to adhere to racial socioeconomic dictates of the day.

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      Joseph 4 years ago

      The writers does speak alot of truth and I do not think its just goes for the white man but also other races like Hispanic. If a Latin woman has a child mixed with a black man the majority of Latinos mostly will not date her. But I think one must look why? It is deeper than just claiming racism against blacks. It has to do more, will this child pass as my own? See we have to recognize in the ideal relationship it's 1 man and 1 woman coming together undefiled by another person. It's in our nature to want to start fresh with someone else. But in this broken sinful world people do not wait until marriage to have sexual intercourse or to have children out of wedlock. But if one does raise a child of ones own race the sin of fornication can be more subtle hidden. But if the child is mixed with a race way different of your own, it's not hidden. It points to a broken sinful world. People would look at 2 white raising 1 mixed child and think she was with another man Sexualy very likely outside of marriage, or she was married and divorced which is also bad, or she cheated on her husband with another man. I see it being deeper than just saying a white man does not want to raise a black child. I myself would not date a woman with a child period, does not matter what race the child is. I want to start fresh with my family clean slate. That is my desire.

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      Doodlehead 3 years ago from Northern California

      There could be more to the story in some cases. For example, at times women have children when they are not married. Traditional thought has it a child needs two parents.

      By not having two parents the child does not get the "balance" in the home.

      Then there is the economic element. If someone is unmarried with a child, often they are dependent upon the state with other workers essentially supporting her and the child.

      What I am getting at is the women may fail to see the other ways she has made herself unavailable to people who would think before getting pregnant when they are unmarried. Skin color may be not the real story here.

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      hey Patricia 3 years ago

      Good for you!! You are a Great Lady.. Set your son straight!

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      Bob Fairlane 3 years ago

      Are you kidding? If a white woman soils herself with a negro, and even has its offspring, she is a worthless and hateful bitch who cannot have relationships with white men. She has already proven herself to be a coal burning prostitute with nothing to live for.

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      J1mmyZeta 3 years ago

      I hope White people are sick of being demonized by the media.

      We're "racist" if we don't have friends of other races, we're "racist" if we have friends of other races (it gets called a "token" friend, etc.), but most of all we're "racist" if we want children that look like us.

      It's no wonder that White men (and women) give anti-Whites the finger after all the anti-White hate they heap onto us.

      You spend your life attacking White men as "privileged, racist bigots", but then expect them to welcome you with open arms when your life eventually turns out f**ked up?

      Check your anti-White privilege.

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      Alfonso Dupont 3 years ago

      lol cuckold

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      Cindy Right 3 years ago

      The article is sickening.....a black male blaming the white male for not banging his sloppy ass seconds and raising and paying for the spawn of that union! The nerve! I can see the poor white dude trying to raise up a black male children with the anger, hatred, and race baiting from their communities and the entitlement that comes from all the supposed "racism." Here's a novel idea, how about black males actually raising their spawn instead of abandoning and blaming!

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      PainfulTruth 3 years ago

      According to this author black men aren't fit to be parents so just blame whitey.

      Blame the white man for not giving your low IQ, lazy ass a job.

      Blame the white man for not paying your welfare.

      These white women are stupid and deserve a lifetime of suffering. When their hood rats show up I'll just give them the Trayvon Martin treatment and no one will care. Why? Well they're not black enough.

      They're YOUR kids black man. Raise them.

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      Fen14 3 years ago

      Why are white men somehow OBLIGATED to raise someone else's child these days? Why are they obligated to raise a child that not only is not theirs, but looks, acts, and thinks nothing like they do? Would we expect a black man to raise a half white child with the child's black mother? This is a ridiculous double standard today where white males are expected to simply buck up and take it, and keep on taking it, and never complain, never object. It's nonsense. White people owe you NOTHING. No one owes anyone anything out there. White men do not owe white women with mulatto children a father figure and an open wallet.

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      Erick 3 years ago

      Who wants to be with a Ni**er lover and raise some half Ni**er baby not me! They rejected white men turning to the Ni**er so what goes around comes around lol

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      markanthony12345 3 years ago

      Easy answer. A civilize white male that has not been brainwashed has no interest in a white women that hes so much as even thought about dating the savages. The cannot figure out running water after thousands of year on the continent of Africa. They are violent, ignorant and sadly young white people and been brainwashed into believing every0one is the same. Sorry, we put a man on the moon and created the entire civilized world. They run around with spears and hack up each other by the millions every year. The USA is done as evidenced by these comments by weak white males. Sheeps to the slaughter.

