if you have to interact with them everyday and they are such a pain, what do you do to avoid making things worse?
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LOL I was thinking, "shoot 'em" but you beat me to it. This was the best part of my day so far-just got off work after dealing with an obnoxious patient for 12 hrs to learn that my brother had a heart attack. I needed this laugh. Thanks!
that's funny (lol) like this answer
Or you tell them to stay North
in short get rid of them once and for all? haha! i would love to try that :)
I feel you, but remember, if you do that, you will be dealing with people that are a lot more difficult than them in prison.
If only :)
You are so positive and kind. I find that I cannot always be kind because there are so many people in this world that truly will harm you at any opportunity. I see this everyday simply because of my beau's occupation and human nature can be sad &
I meant effective not affective(sorry).
not sure what you mean by more effective method..
and figuring them out may give you more control of the situation, which is what you want. It isn't a question of equal work, as much as that of control...
I totally agree with the fact that most difficult people would not take a moment to give a care about you.
Difficult people are extremely hard to get to know. If you can't get to know them, how do you figure them out? For more effective method, refer to WD Curry!
IDONO, you can understand them by observing their behavior
I once knew a lady who was very difficult(hated actually). One day,she pulled out a book titled How to Deal with Difficult People(everybody was stunned). Later,she told me that she did not know that she was difficult(I doubt you are that difficult).
i think it also helps if you try to put yourself in other people's shoes.what will they feel if you this or say that without them meriting it.most difficult people i knw,nt pertaining to you, has issues they cant face and vent it out to others.
a difficult person is someone who seems to make everything you do tough, like someone who always sees your wrong and doesn't appreciate your effort,a bully in school,a negative person,a critic.someone who makes your life difficult.
I guess you failed to realize the point I was making. Life if difficult, who we view as "difficult" people will vary. So actually, the proper way to view this is, is who isn't a difficult person to deal with. We are all difficult from time to time.
i get your point, but when i wrote the question, what i was pertaining to are the people who makes ur life difficult w/o u doing anything to them.like frustrated people who vents out what they feel to you w/o u doing them anything wrong.
You still don't get my point, people pertains to a group. What you are really asking is how do you deal with difficult individuals. Dealing with a group, hence people, is an entirely different question.
it's collective. there's even a book with the title how to deal with difficult people. u might want to read it.