10 Dynamite Ways For Your Girlfriend or Wife to Love You Deeper
Ahhh, love sweet love
Love and sex: Know the differnce
Did you know that when most guys are asked if they love their wives they reply almost every time, “Sure. Our sex life is fantastic!” I applaud you guys for that honest comment, but I hate to “rain on your parade,” but there is a world of difference between sex and love. Now you can pick your chins up off the floor.
It is my uneducated opinion that when men learn the difference in sex and love, engaged couples will be happier, couples still dating will be closer and the divorce rate will suddenly plummet. All because of “that” one difference between sex and love.
I am not claiming to be a love guru, and no, I am not going to have my story flagged by HubPages for going into elaborate-detail in explaining what sex is, but I am going to share with you guys out there who are hung-up and confused about what “real” love really is . . .
"I love you more than my own life."
“10 Dynamite Ways to Make Your Girlfriend or Wife Love You Deeper”
LEARN TO SEW – girls will love it, guys. I read a while back in a Cosmo magazine that women find it very sexy for a man to sew and wash dishes. So take your pick. This idea will pay for itself with the repairs you will be doing on her clothes as well as yours.
TAKE A COURSE – in Swedish Massage, and give her something extra to look forward to when she comes home from work. Put that twinkle back in her eye when you take her from her world of tension to a carefree world of relaxation. This is powerful stuff, guys. I am telling you.
CREATE INTIMATE – moments with her. Example: sit and watch her apply her make-up when you are going out, or before she goes to work. If she asks why you are doing this, reply, “I find it very sexy to watch you put on your eyeliner and lipstick.” Beware: Doing this might make her late for work.
SURPRISE HER – after dinner (that you have cooked) one night and dance with her on the patio or living room. You will have her favorite music on the stereo, so you have created for her, the perfect romantic atmosphere for her to express her love for you.
DO NOT – turn the television on all weekend. You can do it. She will be amazed as well as stunned when you lovingly-announce, “This entire weekend is yours. We go where you want to go; eat where you want to eat and whatever you want to do, we do it.” Soon she will be telling her girlfriends what a “Love Doctor,” you have become.
"I love running in the woods with you."
"Darling, are we lost?" "Who cares? I love you."
SLIP THE MANAGER – of your favorite club a few bucks to let you surprise her and not on her birthday or anniversary, by you singing a song that you wrote for her. If you need to take a few singing lessons, that is fine, but she is not going to judge you on your talent, but how you touched her heart with his super-romantic gesture.
LET THE DISHES – wait after dinner. Take her on an after-dinner stroll like you did when you were dating. She will appreciate how hard you are trying to make things just for her. And I urge you to do any or all of these things in a sincere spirit. Otherwise, you would be better off to not do them at all.
TAKE A GOOD – photo of her and get an artist to convert it to an oil painting. Sure it might cost you a few dollars, but what are a few dollars compared to the sizzling romance you will get in return?
TAKE HER AWAY – for an entire weekend to a place that specializes in spa treatments, relaxation, meditation and some quality time for her. You can stay there too, but remember, each thing you have bought is only for her. She will fall in-love with you all over again, but only deeper.
TAKE HER TO – a theater production or movie that “you” hate. I mean it. Even if you do not “pass this one with flying colors,” she will appreciate you for the great effort.
Note: this is not a comedy-based piece, but a serious story that can add more romance to a marriage or relationship that both of you feel has “gotten into a rut.”