Yes my Ex. went out with him for 11 yrs on and off should have stuck with being finished the first time, but I got so tired with the constant bombardment, & no support.
When I was pregnant with his daughter. He went insane over the pregnancy. I ended up in hospital with stress related illness.
He rammed my car off the road, he used to phone 250 times in 24 hours. He tried to strangle me and kicked me in the stomache, I went to a solicitor, it led to him being arrested, he got a caution, & told to stay away, it didn't, it wore me down, looking back now it was crazy.
However women who live in abusive relationships and don't see it, I know why, you think your life is normal, and you are so tired you will do anything to keep the peace.
Have not heard anything from him in 8 months. We have been over this time for 7 years, I have been in a relationship for 5 years, married 18 months.