      A Real Humanitarian Speaks Out

      Albert Schweitzer was a true humanitarian, not a demagogue who simply wanted to ingratiate himself to blacks like so many White politicians nowadays. From 1913 until his death in 1965 Schweitzer practiced as a doctor in the hospital he founded in Africa in the jungle village of Lamarene. His ethic was "reverence for life." In 1952 he received the Nobel Peace prize. Before it disappears down the liberal memory hole, here is what Schweitzer wrote about blacks shortly before his death:

      "I have given my life to try to alleviate the sufferings of Africa. There is something that all White men who have lived here like I must learn and know: that these individuals are a sub-race. They have neither the intellectual, mental or emotional abilities to equate or to share equally with White men in any function of our civilization. I have given my life to try to bring them the advantages which our civilization must offer, but I have become well aware that we must retain this status: the superior and they the inferior. For whenever a white man seeks to live among them as their equals they will either destroy him or devour him. And they will destroy all of his work. Let White men from anywhere in the world, who come to Africa remember that you must continually retain that status: you the master and they the inferior like children that you help or teach. Never fraternise with them as equals. Never accept them as your social equals or they will devour you. They will destroy you."

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      Boogra 3 years ago

      I think that any white woman who has children by a black man evidences a serious lack of judgement and forethought. Most black men, statistically speaking, have been in jail at one time or another, and therefore, with the albatross of a criminal record hanging around their neck, will likely not be able to find employment. If you look objectively at the facts, persons of African descent tend to have lower IQs across the board (read The Bell Curve for sources and evidence of this). I'm not saying that all blacks suffer this same lower IQ. I know plenty of white people who are dumb as bricks. Low IQ is an issue of our modern age and its polluted food and water. I have nothing personally against anyone who is black, but after having lived in the Deep South, the Atlantic South, and the West, it isn't difficult to tell that there are marked differences culturally speaking. If you go into areas of the country that are predominantly white, those areas are characterized by clean streets, low crime, and a high moral standard. Conversely, if you visit predominantly black areas, you'll find a dirtier appearance to the cities, massive illegitimacy, high crime, and an absent moral standard.

      I just believe that we are created differently. Some races have a higher aptitude than others in certain areas. White people tend to be more inventive and crave freedom, while Asians are excellent at scientific equations and anything concrete. Jews tend to be more creative than most (and statistically have the highest average IQ at 115, while we white folks putter around at 100; Asians score in the average of 105 range). Blacks excel in anything physical. As a race, no one can touch them in sports. Were we a hunter/gatherer culture, blacks would be the dominant race from the perspective of hunting.

      I'll leave you with one more thing: Find me a city, a county, a state, or a nation that is run by black people that is successful. There are dozens and more to choose from, but you won't be able to use them, as they are all abject failures when it comes to budgeting, planning, encouraging local business to relocate there, and keeping crime down.

      I'm sure you took offense at what I had to say, but it sincerely wasn't meant that way. Your original question of "Why can't white women with black babies get white men to date them?" has an obvious answer to you, but upon further inspection, white men may be asking themselves, "What was she thinking?" They may be unwilling to bear children with her and have a multiracial family. Marriage and raising kids is tough enough without that kind of drama. I wouldn't be able to do it. I don't know anyone in my circle who would, and my circle is wide and includes people from many many races - Black, White, Asian, Middle Eastern, Jewish.

      Take a look around you and ask yourself, "Why is it that when black people "make it", that they move to white neighborhoods? Why don't they seek out their own kind? Then answer that question.

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      Michael 3 years ago

      It is not prejudiced to wish for there to be future generation of your own race/ nationality. Only people who HATE WHITES claim that when a white person acts in the interest of white people that it is racism. The same people who scream racism often work very publicly for the interest of their race. The truth of the matter is Whites are the victim of of most interracial crime and approximately 2/3 of all rapes in the good old USA are Black Males raping White women

      America has one of the lowest crime rates in the world, if you subtract African American crime. Right about now all the Haters should be flipping out screaming 'racist', 'how dear he say anything less than flattering about our preferred people.'

      Biology trumps all else. All living creatures strive to survive and race mixing is the antithesis of striving to survive. Those who are fully brain washed will only be able to scream scream RACISM as the truth causes them Cognitive Dissonance for them.

