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2 Things You Should Know If You’re Having Problems In Your Relationship

Updated on October 14, 2008
 

So you still want to be with your partner even though he or she is getting on your nerves? Well instead of creating an argument (or another argument...depending on your situation), make a change. You have the power to stop all of the problems that your partner presents to you without even saying a word to them. How?

By making changes to yourself.

Here's what you can do:

1. Don't focus so much on the negative. You may be going through a huge argument and it may momentarily make you feel upset. But instead of thinking so much about the problems that you both have, focus on all the things that you love about your partner. What are you grateful for? Change your mood positively by thinking about all the reasons why you're still with him/her. Once you do that your attitude that you have towards your partner may start to disappear.

2. Start falling in love again...with you! Appreciate and be grateful for all the good things that you see in yourself. Make a list of at least 10 things that you can say you really love about yourself. Keep an upbeat and happy demeanor. Having a positive attitude is contagious, and you'll soon start to notice some positive feedback from your partner.

** And on that note, I would like to say this: Your partner is a reflection of you. Love yourself and the person that you're with and the circumstances in your relationship will start to change for the better.

As you go on throughout your day and in your life, I want you to think about this quote...

"However good or bad you feel about your relationship, the person you are with at this moment is the "right" person, because he or she is the mirror of who you are inside."- Deepak Chopra

I wish you all the best in your relationship!

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      Daniel Amis 

      9 years ago from Queens, NY

      You're all welcome!

      Daniel Amis

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      aljenica 

      9 years ago

      thank u very much!! now im enlighten..

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      wambo 

      9 years ago

      Thank I

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