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11 Things You Can Do To Make A Man Fall In Love With You

Updated on January 2, 2011

Follow these eleven steps to make your new guy fall head over heels in love with you.

You like him. He likes you. You've already gone on your first date. It was great! You call each other every day. You text each other constantly. You get all giddy just thinking about him. He's cute. He's funny. The two of you are compatible. You know he is THE ONE. Now what?

Now that you already know he's the one for you, you've got to convince him that you are THE ONE for him. Fortunately for you, it's not difficult to win a man's heart. You just have to know how to do it.

Follow these tried and true steps to make your new guy fall head over heels in love with you:

1. Be approachable, but not too obviously available. You want him to know you are receptive to his advances, but you don't want him to believe you are desperate or actively on the make.

2. Greet him warmly with a sweet, sincere smile. This will let him know that you are genuinely happy to see him.

3. When he speaks to you, look into his eyes, listen intently to every word he says and nod often to indicate that you are listening (and comprehending) what he is saying.

4. During conversation, touch him gently and briefly on the hand, arm or shoulder. This is a subtle, yet definite indication of interest and affection.

5. Laugh heartily when he tells a joke. This will let him know you appreciate his wit and share his sense of humor.

6. Use your observational skills to determine what his interests are. Learn everything you can about them, and encourage him to share them with you.

7. Learn all you can about the things he values most. Let him know that you respect the things that are important to him.

8, Compliment him often. Let him know how good he is at everything he does.

9. Be considerate of his feelings. Show him how thoughtful and considerate you are with your every action and interaction.

10. Tell him how important he is to you, and let him know how profusely grateful you are to have him in your life.

11. Let him have his space. Don't hover over him, spy on him, stalk him or act possessive toward him. Refusing to allow a man to have personal space and time is the quickest way to alienate a man and drive him out of your life forever! By all means, give him the space he needs.


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      Lorie 5 years ago

      great tips! :) for me, to make a guy fall for you. you just have to your self. IF you want to be THE ONE for him. then be THE ONE for her.

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      Polly 5 years ago

      I see whether its gone work cause I give up and not feel to beloved anymore

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      mash 6 years ago

      quiet don't know yet, if it is useful or not. but will let you.i think it won,t be that useful

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      Ashley 6 years ago

      i was on the edge to give up but wil try again.. **,

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      BOB 6 years ago

      #11 is important.

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      maricel 7 years ago

      wew! now i know!,haha,luv this tips!!

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      Lisa 7 years ago

      Some real good tips here, definitely one of the best hubs I've seen.

      Keep it up.


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      klenkein 7 years ago

      that was great, it confirmed what i knew

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      cloe 7 years ago

      each time I met a man it never lasted more than a few days . . . I was very fond of two of my boyfriends . . . . and then heard nothing more from them . . .

      I was disappointed each time and even got to the stage of not wanting to meet anyone else . . . until the day I read your book . . . I then I wanted to try again . . . I put

      into practice all the advice in THE method of cause and effect . . .


      and I can say that day to day it truly works - that's four months now! and I can tell you there is no

      mistaking the way he looks at me now !!!

      I am VERY HAPPY

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      jasmine guest 8 years ago

      daht ` ss nice ! : )

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      Jen 9 years ago

      what ever happened to just be yourself and you'll attract the RIGHT partner?

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      baby12 10 years ago

      hahahaha i don't know if this article is about "how to make a guy fall in love with you" or "how to be the perfect slave"