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      Genserico 3 years ago

      Single mother and mulatto son. I'm out.

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      Abner Snerd 3 years ago

      It is assumed, correctly, that any white woman who allows herself to be penetrated by a black man is mentally ill. Thus we quite naturally shy away from them.

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      Roy 3 years ago

      Amazing how this post does not reference the "other" side of the story.... and then one realises why.... and needs to share it....

      Here in Africa, when a white man takes a "non-white" wife, he automatically removes himself from white society.... knowing full well the brunt of his decisions, and the repercussions. Woman don't, they try to enforce their decisions upon others, as do certain religious groups.

      The white husband then lives his life out being threatened, cajoled, humiliated by his new society, not being truly accepted, and his wife's social behaviour reduced to being just that, his wife. Their children... the same. The husband is seen to have "failed", while he's wife is questioned by "are our men not good enough" / "gold digger".

      The white wife lives her life being rejected in her old society. Invariably her lifestyle becomes one of loneliness. She will be seen by her peers as "failed", and her husband's peers will see him as "porking a honky" / " got him a white bitch" etc.

      Now, when a white woman leaves her man, and returns, yes, what you say up here is true - VERY.... the man goes back to his life, and continues with his peers, and his mates always "polish his badge".

      In the case of the white husband, he will forever be "lower" than standard, to the point of continuing his life, he would have to move cities, change careers and even name to get anywhere. White families do historical data searching to maintain the removal of inbreeding (genetics failure), and of course religious / political compatibility. His ex-wife is taken to the bushes and killed, unless her mother (or sister / aunt) can move her to a new town where she can start afresh.... and THIS person is her only contact to family.


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      James 3 years ago

      Why should we want to raise some dumb whores kid? Why should I want to waste time dating someone who has no sense of loyalty to her people? No sense of herself or her heritage? Believe it or not, not all White People have lost a sense of themselves. Despising such a foolish and disgusting woman is normal. What is not normal is the attitude in this article.

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      Hammy 3 years ago

      Nowhere does the Bible say racism is a sin.

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      Avi Marranazo 3 years ago

      "Racism" is a verbal bludgeon used exclusively against White people for the expressed purpose of breaking us of the natural preference all peoples have for their own kind.

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      John Smith 3 years ago

      I won't give a woman the time of day simply because she has been married and produced offpspring and the marriage didn't work. If she has made a mistake in choosing her husband, she will more than likey repeat the same mistake, and I will not be that mistake.

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      Darkproxy 3 years ago from Ohio

      If a woman has kids period she is damaged goods. Its baby daddy drama no man in his right mind would run the risk of dealing with another man's kids. You as a man can't discipline a stepchild or else society and the man will hammer you down as abusive.

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      Robert359 3 years ago

      Thankfully I have a program that will allow me to

      copy and paste the post on this site and it will

      read it to me. I have listened to all the posts and

      it seem to me that the people that have program

      with a white woman that have bi-racial children

      think that the black man just dump the women. How

      do any of you without knowing the people in

      question, know the reason why these couples broke

      up or the financial situation of the black men

      involved. You that seem that way only see that the

      women got involved with a black man and because of

      the way the thinking is in most of the world

      concerning black men, you think that ALL BLACK men

      fit the same bill. All of us do not. You think that

      she messed with the scum of the earth, but not

      knowing the situation you can't saw. He could have

      been a lawyer,doctor or engineer. Only those

      involved know. And only they know the reason why

      they broke up anyway. Would you want a man or woman

      that slept around with you, of course not. And some

      of you say that no selfrespecting white man want a

      white woman that have slept with a black guy. You

      OTHER RACES are no better than the other races. It

      amazes me how these Racist( and by racists I mean

      those that start calling black people niggers or

      mudsharks and the white women race trators etc)

      show their hate by the tone of their responses.

