I think using you intuition to make decisions is the best way, then you are being true to yourself rather than being influenced unduly by someone elses opinion, which often starts when we are young and impressionable!
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That very funny Alistair
I personally believe in a personal spirit that is our trueselves, which will lead to happiness for ourselves. Issues of self esteem could therefore be related to a disconnection with our intuition caused by whatever.