The Meaning of MGTOW
If you are like me, one day you were reading an article, or post, or blog, and saw the acronym MGTOW thrown in. And due to its nature, even when you found out what MGTOW meant ‘Men Going Their Own Way’, you at best felt a general idea of what was meant, but had some lingering doubts.
As I often do, I decided to do some research. What I learned is that MGTOW isn’t a movement like feminism or other politically organized causes. Rather, MGTOW appears to be the consensus of a growing percentage of men that participating in traditional relationships with women isn’t worth the hassle, or in other words ‘the juice isn’t worth the squeeze’ and hence they have chosen to 'go their own way'.
In the ‘accepted’ or ‘progressive’ current social environment we find ourselves in today, there is not merely the lack of identifying that there is a difference between the sexes, there is an open and sometimes hostile campaign being waged in schools and campuses, in the media and in politics to stamp out any reference to sex differentiation and those who would mention it.
We can see differences between men and women, they are physical, emotional, undeniable, yet contemporary discourse in our society frowns upon these differences being discussed in what they mean for roles in our society, political choices, moral reasoning, etc.
What we see in the face of this social and media driven barrage is men choosing to check out rather than confront it or incorporate their beliefs into the discussion… and hence we have MGTOW.
J.D. Unwin dedicated several pages in his introduction to Sex & Culture lamenting the reluctance that people feel when discussing sex differences and their consequences.
"The whole of human history does not contain a single instance of a group becoming civilized unless it has been absolutely monogamous, nor is there any example of a group retaining its culture after it has adopted less rigorous customs"
What lead Unwin to his conclusion was the systematic retracing of 80 primitive tribes and 6 known civilizations through 5,000 years of history. And according to his findings the disenfranchisement of the patriarchal system has always heralded the downfall of that culture/civilization, throughout history.
In an excerpt from the Fate of Empires, by John Glubb (1977) he describes the manifestations of such a dynamic in the case of the Arab decline:
“In the first half of the ninth century, Baghdad enjoyed its High Noon as the greatest and the richest city in the world. [Soon after it declined, and according to] the works of the contemporary historians of Baghdad in the early tenth century [the empire fell apart, provinces declared independence and ignored central authority] the degeneracy of the times in which they lived, the increasing materialism and the laxity of sexual morals. They lamented also the corruption of the officials of the government and the fact that politicians always seemed to amass large fortunes while they were in office.”
As women's rights and sexual identity rights have gained prominence and public support, it has come at the expense of men's rights, roles, and societal norms. Laws and social norms that were recognizably biased towards men in the 40s have become decidedly biased against men less than one hundred years later.
Another more extreme meaning of MGTOW is in reference to those men who have chosen to disengage from society, or in other words ‘unplug’ or ‘get back to basics’. They go the way of the hermit, the recluse, the survivalist, they take to nature, or they seclude themselves in their apartment and detach from the ‘civilized’ world where and when they can.
As growing economic crisis, terror attacks, and civil unrest become more and more pronounced and our society seems to be unraveling under the weight of our decadence, pathological altruism, and from what in any other era would have been called an invasion (today known as ‘illegal immigration’ or ‘refugee crisis’). These MGTOW choose to ignore the matters rather that address them.
But this has all happened before. Nothing that is occurring in our culture today is new. Waves of immigration have occurred in the past, hundreds, thousands, tens of thousands of years ago, for as long as we can go back in history. The Romans, the Greeks, the Chinese, lifted humanity to heights not seen before, only to collapse back into ‘dark ages’. The cycles are all similar, there is no mystery.
Throughout history men suffer and work hard within very patriarchal societies, but they are rewarded for that hard work with authority and pair bonding (women are given few choices). But once enough resources, stability and security are available in society that authority is removed, presenting men with no incentive that justifies their suffering. Along, with this removal of male authority comes the collapse of society, as men are the work horses that keep the show of civilization going.
I know, such concepts are not tolerated within the mainstream discourse, but a few thousand years of history lends support to this conclusion.
Men Going Their Own Way is a statement of self-ownership, where the modern man preserves and protects his own sovereignty above all else. It is the manifestation of one word: “No”. - urbandictionary
Perhaps this would have been different, perhaps we would have discovered a utopian ideal of human state, a balanced existence between man and woman, nature and civilization… if not for the waves of ‘migrants’, ‘refugees’, ‘barbarians’ or whatever label put on those outside the civilization in question that overwhelm or conquer the civilization once it has moved past the militant/patriarchal prime.
Unfortunately this was never the case in the past, and certainly is not the case now, so we will never know. It seems self defeating towards that goal however, when a quarter century ago we as a society/civilization agonized over a over-populated world and so from Europe to China it was highly encouraged that families should minimize the amount of children they had. Only to state today there are not enough native children being born, so we must accept tens of millions of immigrants to replace a declining birth rate that had been encouraged for decades.
Still, these are different times, technology is having an impact on our lives and culture in ways that have never been seen throughout all of known history. So indeed, so long as technology moves forward at its current rate, the collapse of civilization as we know it may be averted, or converted into something else altogether new.
Either way, it appears that MGTOW’s do not care about the sensibilities of a gynocentric societal organization or protecting societal norms. Ultimately their point of view is that the blood of men should not grease the wheels of ‘progressive’ civilization (male disposability), as such they are ‘checking out' and going their own way.
References and Further Reading
- Urban Dictionary: MGTOW
- MGTOW | Men Going Their Own Way
M.G.T.O.W - Men Going Their Own Way - is a statement of self-ownership, where the modern man preserves and protects his own sovereignty above all else.
- Men vs. Women: Differences Between Men and Women’s Money Management Skills | Men vs. Women Series, W
In this article we discuss that when it comes to money and money management, there’s little doubt that men and women approach it with different ideas