      When you quote statistics where do you get our

      information from? Since white people have for at

      least the last 300 plus years control the political

      and financial and military establishments in the

      western world, those stats come from YOU the white

      man and you can say basically what you want to say

      about us. Sadly though a lot of what you say about

      us is true, but to a lesser degree it is also true

      of the WHITE MAN. Do you really think that none of

      you reading these post don't have a child that you

      don't take care of? I am black and I have three

      kids one not my own that I treat and will always

      treat as my own child. Because contrary to what you

      idiots and morons think I am a man, have been since

      the age of 13 or less when I started making my own

      money. Some of you people that don't think you are

      racist should go back and read the post of those

      that start name calling. When black people respond

      to your post we do not all you names we just state

      facts. You that feel superior I love it when you

      said that black people have not accomplished

      anything in millions of years. Point.....the human

      race is not millions of years old. And those of you

      that try to base your beliefs and views on the

      BIBLE do you actually believe what you read or do

      you believe and teach what the white society and

      the media have gotten you to believe. If you

      believe the Bible then you would know that

      civilization got started by the black man. The

      Hamiite side of Noah's family started civilization

      as you now know it. Ever hear of Nimrod? Read it

      in the Bible and believe what it says and not what

      you have been taught to believe. We started Egypt

      yet when the white man got there they did not want

      to believe that the ancestors of the Africans they

      came to know that were there at the time could hav

      created such a great civilization long ago. But of

      course you do not believe that, because you do not

      believe what is written in the Bible. Your eyes

      have not been opened to the truth. As far as lower

      IQs, I am so glad that SOME of you realize that

      SOME whites are as dumb as a brick. At least you

      acknowledge that so there is still hope for you. It

      is so so wrong to consider black people as inferior

      to you simply for the fact that you were born in a

      priviledge race. None and I mean none of you that

      feel the anger and the hate that you feel for black

      people ever stopped to think, what if I had been

      born black. And when you talk about race it is

      always black man and white woman. How about a black

      guy having to take care of some white/black baby

      fathered by some low down and lazy, good for

      nothing WHITE man? It do happens but I guess you

      feel the same way about that white man that slept

      with that nigger woman as you do the white woman

      that slept with the nigger man. Shame on you. But I

      wonder how many of you have actually fathered a

      child with a woman of another race but is trying to

      make yourself look good by responding to this post.

      You remind me of our Senator from South Carolina

      that did everything he could to keep black people

      down when he fathered a white child by a black

      woman. You are a bunch of hyprocites. Do a search

      for PORN and you will more than likely come up with

      white women and some of those white women have sex

      with white men. Would you agree that porn is WRONG

      yet it is the superior white man that push this off

      on the rest of the world and other stuff like that

      and you wonder why the rest of the world hate you

      so much. You speak with fork tongue you say but do

      not do yourselves. Idiots. But it is a waste of key

      strokes for me to set up here and type this, you

      can't change a spade. And you can't change the evil

      hearts you have. But to be honest I would not date

      a white woman with white kids for the same reason

      some of you not racist would not date a white woman

      with blawhite kids. Would be kind of strange for me

      to go into the store with the white kid, stupid

      people might think I am trying to do the kid wrong.

      But there is so much anger among you white people.

      But you can always tell the White Supurist and the

      Aryan Nation or KKK type white guys, they are the

      ones that start name calling and quoting stats to

      TRY to prove their point. But don't blame us black

      men for your problems because your white women

      perfer us. Start acting like good descent men and

      you will keep your women. Isn't this America and a

      woman can choose whomever she wants as a date or

      mate? Or is that only okay if it is a WHIE MAN? Do

      you that hold the racist views you do, hold those

      same views when a white woman, dates or marry or

      have a child by another race, Asian perhaps, or

      Middle Eastern, or is it JUST the lowly good for

      nothing worthwhile BLACK MAN? I guess to you there

      is a black heaven and a white one. Nooooooooo I

      forgot you still think that black people do not

      have "Souls". Truth is FOOLS we, humans, are SOULS.

      When you die you stank just like we do if no one

      find you for days after you have died. When you do

      not eat for days you die just like we do. When it

      gets over 100 degrees for great periods of time you

      faint just like we do, though we can stand a little

      more heat than you can. When it gets 32 or so

      degrees outside you will die just like we do except

      you can stand the cold a little longer than we can.

      I could go on and on and on, but with people with

      such deep seated hate and anger like you who have

      been taught from generation after generation and

      still teach your kids that you are superior I am

      just wasting my time. You are only getting paid

      back for all the times in the past 150 plus years

      that you treat black people like animals. Remember

      this if you remember nothing else. GOD IS NOT A

      RESPECTER OF PERSONS. He don't care what color you

      are, to HIM right is right and wrong is wrong.

      Thank HIM that you will not be judging on the Day

      of Judgement. HE WILL.!!! It amazes me how can someone that THINKS he belong to a superior race when he for the most part hate other people solely because they are not white. I guess those of you like that hate Asians, Blacks, Hispanics, etc. But you white people are stupid. You should not hate the Jews because contrary to your thinking they are white TOO.

