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10 Reasons Why Women Stay Single
Too Fabulous to Settle
Today we live in an era in which women have more access to opportunities, many are choosing to stay single without plans to marry. According to a Pew Research study, only 20 percent of women age 18-29 in the United States are currently married, and many have not set goals to do so. Whether a woman just hasn’t found the right person, or is burning with independence, the reasons are unique to the woman choosing the single path.
It may seem that the "thing to do" today is to be in a relationship or coupled up, the reality is that being single and remaining that way is becoming quite popular; some research says it can actually be better. Sure, there can be wonderful perks to being in a loving and supporting relationship, but there’s nothing more fulfilling than the relationship you have with yourself, which many experts say should happen first anyway. A recent published study, provides new evidence that people who stay single instead of getting married, or who get divorced instead of staying married, are especially likely to be healthy; married women have a higher rate of obesity, high blood pressure, anxiety, and stress.
Being single means you get to do things on your terms, by your own time. This alone is reason enough that many women stay single for a long time, and often decide not to marry.
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Reasons Women Stay Single
For many women career comes before love. Women are more driven today to become financially secure and enjoy the satisfaction of their education and hard work. For the career driven woman, marriage and/or starting a family is on the bottom of their list of goals to achieve, and some women just don't want to share their hard earned money.
Women have learned to establish their own security and safe haven without the presence of a partner. This isn't to say that women don't like the security or safety that a "good companion" can provide. Women who are of the independent type don’t like being controlled or told what to, not this occurs in all marriages, and certainly can be vise versa. Some women just don't want to deal with another persons drama and problems. For independent women, there is a sense of bliss that comes from not having to answer for ones actions or decisions.
Let’s face it, being single represents cocktails, high heels, and unencumbered weekend mornings. Making one’s own schedule free from a significant others’ obligations is a major kick to staying single. This isn't to say that single women don't date or have companions to fill space on those empty nights, or when needing some nurturing. Personal freedom means fun with no obligation.
Not Going to Settle
Women are no longer settling for the “wrong person” simply because they are anxious about not being married or having children, and with more women being independent, they are simply not willing to settle for no reason. Many women stay single until they meet someone who makes them do a complete 180, meets their expectations, and fits into their lifestyle and goals.
Women don't need a spouse or partner to have a child. According to a Census Bureau Report, 35 percent of women in the United States between the ages of 15 and 50 are single mothers. The support and resources available to single mothers as seen tremendous growth over the years. Many women do not want to be a wife, but still want to be a mom. Today, women can successfully raise a child without a husband or partner.
Already Content / Happy
Women of today are more self-fulfilled and don’t need a partner to be happy. Although a meaningful relationship can contribute to a persons happiness, attitudes are shifting where a woman does not need a relationship to feel happy. Many women feel that self-contentment, and being happy with themselves is enough, and are not willing to jeopardize that with just any person.
Put Off By Players
Women who date will choose to stay single if they meet people who are not suitable mates. Being single is preferable over being with someone who doesn't show respect. Many women hold off on commitment because those who may be dating material, are not marriage or relationship material. It's true that women often have to date to discover what they want and don't want, but women are not just committing if the person is a player, and doesn't respect her.
Concerned it will impede on social life and career goals, many women don’t want marriage responsibilities, or the task of providing for or taking care of a partner. There's no doubt that a serious relationship and marriage comes with responsibilities by both parties, but the care giving, nurturing, multi-tasking requirements of marriage, pushes some women to steer clear, or wait a long time before making that serious commitment.
Because She Can
Societal changes have enabled women to stay single and live independently. There was a time not long ago when a woman could not open a bank account without her husband’s signature. Women are simply enjoying the freedom to own their own lives as independent, capable adults, not just playing the role of wives or mothers.
No Need for Relationship
Single women don’t need to commit themselves to anyone else, because they have something special going on with themselves. Single women can provide and count on themselves, and are happy with forming relationship on their own terms, if they choose to have them. When it comes to pleasure, well single women can make themselves orgasm like no one else out there. Single women who choose this path feel they have it made, and most plant to keep it that way. What else do you need when you can provide, please, and count on yourself?