What are we sharing?
Aches? Pains? Inconviences?
If these are the topics, are we 'sharing' or simply trading hardships?
If we celebrate the same victory and lament the same loss.............we are sharing.
When we play, " up your story", we are being competitive.
It is not 'sharing', when in my loss, you tell me how much greater your loss was.
Or, even , in victory.
We, as people , either share, or we compete!
The raw truth, you can not "feel" the loss, or joy of another..........you can " share " it best, when you allow them their moment, without refocusing on your own.