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      Robert359 3 years ago

      To you white men that really, really, really, and I mean a hundred and fifty-five quintillion times hate black men. What if your sister, mother, wife, aunt, daughter, female cousin were to date a black guy? Would you want to kill them? Would you disown them? Would you consider the child your niece or nephew are just a mudshark, just another dirty nigger that is only partially white. If you accept the child would you accept the whole child or only that half that is white and RIGHT? For you guys out there that have known a white woman like that, what if 5,10, 15 years from now that child is President of the USA....Remember we've had one and unless Christ return we probably will have another. What if that child you turned down now 5, 10, 15 years ago turn out to be a billionaire, or 20, 25, 30 years from the the world's first and only Trilllionaire? Would you then say, damn, my could have been stepchild is President of the USA or filthy rich. But now that white guy that all of you faggots thought were weak or a shame to you is not going to the White House for dinner and your stupid behind is as you were before a loser. It is really stupid to hate someone because God made them black or white, or Asian or Hispanic. I surely hope that NONE of you haters believe in God if that is the case. And suppose, let's just suppose that you are on a highway one night and the only other car on the highway is driven by a black man. You fall asleep at the wheel and your car goes down an embankment and that black man stop and pull your racist ass out. Would you rather die or be rescued? I really believe that some of you are so full of hate that you would rather die then be rescued by a black man . And if such do happens what if a few months or a year or so later your female relative bring him around the family? Would you be happy to see the face that saved you,or would you disown your sister or cousin, aunt or even mother for dating a darky, a coon, a nigger, a porch monkey. See how stupid you are Mr. Superior MAN.

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      Checkout 3 years ago

      You are traitors to your kind. By breeding with other races you show your disdain and hatred for us who would have worshipped you.

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      Checkout 3 years ago

      You are traitors to your kind. By breeding with other races you show your disdain and hatred for us who would have worshipped you.

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      mike pennington 3 years ago

      In my life I have only known of one white man that married a white women with a black baby. He was proud of the kid and went to all of the boys sports events. That's one. All of the other white men that have dated white women and found out that she had a black baby never came back. Try going to sales conference with all of your competition with a black child and your white wife. Not much of a man if you have to have a black do your bedroom work.

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      Jacob 3 years ago

      Absolutely not I'd be ashamed to be seen with them in public , white women or she i say mud sharks disgust me so much anyway.

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      Blah 3 years ago

      Has anyone not quite got this yet? No one wants to pick up the slack for your failed culture. If some dumb woman wants to carry your spawn, and is then shocked because you beat her and left her, why am I responsible for being her white knight and saving her dumb ass?

      The problem here is a black culture which devalues women, marriage, and families, and a popular culture which makes stupid white women think black men are of any value when compared to men of any other race.

      So black men, step it up and be decent, or stop breeding. Slap a rubber on it.

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      Darkproxy 3 years ago from Ohio

      women with kids have to much baggage if she had kids with a man who is abusive then its even more baggage. She has biracial kids then that's even more baggage because well being a step father then just gets even harder.

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      Robert359 3 years ago

      Why is it that SOME of you white men that comment on here say that we black men will beat the white woman? You act and sound like in the history of male/female relationships a white man never hit a woman, period. Though you are a moron and an idiot m quite sure you don't believe that, yet that is how it seem. Contrary to your superior thinking white men beat white women, black men beat black women. Men beat women. But that is due to character flaws and have nothing to do with skin color. So stop saying that, "oh if you go with a black man he is going to beat you and then you come running back to the white man with your "spawn" and think we will take you back." Stop it please it just show how the suppose superior man is not so superior after all. You way of thinking is flawed and flawed thinking indicate an inferior mentality and not a superior one. When will people like you BLAH learn that there is good and bad in all races. You know in the annuals of time I am quite sure that there are black men that have taken care of a WHITE child because a WHITE man was acting like a little boy instead of a man and did not do his responsibility. From the time my kids were from the womb til the time they were grown and on their own I took care of them because I didn't like the idea of not doing for my kids what my hard working father did for us, my siblings and I. And contrary to some of your warp thinking I had 9 siblings and we all had the same mother and father. Poor twisted warp sense of reasoning white SUPERIOR man. And do some of you evil men call an innocent child a spawn instead of a child. Since you seem to speak for GOD what do you think He thinks of them? Better yet, what do you think HE thinks of you. Hatred is a negative emotion and anything negative is INFERIOR not SUPERIOR. So since you hate these white women that choose to go to black men for whatever reason, what make you think you are better. You are not.

