The universe seems fit to throw curve balls at me every five years or so. I left LA for Wisconsin and almost went broke on one. Fell in love and got married on another. Got divorced on the next. On the next and most recent, I made almost $100K one year, met an old girlfriend, got involved, then it all fell apart and went broke again. Currently starting over with almost no cash and no girlfriend, house gone to foreclosure and in debt.
How do I overcome? By getting up one more time. I can't help it.. I'm an optimist.