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3 Things Woman want but will NEVER tell you

Updated on January 27, 2011

Woman always have the expectations set that they will always meet a guy that knows exactly what a woman wants. But, most men will agree they have no idea most of the time. Then as you circumvent the waves of the relationship you realize the longer you’re in there the more you really don’t understand. First making a girl like you and then figuring out what she want then you feel like you are going to drown. But I have come up with some things that may help you along the way once you have reached that point of no return.

Here are 3 things women want you to know but will never tell you:

First: Do not always agree with “Everything” she say

1.       She does not want you to agree with *everything* she says.


She want you disagree with her. Do not just agree with everything because you want to make here like you, because it’s a way that a woman will number one know you are listening. That you are able to disagree with her because, you do not like something and that doing so you will become bored. She already knows she is not perfect and treating her like she is can get boring for her. So win her approval through your own personality she already know you are not going to like everything she does.


2.       Most women are not high on being placed on a Pedestal.


There a lot of woman out there that loves to be the center of attention and always want a yes man around. But, as you go through the dating game you will find that the majority of them do not want to be put on a pedestal. They really want you to like them for them. You will find that if they are waited on all the time or ask them if they would like to be most are going to say “yes” To make her want you, you need to see her on the same level playing field that you are currently on otherwise you both will get bored with each other.


3.        Make the first move.


There is a time and place for everything during the course of a relationship. Women expect the men to make the first move not the other way around. They not only want you to but they expect it. If you end up waiting to long for it then it may end up in that friend zone where you really do not want to be. They will not tell you when the time is exactly right but she will give you a lot of clues in the process. Make sure you are interpreting them correctly cause they will come quick and fast

Not everything is covered in this article but stay tuned for more. These are the three most major things woman will never tell you.


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  • Tkumah profile image

    Tkumah 6 years ago

    So true. Some people and some people...

    Good to know that I am not the only one who expect the male to make a move. Much relief...

    Thanks for sharing...

    PS. The man who waits and is slow is the winner in my eyes. Not all fires and desires are kosher....

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    dreamreachout 7 years ago

    Wonderful tips!! Cheers!!

  • pittman452 profile image

    pittman452 7 years ago

    nice advice although i follow a simple guidline like yours but with more advice but thanks for the input

  • caycay21 profile image

    caycay21 7 years ago

    All of those points are so true!

    Girls like to feel special by guys, but not completely worshiped. We want to know the real you, not the person you want to pretend is perfect for us! Give your opinion and embrase it! (:

    I think most girls like it when the guy makes the first move, but if they aren't willing to do it, don't expect us to just sit there. We will either make the move ourself, or move for the door! lol

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    azimimpossible 7 years ago from Jaipur

    Exactly both sexes had plus and minus.Guys too have some interesting facts.But nice points anyways.

  • Ingenira profile image

    Ingenira 7 years ago

    Wow, women are hard to understand ! I think it is the same with men ! lol... You have a few good points here. :)

  • Hello, hello, profile image

    Hello, hello, 7 years ago from London, UK

    You made some very interesting points there. Well done.