as long as they work, i'm for it. if they don't work and are "housewives" as we used to call it, then that's ok too. some men like that and if she has a significant other who is ok with that, so am i.
if they "work" by collecting a check from the government and are not married to their live-in just so they can collect, then i've got an issue with this.
single women of all races even without kids, are collecting a check and it angers me. some single men do the same. if you can work, do so. if not apply for disability.
as afr as working in the home, i like it. i do that on my computer and make a few bucks for spending money. i also claim it and pay my taxes, though i disagree with the way they are imposed, it's the law. work, pay taxes, and live as you choose. it's all good as long as you aren't hurting someone else.