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      Darkproxy 3 years ago from Ohio

      Well I am not white so that's just a bad ad homien on your part. I said

      "women how have been abused have baggage" I never once said black men beat women. In fact more black women beat black men if you look at the statistics. Now if you are a step dad to a biracial child that is going to be difficult or baggage mostly because you have to deal with the emasculating position of step father, and having to protect a biracial child from others that's too much me and I advise men and women to really think hard before they have kid of any race.

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      Jacob 3 years ago

      Why is it that these mud sharks always try to get back with white men when their interracial relationship fails and complain when the man doesn't want them, as far as I'm concerned go for another black guy because alot of white men don't want you and and your mix children.

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      realist 3 years ago

      I saw a lot of white responses - and many envision a negative stereotype of a black man who is irresponsible for impregnating a white woman and abandoning her. But many white men did the same thing in the Vietnam War. It wasn't uncommon for white soldiers to have sex with Vietnamese women. A huge white Amerasian population was left behind after the Fall of Saigon. The Amerasian children dealt with racism from both Vietnamese and their American fathers who abandoned them.

      As for the social stigma of white women dating black men and having mixed children, the resentment is clearly strong. But that raises another question - are the same white posters aware that RIGHT NOW they may have a white female relative or neighbor in college dating black men to the point of possibly getting pregnant. If that were to happen, and if often does, would they just seriously disown the female relative? I work out at the gym in a college town and see white women with black men almost daily. In the Deep South there are many liberal Protestant white women who date minorities despite the fact that they are descended from white Confederates and have segregationist grandparents from the 1960s.

      To be real, there still are racist white women - just on subtle levels. They date only white men. Catholic white women tend to be racist but on subtle levels. In the 90s I was at an undergraduate Catholic college with many racist white women. They remind me of that movie "The Craft" with the racist character "Laura." If the racist white men want to raise and preserve racist white women, then an expensive private Catholic parochial school with mostly white students in the suburbs may be the answer - lol. But even there some young whites will not be racist.

      As for me, I am Native American. Most modern Native Americans are part white. For us, it's the other way around. The intermarriage with whites has led to the decline of Native American culture. Heather Locklear is a common example of a white woman with Native American ancestry. So are Johnny Depp, Burt Reynolds, Megan Fox, and Vanessa Hudgens. The Native American ancestry is fading away in the midst of intermarriage with whites which is extremely frequent. I have a blonde white girlfriend in the Deep South. The Confederates intermarried with Creeks and Choctaws for hundreds of years.

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      son of the south 3 years ago

      you know when you cross that line what your in for and justly so

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      Setekh 3 years ago

      Please don't try to paint these tainted white women as victims. No one forced them to jump into bed with black men. They did it out of their own lust and ignorance and hence they need to pay the price, sleep in the bed they made and stew in their own juice.

      When will people realize that if interracial relationships cease to happen, there will be no more racism. Racism exists because white men are protective of their own women and not attracted to the women of other races. Thus, if non-white men stop going after white women, racism will disappear.

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      Jake 3 years ago

      The author is an idiot. Unfortunately, she's probably another white female who's been brainwashed by the incessant liberal media propaganda pushing white females with blacks. It's still a mystery how that can happen even with the brainwashing - how can they be attracted to black guys who are the garbage of society. They have low IQs, bad manners, dress like clowns, are in many cases stunningly ugly, have prison records, use drugs, can't speak an English sentence, and use naïve women and then dump them on the welfare system. You're damn right no white man is going to hook up with these foolish women who have permanently ruined their lives.

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      Emma 3 years ago

      Can we all stop throwing the accusations around, please?! Yes, there are white people who are racist. But not all white people are this way. Yes, there are black people who are racist. But not all black people are this way. Yes, slavery was horrible! Apartheid was horrible! Segregation was horrible! Yes, those atrocities were committed by white racists! And they sucked! Nobody's denying that they sucked, alright? But if everyone keeps hating each other and spewing violence and ugliness and anger at each other over something as basic as the color of someone's skin or their sexual orientation or their religion, the hate will only be perpetrated.

