I can't not answer this........but I can assure you, that you are not the first to ask this question!!!!
Years ago, I cried out...............why can you give my 6th grader birth control and not give my 2nd grader a tylenol, WHEN I am on the phone asking you to do just that!
It's is a messed up and confusing world that we parents navigate. How can we lead our young through it?