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5 Tips How to Make a Girl Like You Without Lying to Her

Updated on October 25, 2018

Every man has this problem. You finally meet a girl that you're interested in and she doesn't even know that you exist. Even if she does, she seems to be completely oblivious to your obvious attraction to her. There are many ways to remedy this problem, most of them easy to follow and almost guaranteed to succeed.

1. Relax

One of the many techniques in how to make a girl like you is to be casual. Do not appear to be desperate or show your feelings overtly. Women feel easily threatened by this type of behavior. In this day and age, being too expressive of your feelings will get you strange looks and in some cases, pepper spray in the eyes.

If you meet her in, greet her in a relaxed way. A simple nod of the head is enough to just acknowledge her presence. This can be followed by an exchange of a few words. Introduce yourself if she doesn't know you. Try not to get into a long conversation with her if you feel you're not up to it. You might make a bad first impression and your first impression should be the best.

When talking to her you have to show confidence, she would also be at ease and this will lead to a more enjoyable conversation. Think about what you are about to say before actually saying it. Most men would feel flustered when talking to a beautiful woman. So, just relax and remember that she is also a human being and subject to the same emotions you have. Chances are she might be tongue-tied too.

2. Clothes make the man

This goes without saying, when you're meeting with a lady you have to look your best. This is one of the ways on how to make a girl like you. This does not mean you should be in a tuxedo all the time. It just means that when there's a chance you are going to run into her, you should appear decently.

Choose a wardrobe that is suitable to your style and build. If you are short and stocky, avoid shirts with horizontal stripes, since it will make you appear wider. If you are tall and gangly, don't wear loose clothes because it will enhance your skinny appearance. It is best to ask an opinion of a friend on the choice of your clothes and make sure they don't lie.

3. Time to shave

Hygiene is one of first things women would look for in a man. Get yourself taken care of before you try to take care of her. Go to a barber and get a nice haircut that won't give you much trouble in maintaining. Your hair should be easy to shampoo to avoid dandruff. Also, you have to make sure it suits the shape of your head. The long 'pretty boy' haircut only works for certain kind of people. Do not take the easy way out and shave your head bald, unless you have a smooth oval head.

This would also be the perfect time to buy a grooming kit and a facial cleanser. Meeting a girl with a hairy and pockmarked face is definitely not how to make a girl like you. Get a smooth clean shave that actually involves shaving cream. Wash your face at least twice a day unless you have a really oily face. Also, apply deodorant if you're meeting her. Women like men who smell nice.

4. Be nice

All the tips given above will be worth nothing if you act like a jerk. Nice guys don't finish last all the time. It pays to be good and fair. You should be polite to her and treat her like a real lady. Be the one to show her that chivalry is not dead. A simple act such as opening the door for her or saving her a seat will get you noticed and admired. This good values plus a sparkling personality might be the tipping point in winning her over.

5. Be ready

Although it is unlikely, there is always the smallest chance where she might reject your advances. If this happens, do not be disappointed and take it like man. Be civil, if not friendly towards her next time you meet. It might be for the best.

These tips will only help if you have the confidence and conviction to woo her. Like in any other activity, practice makes perfect. Be strong and don't be too depressed if it does not work for you straight away. You just have to be patient and persevere.

P.S>. Now you can learn how to meet, attract, and date the kinds of women that you have always If You Aren't Tall, Rich or Handsome.

It's time for you to stop sitting on the sidelines admiring all the beautiful women you see, and start DATING them. I'll show you the best ways to attract any woman, no matter how beautiful she is, or how many other guys are trying to get her attention.


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    • hasnathan profile imageAUTHOR


      17 months ago from indonesia

      Thanks :)

    • hasnathan profile imageAUTHOR


      17 months ago from indonesia

      hello :)

    • sarrylove profile image


      18 months ago


    • dashingscorpio profile image


      18 months ago from Chicago

      "Although it is unlikely, there is always the {smallest chance} where she might reject your advances." Really???

      In the U.S. most men will tell you rejection happens OFTEN!

      The trick is to learn not to let rejection phase you.

      In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: NEXT!

      There really is no "magic formula" for attracting women because they're not all the same. A guy could do the complete opposite of what you suggested and have women falling all over him.

      In fact no one ever hears about the lonely jerk/a-hole, player, narcissist, "bad boy", or gangster/thug because they always have a girl! It's usually the "nice guy" who is lonely, sad, and confused.

      His problem isn't so much that he's too nice but he also Lacks Confidence! He seems nervous and awkward when he speaks to girls. There's a complete absence of "swagger" or "cool".

      You can stick a woman in a room with 5 gives and have four of them drop to their knees extending their heart out towards her while the fifth guy sits in a corner sipping on a cocktail acting as if she does not exist. That will be the guy she wants to get to know!

      She sees him as a mystery, a challenge, and she needs to prove to herself that she can attract him. If she learns other women adore him that makes his stock rise even higher in her eyes. Competition brings out the best in women. She'll bend over backwards to (earn) his attention and affection.

      Sure she'll hang out with the "nice guy" now and then. Every girl needs a good shoulder to cry on and complain about the jerk they're (in love) with from time to time.

      The "nice guy" becomes frustrated and angry with being trapped in the "friend zone" as he watches her go from one jerk to another without ever considering him as a potential mate. It's only after a girl has been hurt several times she gives dating a "nice guy" a chance. Thus the old adage: "Nice guys finish last"

      Another problem is "nice guys" rarely pursue "nice girls"!

      Everyone wants to date someone who is out of their league!

      A man without CONFIDENCE is destined to fail with women.


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