      I refuse to identify with any race or sexual preference or any other label because I believe that I, like anyone else, am a child of God. I am, like anyone else, broken and flawed and hurt. I am, like anyone else, part of the greater unity that is Creation and nothing needs to define me if I don't want it to. If I am a white woman and I fall in love with a black man and have a child by him, and then later am drawn romantically to a white man but he condemns me because of my beautiful biracial child, then I would pity him for his prejudice and pity any person unfortunate enough to become involved with him because they don't realize how damaged he is inside. If I am a white person who does not get along well with someone of another race, it's because I don't like who they are as a person, not because of their skin color. If I am a member of one race and am friends with someone of another race, I am not being racist or betraying my own race. I'm friends with them because they're a good person and I admire their character.

      Why do people insist on hating each other? We are all just that: PEOPlE. We are flawed, we are crying, we are in pain. But we are also beautiful, kind, and the creatures that Jesus loves so much that He was willing to die in order to save. We are people. And you know what? No matter what we look like, that is something absolutely fantastic to be.

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      Redhawk 3 years ago

      Because she was so "open minded that her brains fell out. Black men in general do not have a track record pf beong fathers who stay with a woman and the children. Its not racism, its seeing the reality in the world and realizing she is a fool(from statistics).

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      so grossss 3 years ago

      I would date a white woman who slept with a dog before I sleep with a white woman who had sex with a pavement ape. Disgusting.

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      Jacob 3 years ago

      The arrogance of these black males are annoying I would never be with a white woman knowing she went that way go take care of your kid yourself

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      Brian 3 years ago

      This answer simple. Since white women have no racial loyalty to their own people and did not have children with white men. Why would white men waste their time when the women have demonstrated their loyalty is not to them?

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      Emily 3 years ago

      Blacks are so ugly and trashy women that breed with them are nasty......

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      Jimiko 3 years ago

      No wonder white men are going to Asian women

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      Sarah 3 years ago

      Very few indeed but of course there some men that are very desperate to find love that usually accept these kind of women, like what the half breed was saying about her n##r loving mother had no problem getting white men.

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      Sarah 3 years ago

      Am white and not attracted to black men. Trust me society is not progressive as you think. People still give side eyes to white women with half breed kids, they think she must be a whore , low class etc I am loyal to the white race because I know we are superior race.

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      Kenneth 2 years ago

      White women who are brainwash by the serpent jewish media that's it cool and trendy to be interacial sellouts need no mercy for their retarted mistakes.They have mixed race babies who will grow up to be more of a burden to the pure white race. Whites knew that intergration was not invented to give black people freedom ,But to take away whites their freedom. Whites knew that some black males wanted intergration to get next to the white women. Black on white rape statitics prove it and The Most High God Jesus Christ Knows it. /Blackonwhite

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      realityisquiteharsh 2 years ago

      If she is stupid enough to date a pavement ape, no white men with an ounce of self respect would have anything to do with her. Enjoy being beaten to a pulp you coal burning whores. You are 15 times more likely with a black men.

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      fuckyourbitching 2 years ago

      Nother guyAll i hear i$ whining out of the OP. Few men of.all hues and races possess the true nobility of caring for another guys kids, let alone kids that look nothing like him. Its a natural survival instinct so I see through your soft whining. Take careof your own kids so you dont have to cry when successful white men dont want to.

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      soren 2 years ago

      Raising someone else's child is a big enough responsibility already, but a mixed race child raises that substantially. (mixed-race is this comment means half black, it's not quite as big an issue if the child mixed with a non-black ethnicity)

      1. A mixed race child is much less likely to have a father paying good child support.

      2. Out in public there is no pretending that you are the biological father, so that invites stares.

      3. There is likely to be emotional distance between the surrogate father and adopted son. There is the issue of being a masculine role model. (I don't think this is as much an issue with girl children)

      4. You may have to interact with the biological father, so that is an awkward situation that heightened by the racial angle.

      5. It's not PC to say this, but the STD rates among non-Asian minorities is much higher than whites.

      etc, etc, etc there's more that could be said but this is good enough

      I personally would be more open to dating a woman with a mixed race child if she is noticeably articulate, was actually married and divorced or widowed, and if the child is a girl that looks like will be attractive when she's older(i.e., have fewer racial hangups herself)

      White guys with any sort of a job and take care of their bodies have an extreme amount of dating options. There have been multiple online dating surveys that show that white guys have it easier than any other ethnic group. Even a guy that prefers white girls is unlikely to bother choosing a white girl with a mixed child over a latina or asian girl.

