Let's consider God's throne room, and Adolf Hitler is standing before the most high being judged. Say, we are present for his judgement and sentencing. Obviously we would be witness to his atrocities. What if we saw him in his complete life's timeline. What if we seen him abused as a little boy. What if we saw mean teachers who didn't care. Now, for the record, I'm not defending him. It could easily be someone else. Point is; we would see his whole life flash before our eyes.
Given an analogy like that, and given we are commanded to love, but only through the Spirit since we ourselves don't posses that kind of love. I think I lost myself down a rabbit hole here. Ok, re-grouping my thoughts now. If we were to really know someone from cradle to grave, perhaps we could bypass the like part and have godly love.
I don't know, does this make sense?