Most people think that they know how to help and like doing just that. In my experience, however, there are a lot of cases that I wish I was not helped at all or helped in a different way. All these counsellors, advisors, experts (so-called, mind you) may have no idea of what I really need and it takes years of trusting only to find out later that I knew better all along, but did not trust my own guts (intuition). Can you relate?
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I agree with so many points you've made. I have a people-people personality and I am a HELPER. Yet, I realize that helping is not as simple as it might seem. For example, a helped child is a helpless child. That is why I asked this question. Thanks!!
Kallini, Ha! I noticed this just got a "best answer" Very Cool! Thank you. Since I wrote this a while back, I'm not quite sure WHY I put that emergency room thing in ;) Cheers to you. Always fun to see a best answer! Thank you.
Hi, Katy, I suppose, Who Waited - that's ironic! Yes, it's been a while.I was reading my old Q&As. I see a lot of things differently now - as far as telling someone the solution before or without knowing the problem - that's my parents. Call 911