      From what I've seen(from a far distance), most white guys who give white girls with mixed children any attention are those looking for an easy lay or are sentimental sops who aren't all that great with girls(and the girls know it).

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      Jeff 2 years ago

      Soren is right I've seen it myself

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      Bill 2 years ago

      Not interested being in a relationship with these women than can go be lonely

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      ana 2 years ago

      Am a black girl and to be honest many of the white guys I know would not even want to date a white girl that's been with a black guy let alone have a child with one. That's why some white girls try to hide the fact that they have been with black guys.

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      J Whittman 2 years ago

      Let's knock off the PC BS and discuss the real issue as why white men don't date white women with mixed children. The author of this article wants to make you believe that's beautiful, rich and famous supermodel Heidi Klum is shot down by some 40 year old unemployed fat virgin in a wheel chair who lives in his parents basement because she is a nigger lover.

      The truth is, excluding a few outliers, most WW who have mixed kids are not desireable to the average WM. I personally know three WW with mixed kids and all three are land whales. One of them , on top of being over weight, is ghetto and has an STD from the black father. Outside of celebrities I have only seen one attractive white girl with mixed children on a subway and she was a total wigger.

      So stop this liberal nonsense that WM don't date WW with mixed kids because all white men are racist. If most WW with mixed kids looked like Kim kardashian or Heidi klum I guarentee you there would be plenty of white men willing to date them, given they are not adverse to dating a women with children, which absolutely many man (of all races) will refuse to do.

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      truther 2 years ago

      interracial dating and especially having another races child is disgusting. black men need to raise their children and not just play the field and let the mom look after them. i know it happens in all races but is most prevalent of black men to do so.

      why should a white woman have a black child?

      why would anyone want an adulterated woman?

      its more often that white women will have ir children than white

      also it depends on family as most family members would say "what you doing with a whore like that?"

      the whole why wont she date me is bollocks as i find most women do it for coolness factor, sexual thrill of being with black guy. ever increasingly more common with the anti white programmes adverts and etc on tv

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      Ryan 2 years ago

      Why is it the white guys responsibility to raise the black man's child? Could it be that we are more stable, have better jobs, make better father's...all the things that you knew before entering into a relationship with the black man. You made your decision, now you have to live with the consequences.

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      Jaysun423 2 years ago

      Ryan I agree. But with black men not making a difference. My beef is they got to live of the fruits of my labor where she wouldn't have given me the time of day. Then all of a sudden she wants to settle down with me the responsible man after I worked my whole life. You think I'm going to accept that? It's not a racist thing. It's a why should I have to sacrifice everything I worked for to be with her disappointing ass.

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      jo 2 years ago

      Same reason why a Black woman having a white mans baby is an outcast... racism on both sides

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      Genghis khan 2 years ago

      It sounds like the white woman wants to have her fun with the black man but reality sets in when they find out many black men can't support a family. The white women runs to the white man in hopes of sticking him with the bill. No thanks!

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      Highnew3251 21 months ago

      Interracial relationships break up at a much higher rate than others. A white woman who has biracial children soon finds that the black father can't support them. The woman is not outcasted by the white men nor is she thought of as damaged goods. It certainly not racism either. It's a matter of economics and finances. A single man who meets a white woman with let's say three or four biracial children is not prepared to take on the expense of immediately having four children. He thus declines to have a relationship with the woman. It would be different if the white woman didn't have any children. In many cases the woman finds herself on public assistance to provide for the children. Many of these public assistance agencies also have programs to make the black father provide support for his children. Usually a black father will be in arrears to the tune of thousands of dollars. Making a black father pay for using the white woman makes sense. In many cases the father has been arrested for a criminal act and is in prison. Saying that a woman with biracial children is considered damaged goods by white men is utterly ridiculous.

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      Michael Xavier 19 months ago

      Finding out a white woman your dating has been with a black is like going to a restaurant and ordering a favorite prepared prime rib and then being told by the waiter that they made a mistake and the piece of meat had been sitting in a urinal for 8 hours, but they did their best to clean it off.

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      vusumuzi githendu 16 months ago

      these comments are interesting

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      Taylor 13 months ago

      I think white women who date,sleep and breed with negros are usually mentally ill. Are you really surprised the buck doesn't want to be there for your kids when they do the same to their women. After the Mandingo fantasy, when reality sets in that's when they realize their mistakes. Even if they get white men it's usually some loser they didn't want to settle with. I am a white woman and I feel disgusted by this type of women

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