I have said this one a few times, Marcelle. If you wish to teach me to swim; if I take the goggles, flippers, pullbuoy,, paddles and then finally I say 'can you teach me without me getting into the water?' How then will I be able to swim?
I say pray, both verbal and interiorly. Build yourself a shrine at home. Rise at 0600 hrs daily, every day. Spend half hour in prayer and meditation. Sing, read holy books. Practice again at nights and regularly every single day for three months, and if nothing changes, then come back to me.
Serve mankind, believe in Something Higher, strive to be transformed and pray to strive. They go together. If you do not wish to get into the water, to take the medicine, then how will the cure come? I have sat every day in Silence for 33 years. It really is not a joke but very rewarding. I also do a full time job.
It is impossible to get rich without ambition; desire. It is impossible to find Peace without an inner longing/yearning for the Divine. You ask about prejudice, without the cleanliness of the inner mirror, it will remain. Much Love.