Fellow hubbers...Thank you sooooooo much for answering my question. It helped me a lot, I really appreciated all your answers. I use to ask experience people when there are something I should seriously decide on, though I myself know the answer on what is the best thing to take. But asking amazing people and contemplating their answers gives me more courage and determination to strongly stand to what I believe is right.
Seriously, deciding on something which has many things at stake is very very hard and scary too, specially if that person is afraid of losing something valuable or is afraid of making mistakes to protect those people who are special to her. But I guess that's how life is, you can't have all the happiness in the world, you need to endure everything in order to be better.
For those whom I find a grand pa, grand ma, father, mother and a true friend figure, you dont know how your answers matter to me. Thank you.