I'm loving the piggies! I have a Wilbur.
I think unfounded judgments are caused by 2 ways of thinking:
a) the person doesn't take the time to understand someone else, nor do they care
b) the person lives by their own way of thinking and believes that's how everyone should be.
For example, growing up I never had a lot of Barbie dolls but wanted the Barbie swimming pool in the worst way! When I got older and had the extra income, I started my own Barbie collection to save for my daughter. I went to yard sales, flea markets, and shopped online to get the best deals so I could grow my collection. One day I found a lady online selling a set of 5 cowboy Barbie dolls, all with complete outfits, that she was selling because her daughter was going to college. I paid $12 for them all and she shipped them to me free by priority mail. A friend happened to stop over when they were delivered to my home. I was planning on putting them up for my daughter for her birthday because I had found a barn dollhouse and mini farm animals to go with them. When my friend saw my box, she charged in to my home, ripped open the box and told me I would be going to h*ll for worshiping stuff. ? She emptied the dolls on to the floor while my daughter stood there watching this happen. That to me is a judgmental person. Needless to say, I made other friends. :)